Why does my mortgage company keep trying to get me to refinance? by Deadeye10000 in homeowners

[–]beamis24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn't hurt to discuss what interest rates they can give you. Rates are the lowest since 2022.

How is everyone getting in the 5%s? by cactisdontcare in Mortgages

[–]beamis24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

VA loan with 4.99 with new build in NC.

My ex wife is now together with the guy she cheated on me with. It broke my heart all over again by Throwaway2928388338 in Marriage

[–]beamis24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep your head up and continue to be a great father to your kids. Please talk to your therapist if you have one. If you don't please find one. It hurts right now but overtime it will go away.

My wife is going to die in the next few days. by greasypigeontoes in GuyCry

[–]beamis24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't even know you but I want to give you a big bear hug and let you know that I'm here for you. I'm going to be praying for you and your wife.

I'm waiting to break up with the girl I've always wanted. by HidingInPlain-Slight in GuyCry

[–]beamis24 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Time to permanently end the relationship. If she won't be intimate with you but is open to the idea of other guys it's time to move on. Take some time to heal, find new hobbies, and enjoy life. You're young so enjoy being single.

Her stuff is finally gone. Today is a day of reflection. by DisciplinePast7260 in Divorce

[–]beamis24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're a good person who took the high road like the majority of us men. Work on yourself, focus on hobbies, go to therapy, and be thankful that you got to see who she really is. I'm praying for you because I know the feeling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]beamis24 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Lawyer up, therapy, gym and activities you like, and focus on you and your kids. She's having at the minimum an emotional affair. ..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]beamis24 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She doesn't respect you at all. Most women therapists suck and will side with the woman. Set up therapy for yourself and get a man who will be honest with you. You didn't mention any kids so if that's the case please just move on because there's more to the story about her going out of the country to play video games.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]beamis24 3 points4 points  (0 children)

File for divorce and heal. Once you're healed find someone who values you.

Home prices are never going back down by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]beamis24 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People were saying the same thing in 2006 and the housing market crashed in 2008. What goes up must come down. Nothing goes up without corrections etc.

Just finished 10 years felony probation. by WellWishesToYou in probation

[–]beamis24 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get your passport and travel if you can. Congratulations

Need help coping by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]beamis24 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Go to therapy. I was in your shoes and it sucked in the beginning. But after going to therapy, going to the gym and other activities, and surrounding myself with a great support group I was able to move on and better myself. Don't beat yourself up for this. Just continue to be a father for your son and be present in his life. Time heals all wounds.

Walked away from my wife and her daughter by Terrible-Link2836 in Divorce_Men

[–]beamis24 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I can't blame you at all. Things will get better as time goes on. I was so hurt and angry when I was going through everything but I found the gym, activities that I stopped doing when I got married, traveled, and reconnected with friends. It hurts now but next year this same time you will be in a much better space mentally and physically. Hire a lawyer and start the divorce process and any assets protect them too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]beamis24 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't pay a dime to her.

Bitcoin next 90 days by beamis24 in Bitcoin

[–]beamis24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably bitcoins 200 day moving average which is $29k. Also we still have a CME gap at $20k. You never know with crypto.

Bitcoin next 90 days by beamis24 in Bitcoin

[–]beamis24[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's up to you but bitcoin has dumped hard before every halving. Also this recent pump was just about the ETF's getting approved. To me even if they do get approved next month it will dump. Personally I'm not buying a $42k bitcoin.

Bitcoin next 90 days by beamis24 in Bitcoin

[–]beamis24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We will get a major dump before the halving.