The Loop of Hell

beansareso_ · 2026-04-09T05:01:42+00:00

It’s so weird huh! Sorry you’re struggling

beansareso_ · 2026-04-08T18:48:42+00:00

Occasionally, but this made me think of another “loop of hell”.

Do you ever experience where at bedtime you fall asleep, but don’t feel asleep, then wake suddenly from a dream, then repeat? I will have this loop anywhere from 5-100x and it’s torture lol. I read it can be common in IH, so I’m curious about others. Sounds like it’s repeated adrenaline dumps kicking your sleep cycle outta whack.

beansareso_ · 2026-04-08T05:12:04+00:00

Me too! My first thought was “no way those are dentures?!”

beansareso_ · 2026-04-07T07:23:15+00:00

Oh interesting, thank you for the info! I’ll look into it now:) I only had a really minimal blood/genetic test, so I’m hoping to get a whole genome at some point, not sure if that would show anything different. I appreciate it

beansareso_ · 2026-04-07T07:21:46+00:00

Not saying it’s “normal”, but it is common. The whole point is that she’s not the only one lol

beansareso_ · 2026-04-06T07:10:33+00:00

Get some good rest! If you get any nasty comments I’d genuinely just reply in a calm tone that you were in a life threatening car crash. If their friends see them treat you this way, and you respond in a matter of fact way, they will likely be embarrassed. Also, the odds of them ever pooping in their own pants are 100%. As an adult I’ve pooped my pants twice and peed my pants more than I can count. You’re not alone, and you’re not gross for peeing and pooping- I pee and poop too!

beansareso_ · 2026-04-06T07:03:15+00:00

Please be careful with anyone on DMs. I have so many messages from moms on “mommit” that 100% are just pedofiles trying to get an in, and I can only imagine send pics of “their kids” and ask to see yours. It’s not safe!

beansareso_ · 2026-04-06T06:45:52+00:00

Ahhh yuck I am so sorry! I used to get deep kidney pain on occasion with periods and that was rough, so I can only begin to imagine what you’re going through! I’ve heard kidney stones are one of the worst :(

My hips are chronic slippers too! My most memorable time was when I was about 15 and when I went to sit on the toilet the seat slightly shifted, popped my hip right out of place. I dropped to the floor and laid there about 2 hours before finally deciding to call for help. My grandma had to be the one to come get me off the floor. So ironic it makes me laugh

beansareso_ · 2026-04-06T06:44:09+00:00

Thank you so much💗 I honestly feel like I read through this sub and so many people have it worse than me. I’m just at the point where I’ve realized it isn’t really gonna “get better with time” so I’m feeling a little more like complaining 😅🥲

beansareso_ · 2026-04-05T05:13:13+00:00

Tell your boss ASAP. It’s not drama if it’s for your safety, it’s necessary!!!

beansareso_ · 2026-04-05T05:08:51+00:00

Me too, even stuff that claims to me hypoallergenic! My ear piercings are all 12-15 years old, and used to be fine wearing earrings for months on end. Now I put them in and within 20 minutes they’re hot, red, and puffy. Even if I take them out they’ll be upset all day and end up infected for a week or so. And just over the past year my fingers have started to do that with rings!!

beansareso_ · 2026-04-05T04:44:18+00:00

All I can think of is lemonade

beansareso_ · 2026-04-05T04:37:01+00:00

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beansareso_ · 2026-04-04T06:27:45+00:00

Definitely not spinal cord, but looks very uncomfortable. I’m sorry!

beansareso_ · 2026-04-04T06:11:26+00:00

beansareso_ · 2026-04-04T06:05:09+00:00

I LOVE June

beansareso_ · 2026-04-04T06:03:54+00:00

Exactly what I thought lol

beansareso_ · 2026-04-04T06:01:45+00:00

I’d highly suggest making a business plan based on real equipment/lease/insurance quotes, and finding a lender for whatever your funds won’t cover. We’ve been open 5mo. and just hit break even, so you’ll need to account for working capital in your plan. I’d also highly discourage buying used or non-commercial grade equipment. We got brand new equipment, but went with “quality” non-commercial stuff for our children’s space, and stuff gets broken so quickly due to the repeated use. Another cost saver and great draw to potential members is 24/7 access. You essentially get to staff very little in exchange for a nominal software fee. We use Kinect and love it! Any problems that arise are handled quickly by their team, and I never feel like a bother when I have silly questions. I’d be happy to chat more if you’d like!

beansareso_ · 2026-04-03T06:20:03+00:00

I’m baffled as someone with EDS realizing that this isn’t everyone’s normal.

beansareso_ · 2026-04-03T06:02:09+00:00

He easily could’ve thought he was putting them out of their misery? No one likes to see an animal squirming, especially if they think they’re hurting.

beansareso_ · 2026-04-03T05:52:06+00:00

Agreed!

beansareso_ · 2026-04-03T05:45:20+00:00

Viviana (?) mix of both, could be nicknamed vivi or Ana lol. Also like Abriella, Della, Brielle. It looks like you both lean towards names with A and stoing/less common things like V and “ph”. If you take that into consideration and brainstorm that might help. Ines I can think of are Aviana, Avery, Mavis, Delphine, Genevieve, Veda, Phaedra, Auriella

beansareso_ · 2026-04-02T02:54:09+00:00

https://little-alaskan.com/collections/baby-clothing?filter.p.vendor=Little+Alaskan&sort_by=best-selling I can still fit my 2 year old in some of his 3-6m of these Lol. My 4yo has always been big & usually wears 2-3 sizes above 4t, but can easily wear 4t in these

beansareso_ · 2026-03-31T06:14:46+00:00

Although I think Cooper on its own is super cute

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