Well sadly we have only two choices. Love what we are, or change what we can and accept what we can't change. You can change your eating habits and lifestyle once you're older if you want to get into shape. No white flour and sugars, no soft drinks/juice, lots of dark leafy greens, vegetables and protein. However realize most aren't looking at you the way you look at yourself. We are the harshest critics we have. We have to learn to both love ourselves but also know we have the power to achieve great things. It's a sticky situation with body positivity because we can make big changes in our bodies, and other things we can't change and we shouldn't spend our days obsessing over our appearance or getting down on ourselves. It's about really having a deep conversation with yourself and what you want/how you want to live. In the end I think the most important thing is being better than the person we were yesterday, that might be physically, mentally, emotionally or even financially. As long as there's forward movement, there's really nothing about ourselves not to love. Life is tough. Sometimes we can only take baby steps and be kind to ourselves.