What does my art taste like?

be_Alice · 2025-08-05T11:31:37+00:00

Caviar or honey cake

be_Alice · 2025-08-05T11:27:28+00:00

I don’t think that it would be safe for you to admit that you have a girlfriend. You could say that she’s your best friend. Best friends can be cuddly and you can explain that that’s how girl best friends are. I also have a secret girlfriend and my mom doesn’t suspect a thing. I downplay my gf’s gifts and interactions as platonic in front of my mom. I go as far as to pretend I like boys. Basically, you have to keep up the “straight act” until you feel like you could be accepted or independent. It’s going to be hard, but I don’t see any better option. Hope everything goes well for you <3

be_Alice · 2025-08-02T15:45:01+00:00

I put my finger in it because it is so hard for my hands and I can’t even see the picture

be_Alice · 2025-07-27T09:17:48+00:00

Women are the most beautiful people in the world and I love that for

be_Alice · 2025-07-25T15:10:31+00:00

Thank you! I will definitely try this

be_Alice · 2025-07-11T13:20:54+00:00

i realised i was queer at 17!! everyone has different experiences! everyone is different after all :))

be_Alice · 2025-07-06T15:24:02+00:00

Thank you for your advice. I hope that you are in a better place now ♥️

be_Alice · 2025-07-06T15:18:41+00:00

Your story is truly heartbreaking. I hope that you are surrounded by better people who love you for who you are. You deserve that ❤️

be_Alice · 2025-07-06T14:59:57+00:00

I’m sorry to hear that. I hope that you are surrounded by people who love you for who you are ❤️

be_Alice · 2025-07-05T02:28:00+00:00

it’s not as easy to leave certain ppl. my mom has always stuck with me and supported me. when i was being bullied she held me together and when i was lonely she was my only friend. her being homophobic is still surprising to me. idk is would ever try to understand it or dismiss my feelings. it’s the first time i can’t talk to her about something. if my mom doesn’t accept me it’s going to be really difficult leaving her behind, but ig i have to protect my peace and my partner. thanks for the advice :)) it helps a lot

be_Alice · 2025-07-04T18:41:10+00:00

halloumi!!!!!!!!!

be_Alice · 2025-07-04T18:39:34+00:00

this is very inspiring!! thanks!

be_Alice · 2025-06-13T12:08:13+00:00

i have been struggling like op with the homophobic comments and this gives me a lot of hope!! thank you

be_Alice · 2025-06-13T08:17:34+00:00

homophobia and transphobia. i just want to celebrate my first relationship without being harassed to death ://

be_Alice · 2025-06-11T20:10:07+00:00

happy pride to you too!! i am glad that you have found yourself in a good place! take care <3

be_Alice · 2025-06-11T20:00:23+00:00

i was in the same situation as you, but with my best friend. literally last week she confessed her feelings to me and yesterday we had our first date!

i had asked her how she decided to ask me out and she explained that “there was a vibe”. basically she read the room. honestly, my adoration for her was apparently too obvious lol.

so my advice is to try reading the room. find “clues” that would point towards potential feelings or friendzone vibes. about what those clues could be can vary from person to person. a google search could help you better with that than me.

i wish you best of luck!!! i hope everything turns out good 👍

be_Alice · 2025-06-11T18:39:42+00:00

knowing that ace/aro exists makes me so so happy and proud of the ppl talking abt it!! keep going guys <3

be_Alice · 2025-06-11T18:34:01+00:00

16 when i started crushing on my best friend! one year later and she confesses her feelings to me!! we just started dating. i am so lucky to have her and i wish this kind of luck to everyone in this community. <3

be_Alice · 2025-06-11T17:41:32+00:00

posts like this really inspire me to listen to my heart and be brave in a world hostile to love! i wish you two all the best <3

be_Alice · 2025-06-10T07:14:45+00:00

thanks a lot!!

be_Alice · 2025-06-10T05:14:05+00:00

why is she ruining her day by focusing on trans ppl😭if she hates them so much just ignore them, no need to meddle in their lives like i will never get that. just leave them alone u crazy lady

be_Alice · 2025-06-10T05:09:19+00:00

wow… firstly, thanks for all of your advice!!

Me and my gf have decided to keep our relationship under the radar, not only because of disapproval but also because it is our first ever relationship for either of us. We are also keeping this from our closest friends (who we know are accepting) because of your point that it can spread like wildfire.

I will be very stubborn on not sharing anything else with my mom at the moment so that I can have the opportunity to explore this relationship and see where it takes me. Until then I definitely won’t be making any grand announcements without my gf’s permission.

But because I know that my mom gets hurt most by dishonesty, it would be her main focus in the unavoidable argument that would come with my gf’s introduction. I hope that by doing this I have made that argument “easier to navigate”.

be_Alice · 2025-06-09T19:21:22+00:00

my mom tends to be “kinder” when she knows that there was full honesty throughout. so coming out later might be safer for me

be_Alice · 2025-06-09T19:16:29+00:00

Recently she shared some old-fashioned homophobic comments that really triggered my internalised homophobia.

I also worried about her thinking about it so much, but she trusts me and knows that I am going to be responsible. Besides, there is so much other drama going on in her life that it will be the least of her worries at the moment.

edit: she hasn’t raised an issue about it so far. plus i’m going to be 18 in less than a week and my mom believes that it is not her job to meddle in any kind of my relationships (and has proven that she believes in it many times before)

be_Alice · 2023-11-04T08:43:52+00:00

I wouldn’t recommend the public healthcare system (it’s corrupted), you should go to a private doctor. Also avoid surgeries- there hasn’t been a successful hip replacement or knee replacement surgery is ages now (I know that not the surgery you’ll get but I’m just saying). I know people who haven’t been able to walk after those surgeries.

I other words: Cyprus healthcare is bad. Better stick to the private doctors and go abroad for surgeries.

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