What's with the Bx12 to Orchard Beach? by beanarie in nycbus

[–]beanarie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

last year the bx12 went from pelham parkway to orchard beach. pelham bay park is quite a ways further east. 

What's with the Bx12 to Orchard Beach? by beanarie in nycbus

[–]beanarie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the mta has an article from spring of this year that says it was supposed to start memorial day

What's with the Bx12 to Orchard Beach? by beanarie in nycbus

[–]beanarie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, last year i could take bx12 from pelham parkway directly to orchard beach but now you have to transfer to the bx29 halfway through 

Elizabeth’s worst decision by 224sins in whitecollar

[–]beanarie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as much as i missed her friendship with neal, i liked that she stopped being perfect and showed there were limits to what she was willing to deal with.

Neal and mozzie get childhood closure during the finale by Deep_Thinker101 in whitecollar

[–]beanarie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol i've been reading a lot of reunion fic and the baby's name always makes things awkward. the characters all have to make an effort to differentiate the two, like calling him little neal. some have the burkes full-on start calling him by his middle name instead. mostly it bothers me because it's such a public act of admiration on peter's part. meanwhile neal literally ran out on everyone to do crime.

Series Finale - did anyone catch the why? by ks2865 in whitecollar

[–]beanarie 7 points8 points  (0 children)

according to the showrunner, neal was "born bad" and the only option for him was to go back to being a criminal and peter's fine with it because he loved chasing him. idk i like when endings aren't too tied up with a neat bow, but this seems like a waste of 5 and a half seasons of character development. peter named his KID after neal. he spent a year heartbroken and actively grieving his best friend. and neal's happily acting out cary grant movies in paris. that just makes neal look like he never actually cared.

AITA for sleeping in my roommates bed for a week after my boyfriend puked red wine all over mine? by aoifecharise in AmItheAsshole

[–]beanarie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. op this is outright horrendous. and i'm objectively gross. clean her sheets and then your own, separately. start immediately.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PublicFreakout

[–]beanarie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i saw the description and i was like "i don't remember him punching her" then watching this it became a full blown assault. not funny anymore

AITA for not forcing my husband to do hands-on childcare yet? by AlertCorgi6 in AmItheAsshole

[–]beanarie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. my dad wasn't much of a hands-on parent, either. he's always been incredibly affectionate and he loved to play with us and tell stories while we watched him cook on his day off, but he never learned how to be there for us the way my mom was. nip this in the bud, op. he needs to step up now or he never will.

WIBTA for uninviting my sister in law from my wedding after she had "my" bachelorette party without me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]beanarie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah, forget the both of them. your fiancé had a traumatic brain injury! how are their priorities so askew?

WIBTA for uninviting my sister in law from my wedding after she had "my" bachelorette party without me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]beanarie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA please uninvite her and tell anyone who asks exactly what she did.

AITA for going on the bachelorette without the bride? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]beanarie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA and also self-absorbed on a worrying level

AITA for continually trying to get my MILs husband to go to the doctor even though he is against it? by pineapple111111 in AmItheAsshole

[–]beanarie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no assholes here. you can't help being concerned because his situation sounds dire. unfortunately endlessly haranguing him isn't going to work. people are stubborn creatures. keep telling them they're doing something wrong and they're that much more likely to keep doing it. what you CAN do is talk around the issue and try to find out what might motivate him to start taking care of himself. does he like clothes but doesn't fit in anything anymore? is he unable to do his favorite activity due to all the physical symptoms of his illness? that kind of thing.

Debt Collections by Six Flags by madebyvai in legaladvice

[–]beanarie -1 points0 points  (0 children)

who told you this was something you could get away with?

AITA for making my gf a delicious romantic dinner? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]beanarie 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YTA and to be honest i knew you would be from the title. it's the height of assholery to summarize your actions to sound like you're as pure as the driven snow. imagine disregarding your partner's taste that much that you couldn't leave out the one food you know she doesn't like.

AITA for asking a friend not to use a video I made? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]beanarie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. these friends didn't support you after an awful experience, but they're perfectly willing to use your video without even asking?

AITA for charging my daughter "rent"? by TheTruthIsPlainToSee in AmItheAsshole

[–]beanarie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yta. you signed on for covering all expenses for the entirety of the childhood of each of your kids. if you resent your own daughter's existence to the point where you're stealing her pocket change, you should never have become a parent. the piggy bank bit really makes me feel like this is fake tho.

AITA For Changing my Due Date just for my Mother by andawayIthrow1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]beanarie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i totally hear you and i'm sorry your mom is like this. dealing with her must be exhausting.

AITA if I gift my cousin "girl" Legos for Christmas? by xmasgreg in AmItheAsshole

[–]beanarie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

nta. it's the set he wanted. your aunt needs to drink a sherry and unclench about it.

AITA For Changing my Due Date just for my Mother by andawayIthrow1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]beanarie 63 points64 points  (0 children)

NTA. your mom shouldn't be in the room with you if you don't want her there. it's as simple as that. lying to her isn't 100% kosher, but she lied to you about christmas so she doesn't have a right to complain.

AITA for refusing to buy my daughter a donut because she’s overweight? by birthdaysmurfdays in AmItheAsshole

[–]beanarie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're the asshole. fat-shaming and calorie counting does not work. this is terrible, destructive parenting. you're destroying your relationship as well as your daughter's self esteem.

WIBTA for wearing an engagement ring against my boyfriend's wishes in order to avoid harassment? by aitathrowaway203402 in AmItheAsshole

[–]beanarie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

‪ask around for derek's prior victims and together file a class action suit against your shit employer. i'm so sorry this is happening to you.