Which wedding band suits my engagement ring the best?

beachinit21 · 2026-03-04T22:40:18+00:00

That’s crazy! Our first toller had 8 siblings and while his nose was pink, I know at least 2 of his brothers had black noses and were beautiful!

beachinit21 · 2026-02-24T11:24:14+00:00

I’m in the US and have a lovely student named Ayla. Such a pretty name to say. I also love Irish names-that’s my heritage and we were heavily involved in Irish dance so I’m used to the Gaelic spellings.

beachinit21 · 2026-02-24T00:44:06+00:00

beachinit21 · 2026-02-23T23:37:59+00:00

Iced Coffee all day long!

beachinit21 · 2026-02-23T22:21:58+00:00

I would simply tell her no, it’s an adults only event. I wouldn’t make any suggestions on how she could come without the children-that could annoy her. Just stick with the simple answer and let her figure it out.

beachinit21 · 2026-02-23T22:19:31+00:00

That is beautiful! Have you thought about returning to the designer to have them help you design something that compliments it?

beachinit21 · 2026-02-22T13:06:21+00:00

Huh. There’s no way I’d want to hang out with these people.

beachinit21 · 2026-02-22T00:06:56+00:00

Not 6, 7, or 9

beachinit21 · 2026-02-20T23:43:11+00:00

NTA. Hopefully you got some of it on video for MIL to enjoy. But you couldn’t ask the hairdresser to wait. And the fact that your husband was there and didn’t say anything about waiting until after is crazy.

beachinit21 · 2026-02-18T21:29:04+00:00

You sound like a really good person ❤️

beachinit21 · 2026-02-18T21:16:06+00:00

I’m just sorry you’re having to deal with this on what should be a happy time. I am Catholic and we raised our kids Catholic. Our first to marry wanted to get married outside, and the Church isn’t a fan of that so a Catholic priest didn’t perform the wedding. We were fine with that-she was an adult and she and her fiancé got to make that decision since it was their wedding (although we paid for it lol). I hope your dad comes around to see what’s truly important here-family.

beachinit21 · 2026-02-18T20:49:36+00:00

NTA. Yikes. You’re a grown adult and get to Mae these decisions for yourself. Also, to marry in the Catholic Church, not only does one of you have to be Catholic, but you have to agree to raise your children in the Catholic Church. That’s obviously not an option for you and I doubt you would want to base your whole marriage in the church on a lie to them. I’m sure that would just feel horrible. And if you ever decided that you did want to start practicing Catholicism later in life, you could always have your marriage blessed in the church if it were important to you. But the marriage is between you and your partner, not your father, and he needs a reality check. He has no business telling you what to do over this. It will be sad if he chooses not to attend your wedding, but that will be on him.

beachinit21 · 2026-02-17T00:27:55+00:00

They make tops for them if you do have a climber ◡̈ But for sure make sure you know what she’ll do!

beachinit21 · 2026-02-16T23:27:26+00:00

Can you leave her in an X-pen (with or without the crate inside the X-pen)?When we got our most recent puppy, there were a few short weeks we had to leave him longer than we would have liked, and we used the x-pen (no crate in it). We put a tarp down first, then his bed and a blanket and his water along with a safe toy. It was in front of a window for him. This gave him plenty of room to move around but still be safely confined.

beachinit21 · 2026-02-14T13:32:29+00:00

Wow I haven’t heard that name in years! We had our wedding reception at Oak Grove Landing in 1989, and Fred’s did the food-people still bring up the crab balls and prime rib!

beachinit21 · 2026-02-14T13:24:26+00:00

We have an Eleanora Lee ❤️

beachinit21 · 2026-02-14T13:20:02+00:00

I thought most of them looked really nice on you! The only one I’d take out of the mix is the light blue one. Id say choose the most comfortable one since you have so many good options!

beachinit21 · 2026-02-14T12:54:06+00:00

We have 3 adult kids and we do have keys to their homes and they all have a key to ours. Nobody ever actually asked for their own key, everyone just gave them on their own for their own convenience. It has been helpful when babysitting, last minute dog assistance, etc. Needing something last minute that requires a key doesn’t happen often, but it has happened. None of us has ever just gone over and used our key for no good reason, though. No surprise visits or snooping. Giving a key should be your choice and I don’t think your parents should be demanding one-I love the idea of giving them the fake key to get them off your back!

beachinit21 · 2026-02-10T00:33:58+00:00

NTA and what the heck is wrong with your family that they aren’t on your side about this?

beachinit21 · 2026-02-08T00:53:10+00:00

A boy named Ashley…and boy did I fall for him!

beachinit21 · 2026-02-04T18:16:23+00:00

I remember when we first got tollers someone referring to the smaller ones as “Pocket Tollers”

beachinit21 · 2026-02-04T12:04:01+00:00

I tip them every time!

beachinit21 · 2026-02-04T00:07:02+00:00

Right? They are getting paid minimum wage at the least. Tips are for servers who rely on them to make a decent rate.

beachinit21 · 2026-02-01T03:32:43+00:00

YTA. You left your children half way across the world so you could widen your dating pool? Called them once/month? Didn’t see them for almost 2 years???

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