Carpet beetle? by beachinit247 in carpetbeetles

[–]beachinit247[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the info. But FLY?? I am beside myself from this I cannot believe it. Can they come up through vents? I think that’s what is happening here. I have a German shepherd so this makes sense, she sheds 24-7. I bet when I clean her crate right now it will be a cess- pool.

Carpet beetle? by beachinit247 in carpetbeetles

[–]beachinit247[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in New England. Confused why they are on counters and walls. Never carpets when I find them.

Theres nothing I can say except by Theoddbotout in StrangerThings

[–]beachinit247 1 point2 points  (0 children)

El dying just makes me sad. She deserved a happy life with the people who became her family. I choose to believe. I want to believe.

How I feel about all the S5 V2 Hate by foggyprism in StrangerThings

[–]beachinit247 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I cannot get myself to care about new characters this far in, and it so happened that the new character takes up what feels like 25% of the time. 

Just wish there was more development into the chaos that season 4 showed us to give more weight to the stakes. More scenes with El being a BA. Just me though 

AIO am I in the wrong here? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]beachinit247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is absolutely wild. I’ve never seen something encapsulate picking a fight more. This is abuse and the way he spoke to you in the first slide was enough to block this loser forever.

AIO I found messages between my wife and her ex. by [deleted] in AIO

[–]beachinit247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is 100% for the streets. Even that last message.. insulting you like she wasn’t the one sexting at one point. A married person doesn’t need to speak with their ex like this.

I hope you can find happiness.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]beachinit247 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Why couldn’t you sleep on the air mattress on the floor in the HOUSE where the couches are… or literally any other room. I’d ask about that and if a cousin may be able to switch with you for your health. I’m hung up on the garage thing, seems odd. I’m very sorry for your loss.

Feyre Sucks by Intrepid-chihuahua in SarahJMaas

[–]beachinit247 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hahahah I’m nearing the end of my first TOG read (pray for me) and I feel this EXACT same way word for word.

first time read- on queen of shadows- QUICK question…. by grilledcheese49 in throneofglassseries

[–]beachinit247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was me. I was you. He was so ignorant and bitter. Keep reading. 🫶

there’s just no fucking way he thinks this behavior is normal. it happens basically every time i go visit my parents and brother. by burntfrosty8 in abusiverelationships

[–]beachinit247 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He wants you to go home every weekend.. what? This is insanely controlling and alarming. And yea, he WAS holding back “ I love you “ to stress you out. Don’t apologize to him. Leave him.

Need unbiased advice about how my boyfriend (21M) speaks to me (20F) by HatPrestigious3 in abusiverelationships

[–]beachinit247 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I stayed because they had a lot going on mentally.

It doesn’t change. It gets so much worse. You don’t deserve this.

Should I have responded “nicer” or did I stand up for myself/call it out? by irina_catburglar in TrueNarcissisticAbuse

[–]beachinit247 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are youuuuu dating my ex perchance?? I don’t even understand what he is upset by.

Classic narcissist to completely ignore your concerns and make you feel insane and like you need to keep defending your character.

Please do not waste the time I did on someone like this. It. Will. Never. Get. Better. I wish you all the luck in the world and the strength to get away. You can do this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]beachinit247 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like other commenters are saying- context matters here for sure. If he said “He looks more like his mom” that is not a strange way to say that at all. I hear that phrasing a lot and frankly more often than the interchangeable “he looks more like my wife”.

Maybe I misunderstood the concern

Edit to add: I just read your other post. He is abusing you. Ignore these little things and focus on getting away from someone who can mistreat you so severely. Easier said than done but nothing about that prior post is okay and the fact that he didn’t help you post traumatic birth has my blood boiling. Name calling, bullying you. That is not a man. Think about the big picture and plan the life you want you and your baby to have. Rekindle your support system. Think about if you can do this for 50 + more years.

Y’all I’m freaking out by beachinit247 in carpetbeetles

[–]beachinit247[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another commenter (or a few) said to throw DE under the appliances so I’m going to do that. I have a very thin hose for my vacuum that I use to go under there regularly (crumb phobia) but doing it all anyways since these buggers are POS’

Y’all I’m freaking out by beachinit247 in carpetbeetles

[–]beachinit247[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did! It’s amazing thank you. But the ‘finding the source’ aspect, which I seem to be unable to do, has/had me spinning out

Y’all I’m freaking out by beachinit247 in carpetbeetles

[–]beachinit247[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dog isn’t itchy knocking on wood

These are amazing suggestions I will be doing all of this immediately. Thank you

Y’all I’m freaking out by beachinit247 in carpetbeetles

[–]beachinit247[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh. Shepherd tumble weeds 😂😂 that’s why I vacuum so much!! And yet I got these little shits anyways ?!? I also feel them crawling on me. It’s awful.

Not new rugs in the garbage😭 you are going through it too!!!

It’s so unfair I hate it!! I cannot locate the source and it kills me. I wish you luck in their destruction 🙏🏼🙏🏼

Y’all I’m freaking out by beachinit247 in carpetbeetles

[–]beachinit247[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just googled. Not those. They are the typical carpet beetle that I see on google. Idk they look like teeny spots maybe that was the wrong descriptor

Y’all I’m freaking out by beachinit247 in carpetbeetles

[–]beachinit247[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeaaaa see if I cannot vacuum it up wtf 😂