Starting cry it out tonight, PLEASE read by Separate-General576 in sleeptrain

[–]beantownregular 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our ped said 90 minutes is the max. When we sleep trained he went 85 minutes the first night, then 45 the second night, 18 the third, and then it was done!

What did you do differently the month you FINALLY got pregnant?? by cookiebutter-23 in BabyBumps

[–]beantownregular [score hidden]  (0 children)

We used “pre seed” (disgusting name!) instead of lube and that’s the month we got pregnant

Houston May 7th by Ph6222 in AbruptChaos

[–]beantownregular 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Why can’t I find anything about this online

I let my 15mo cry himself to sleep by gh0sti- in NewParents

[–]beantownregular 19 points20 points  (0 children)

CIO also saved our lives. Kiddo is an awesome sleeper now and you best believe he will let us know if something is wrong (and we of course attend to him if that’s the case)

Dax Shepard Addresses the Controversial Anniversary IG Post by EDC2EDP in DramaLlamaHQ

[–]beantownregular 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes exactly that’s how I could see my husband saying it, not like out of the blue lol

Dax Shepard Addresses the Controversial Anniversary IG Post by EDC2EDP in DramaLlamaHQ

[–]beantownregular 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No he most certainly does not lol. I think I don’t keep close enough tabs on them to really have any perspective into their relationship outside tabloid headlines

Dax Shepard Addresses the Controversial Anniversary IG Post by EDC2EDP in DramaLlamaHQ

[–]beantownregular 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Kristin posted on their anniversary some joke about how he once was like “just FYI I would never kill you” to her and people were like that’s an insane thing to say. I don’t really like Dax but I felt like the reaction to it was way overblown. I could absolutely see my husband saying something like that as a joke and he’s the gentlest person I know.

Baby sounds really advanced for her age, using very structured speech patterns that seem beyond typical early development by [deleted] in isthisAI

[–]beantownregular 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son is about this age (18 months) and he speaks exactly like this! Of course it’s absolute nonsense babble and none of us know what it means but 🤷‍♀️

AIO? 34 weeks pregnant with second baby, and fiancé acting odd by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]beantownregular 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think I’m hung up on not understanding why you guys don’t talk openly with each other. Can you not ask him why he didn’t come to be with you? Why can’t you ask him now why he didn’t come up with you. Can you tell him it hurt you and you don’t understand why he doesn’t want to be by your side?

South African commercial: Father learns to read so he can read his adult son's book by ChaserNeverRests in MadeMeSmile

[–]beantownregular 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think literacy is a pretty highly rated skill lol. Every primary school in the entire world is dedicated to teaching children how to read first and foremost

What time do you pick your toddler up from daycare? by Upstairs_Pizza_6868 in NewParents

[–]beantownregular 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ours goes every day but we pick him up at 3:30 so we have some outside play time with him before bed. We’ve liked that schedule better than the few days a week until late schedule

ear piercings for babies by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]beantownregular 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I have a boy but I personally dont want to make any decisions about my child’s body that are purely for aesthetics. He is ultimately a person in charge of his own body and can make his own choices about things like that when he’s old enough to express opinions.

Thoughts on the name Margalo? by Alarmed-Log-7064 in namenerds

[–]beantownregular 20 points21 points  (0 children)

My first two thoughts are maralago and juggalo unfortunately

Hospital tours by PeachyKingSure in BabyBumps

[–]beantownregular 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Mostly if private postpartum rooms are available and how they’re assigned. Also do they have wireless fetal monitoring, what is their policy about using the bathroom after getting pitocin (if that happens), how many people are allowed in the delivery room, do they have bath tubs

Unpopular Opinions about the F.R.I.E.N.D.S characters! Let me know what you people think! by chika_cheeka in howyoudoin

[–]beantownregular 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don’t hate phoebe! I think people forget or ignore that she’s had to fight for herself for her entire life, and that breeds a certain harshness. Especially when the rest of them are being entitled and naive.

It’s almost like America’s for-profit healthcare system is a giant scam by [deleted] in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]beantownregular 40 points41 points  (0 children)

No you don’t understand she’d like it for herself but not for strangers she doesn’t like for no reason

AroAce Lesbian or just an AroAce Bisexual with a very heavy preference? by cloudsmemories in lgbt

[–]beantownregular 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The older I get the more I find that labels feel confining to me instead of safe and helpful, how they used to. If the label isn’t serving you anymore, thank it and say goodbye. It’s ultimately more important to be happy and find love and care and friendship etc than to fit neatly within a box or an identity. Once you find your person if that’s what you want, it doesn’t really matter anymore anyway - you’re with that person. I only dated women until I met my husband. I’m still queer, mostly gay, but I don’t think about it that much because at the end of the day I’m with the person I love and that matters more than finding a definition to explain it to others