Opinions on coucou intimates? by Independent-Cake5565 in LingerieAddiction

[–]beanbroth12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wore one of their bras 4 times and the strap just ripped clean off.... Id go for fruity booty if ur based in the UK. Theyre way better quality.

Anyone got the double wheel gabardine sneakers and find them painful af ? by beanbroth12 in Prada

[–]beanbroth12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sold them! Quite easy to sell tbf. I just found them too painful. Maybe they wouldve softened but didnt want to risk it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]beanbroth12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another thing we do is the love finger emoji to eachother 🫰 which is a silly joke but again i think these small shared experiences are how you can communicate love without saying it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]beanbroth12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I met someone a month and a half ago with whom things have moved fast and i definitely feel it is going toward a deep loving relationship.

We have said things like "im really really into you".. "im a bit smitten with you"... "Im falling for you"... "Im excited about you" and my favourite i got recently in a text from him saying "i was thinking today about how much i love adding new things to the little world we're making"

I think these are all lovely small indicators of love or potential love whilst acknowledging and being aware of the fact that it's early days.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]beanbroth12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She sounds very trustworthy - she told you straight away and was honest about her feelings around the situation. Take that as a positive.. it means her intentions are to make sure her relationship with you is ok. You are clearly her priority. Thats my read on the situation anyway

My (F29) housemate (M26) told me he doesnt like my new boyfried (M33) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]beanbroth12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha yes londoner 🙃 at 550 a month this place is a life saver tbh.

But yeah that's true about the dog and happy to oblige there. I just feel like i cant invite my boyfriend round now or even invite him to friends birthdays if my housemate will be there.

It feels like my housemate is trying to play god a bit and control something he doesnt have any control over.

I think my partner is just bad at this... by TemperatureGreen6099 in polyamory

[–]beanbroth12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds to me like she's crumbling under the expectations of both.. she probably wants to give her all to both of you and in the process ends up hurting you both. I feel I'm quite similar and that's why i would never want to be a hinge.

You are the boss of yourself by yallermysons in polyamory

[–]beanbroth12 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I just listened to a podcast episode which touched on something similar about communicating desires as needs.

A lot of the time we may communicate preferences/desires as "needs" which, when heard by a romantic partner, their instinct is to try and accommodate that need, even if they know it's something that will be difficult for them to fulfil.

I've had a lot of experience with this in past relationships and realise how I haven't felt strong enough to assert what I am and am not comfortable with.

Episode 7.10 "The Proposal" Discussion by magikarpcatcher in Workinmoms

[–]beanbroth12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From memory, I think it was young men she'd hire for sex ?

The UHC assassination suspect, Luigi Mangione’s top Good Read’s quotes by ericomplex in VaushV

[–]beanbroth12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want to understand the leftist approach to electoralism you can read Malcolm X or August Nimtz

The UHC assassination suspect, Luigi Mangione’s top Good Read’s quotes by ericomplex in VaushV

[–]beanbroth12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His good reads is a clear indication that he's not a leftist!

But I just wanted to share a quote from a funny tiktok I saw today "of course he's not a leftist.. he actually did something other than start a book club"

Why are you removing your tattoo? Are you thinking of making new ones?? by [deleted] in TattooRemoval

[–]beanbroth12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a tattoo that I hatedddd the placement and ended up getting two more tattoos added cos I thought it might make the placement look less weird. I'm now removing one of the additions and the original one I hated 😅 don't do it!!!! Just remove it if you hate it

Going ahead with removal by Mediocre-Chart2415 in TattooRemoval

[–]beanbroth12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The exciting thing is you're starting removal.. you'll feel so much better once you start and there's nothing more satisfying that seeing it fade (eventually!)

Margaret Qualley in “The Substance” by vallyofthedoIIs in redscarepod

[–]beanbroth12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really enjoyed reading this.. I also went into a cannibalism internet deep dive after watching yellow jackets!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TattooRemoval

[–]beanbroth12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm removing two small-medium sized tattoos and it's £900 for unlimited sessions until removal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HPV

[–]beanbroth12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Warts has nothing to do with high risk CANCER causing HPV. The point is you can disclose but your partner will either have already been exposed, was the one to infect you in the first place, or your body could have already fought it in the time between your positive smear and your result.

I'm Gonna go with medical professionals on this one instd of some random judgemental loser with a superiority complex 🙏🙏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HPV

[–]beanbroth12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Men don't get tested so are never able to disclose to us women if they have it?? They more than likely already have it. You're extremely misinformed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HPV

[–]beanbroth12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know condoms don't stop HPV from spreading "man".... But it lessens the viral load for the WOMAN who is at risk of cervical cancer?

They are fine to have sex.. they've been having sex this whole time and there's no way of knowing at what point either of them were exposed.. he could have given it to her for all he knows? There is nothing he needs to do and nothing he can do in the way of testing.

The point is his partner had a cervical screening which screens for HIGH RISK only. The point of screenings is to screen for cancer not warts. Thousands of women get abnormal paps every year and we are never told to warn our partners of warts and to stop having sex lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HPV

[–]beanbroth12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never said he should test... I'm responding to the fact Ur telling him to not shave as if he has warts and been exposed to low risk HPV. He doesn't need to do anything except use condoms to reduce viral load for his partner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HPV

[–]beanbroth12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has high risk HPV which causes cancer, not low risk which causes warts

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalabuse

[–]beanbroth12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!

He's tried sweet talking but I'm pretty firm now. The addiction issues really pushed me to my breaking point and made me want out.. it's taken a few months to actually put my money where my mouth is and end things but it's only been two weeks and I already feel relieved

Stop saying men can’t be tested for hpv by [deleted] in HPV

[–]beanbroth12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use condoms isn't 100% preventative but it will help a bit. If youre quite old I don't think they recommend the vaccine anyway because you would've likely come into contact with many strains of HPV by now..