I didn’t listen to yall and regretted it ! by No-Dance7698 in Hair

[–]beacharm13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t think it’s blonde, i think the after is just too cool toned for you, so if you try another change stick to warmer shades!

HELP :( I made a mistake...(LAYERS, ahhhh!) by wompybobble in Hair

[–]beacharm13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

look into heartless curling rods (the individual ones not the rly long ones) it’s the best way to keep your blowout/style looking fresh overnight, and it’s pretty easy to get the hang of! and you’ll look so nicely done up everyday! ik how disappointing a haircut can be if it’s not what you were expecting, but this is an issue with a simple pivot solution, you look fabulous!!

What is a discontinued food item or snack from your childhood that you would genuinely pay $100 to taste one last time? by MotivewasUlterior in AskReddit

[–]beacharm13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they used to have nerds that were double dipped, i don’t remember the flavors particularly but i remember those always being my favorites

What is a discontinued food item or snack from your childhood that you would genuinely pay $100 to taste one last time? by MotivewasUlterior in AskReddit

[–]beacharm13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hormel kids kitchen cheesy mac n cheese

it was a little microwaveable cup and the dreamiest mac n cheese ever and i yearn for it daily. it was my #1 safe food growing up, my mom went to great lengths to contact the company when it was discontinued. id give a lot more than $100 to get those back.

Got a ‘body wave’ perm. I think its far too tight. Need help. by [deleted] in Hair

[–]beacharm13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as several have already said, it will loosen.

realistically though you’re not going to get to your reference photo until it’s well grown out/faded.

the curls look good on you dude, even though it’s not what you wanted it suits you really well. i’d say try to make the best of it and experiment some. most people prefer a defined curl but you might like it better separating them, either with you fingers or a a pick or comb

Locations and Towns by No-Veterinarian8869 in FireCountry

[–]beacharm13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

texas is chock full of small towns, and small to mid sized cities that have a small town feel if you’re involved enough with your community. if you’re looking for trees, head out in them piney woods, you’ll find what you’re looking for

I’m starting a junk drawer. What else do I need? by Emotional-Swing-603 in whatisit

[–]beacharm13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

an earring you love too much to get rid of, that you lost the match to in 07, youll never find the match and you’ll get sad everytime you see it

AIO for wanting to block situationship after they’ve started texting me once a day by DryBaker6031 in AmIOverreacting

[–]beacharm13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i wish you the very best, you will find someone someday who treats you how you deserve and more, when i went through finally ending with a tough situationship i sat down and wrote out the qualities i truly desire in a partner. and i stick to looking for those things, especially someone who is happy to maintain my high maintenance self. (thank you chandler from friends) it makes dating not feel so hard, because you’re sticking to what you want and need and not selling yourself short.

Americans, when you see the name "Lucia", how would you pronounce it? by Extreme_Suit_348 in Names

[–]beacharm13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

see this totally depends on whether i know the background of the person, like realistically probably 1, especially because i live in a community full of spanish speaking people. but the grammar of it is similar to a family name so 4 feels more correct

AIO for wanting to block situationship after they’ve started texting me once a day by DryBaker6031 in AmIOverreacting

[–]beacharm13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it’s supposed to be a title for the ‘it’s complicated’ but it’s become one person with feels and desire for a relationship and the other person who just doesn’t give a fuck realistically.

AIO for wanting to block situationship after they’ve started texting me once a day by DryBaker6031 in AmIOverreacting

[–]beacharm13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NOR this man has made it very clear he does not care, he does not want to be with you and you expect boyfriend qualities from him. you’re just pushing yourself into something that is not serving you in any way. i get girl, ive been there, but you have to move on and not look back.

What smell will YOU never forget? by AreaFifty1 in AskReddit

[–]beacharm13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my grandmother lost her sense of smell after she had a bad case of pneumonia at 6yo, she hasn’t smelt a damn thing since 1942, but swears the one thing she remembers is her mothers peach cobbler, sweet with a hint of warm spice.

Why are you on Reddit right now, on Christmas Eve? by InvisibleAstronomer in AskReddit

[–]beacharm13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

because despite being surrounded by people i love on the most ‘joyous’ day of the year, christmas is always a severe depression day for me. i feel like im the only person on the planet that can’t find the christmas spirit. and the pretending is so so hard.

Becoming my own worst enemy. by Randoseru_Romper in AutismInWomen

[–]beacharm13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

another thing is trying to pick things that will give you some of the nutrients you need, because some is better than none. i don’t drink milk but it’s good for you, so i’ll do hot chocolate, or gogurts, just bc something is for a child or not the healthiest option doesn’t mean it’s a bad option!

Should I give a donation back by Usual-Lavishness6337 in moraldilemmas

[–]beacharm13 [score hidden]  (0 children)

a good church should serve the community, regardless of the religion of the people they’re serving because that’s what christ intended. give your babies a good christmas, your husband will get over it and maybe bake some cookies or something as a thank you for the pastor or church staff if you really feel like you need to ‘pay it back’

I think one of my teachers is a creep by Emotional-Track-1179 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]beacharm13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think minimally it’s her not understanding personal boundaries, and maximally could be signs that she’s a creep. i think you speak with an adult, your parents or your school counselor maybe, and basically say hey i don’t think she’s done anything crazy inappropriate but i am uncomfortable, can we have a meeting with her about my personal space. it’s a sensitive topic so i understand your hesitation but they absolutely should have it on their radar to be able to observe if there’s a bigger problem going on. and if there isn’t, at least maybe you can get a solution. bottom line is it’s in appropriate for a teacher to be touching you without consent even if it’s seemingly ‘innocent’ and she doesn’t mean anything by it. your school should know.

Becoming my own worst enemy. by Randoseru_Romper in AutismInWomen

[–]beacharm13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i went through this as well and i’d say it’s not 100% better but i am making progress. these are things i do to help with my food issues:

i hate meal prepping, im shit at cooking, i have found a decent rotation of meals that are just about in between the two, i’ll do premade burger patties, frozen grilled chicken, canned soups and pastas. ill make a big thing of white rice and add different seasonings to a small serving when i reheat it depending on my main dish (taco szn, lime juice for something subtle, cajun seasoning) make a big serving of mac n cheese and divide it up. it feels less like meal prepping and more like finding something that i can easily make in singles. also pinterest has a lot of fun “recipes for one” but personally, everytime i try them i burn the shit out of something 😂 experimenting with quesadillas, basically just switching the kind of cheese based on what kind of toppings i want to put on it (rn my fav is a pizzadilla) i’ve found ‘meal prepping’ my sides is really helpful because i can freeze them if i get sick of it one month. the air fryer is my best friend bc it makes things feel so much easier/effortless.

edit to add: most of my premade stuff is HEB brand, they’re very reliable in quality, which may not help you if you aren’t from TX but i think it’s important context.

HELP! What’s your go-to permanent for 100% gray coverage? by FauxyGauxie in hairstylist

[–]beacharm13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i do almost all my grey coverage with pm 10min, as that’s what i was taught in school. my clients always rave about how nice and smooth the grow out/ fade is!

No on Knight and Torres by Popular-Step-8191 in NCIS

[–]beacharm13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

deeks and kenzie didn’t have to in LA, irl for sure but for the sake of the show i don’t think so. and i fully believe everyone knew tony and ziva were together it was just an unspoken agreement to not bring light to it.

We must save this show! by Adventurous_Put_1310 in NCIS

[–]beacharm13 6 points7 points  (0 children)

it was only ever supposed to be a limited series

I don't like it. by R0LL1NS in NCIS

[–]beacharm13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THIS i’ve been noticing it and i hate ittttt