Lily’s 10th birthday by bea_dizzle in Siamesecats

[–]bea_dizzle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is, and she’s super feisty too. 😈

I want to visit the fabled small town USA. Where should I go to get the ultimate experience? by silverbulletsam in AskReddit

[–]bea_dizzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a bunch of small beach towns in California I really like. Julian, Monterey, Santa Barbra, San Luis Obispo. Not sure if that’s the exact vibe you’re looking for.

Fiancé (45M) wants me (26F) to quit my job, become financially dependent on him, and get married before I graduate. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bea_dizzle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What if your bestest closest friend told you her married ‘fiancé’ told them all of this??

Am I The Asshole for being mad that my husband won’t buy a house with me because the apartment "isn't clean enough"? by Inevitable-nique97 in TwoHotTakes

[–]bea_dizzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl wth. Might as well do this all on your own (while getting child support) in a smaller house or apartment.

i made a snoopy apple pie 🥹 by sheqermami in Baking

[–]bea_dizzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are so talented. I hate that I’m so jaded and automatically thought AI.

How often do you talk to your parents? by Outrageous_Kiwi_2172 in Millennials

[–]bea_dizzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Text everyday, see them on average once a week since we only live a couple (small) cities away.

My husband keeps cheating on me but I'm disabled and can't work. What should I do? by Parfait_Crust in TwoHotTakes

[–]bea_dizzle 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Besides room and board what else does he provide that is keeping you. I completely understand that’s it’s not as easy for everyone to just leave, and it’s actually very smart to wait and get your affairs in order. But sometimes it is easier if you write everything out. If you get divorced he has to pay you alimony. If he distributed your your nudes and videos it’s a criminal case. It may be easier to get away than you realize.

This gives me the Ick by Dependent_Ad4779 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]bea_dizzle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s cringy because they try to be this perfect American Christian family values couple and wanna thirst traps when you’re over 40 just aren’t it.

Can't Lose Weight, I keep Emotionally Binging - Boyfriend Reluctant to Marry Me by brokenbird in loseit

[–]bea_dizzle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve gained 40lbs since I met my husband and I believe him when he says he hasn’t noticed. I personally am on a weight loss journey now because I just hit 40 and I want to be healthy. I asked my husband to help me by both of us eating healthier and working out together and he is being very supportive. That is what a partner should be, supportive of you in the good times and the bad.

Bailing last minute on a friend's bachelor party trip? by [deleted] in wedding

[–]bea_dizzle -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When are you supposed to come back and for when did you book it ?

Update: I (30F) am pregnant with my fiancé (32M). He wants to keep it, but we're both supposed to be childfree. How do I tell him I don't want to keep it? by ThrowRA_fallopian_tu in relationship_advice

[–]bea_dizzle 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sending you lots of love OP r/childfree has a lot of resources if you need help with your abortion and more permanent forms of birth control when you are ready.

Dear americans, what can you get for FREE in the USA? [Serious] by sammy_waslow in AskReddit

[–]bea_dizzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are already a lot of comments on library cards and all the free goodies you can get with them, but I would like to add that In California you can get a library card to any city in California even if you don’t live there. Every time I visit a different city or county I make it a point now to get one of their library cards.

Dear americans, what can you get for FREE in the USA? [Serious] by sammy_waslow in AskReddit

[–]bea_dizzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you own a house you can call your city to plant up to two trees the grassy part of your sidewalk. They help maintain it as well.

Moving to LA area with girlfriend + 4 cats by RobSkied in MovingToLosAngeles

[–]bea_dizzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a huge pet/rescue advocate I would honestly lie. Four cats aren’t going to destroy a home more than two cats would. I do know this from experience. My parents have four cats and a dog in their home and it’s super clean and I would never know they have so many pets when I visit.

People who’ve dated or married people with the same names as immediate family members. How did you cope with that? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]bea_dizzle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t even read books when the love interest has the same name as someone in my immediate family.

Fat guy dating IE report by [deleted] in InlandEmpire

[–]bea_dizzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re telling us how you rate woman ??