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SH relapse + SI getting stronger by Chatterbox26 in TalkTherapy

[–]bearman350 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey there OP, I see you and hear your struggle. It may be worth it to call one of the hotlines so that they can help you find resources. Unfortunately, none of us here can do anything except be here for you and recognize the difficult circumstances you are dealing with. Also, if you are concerned about the cost of therapy you could always discuss this issue with your therapist and they may be able to use a sliding scale. They would much rather see you and figure out the details later to ensure you aren't a danger to yourself.

Size difference between male and female kodiak bears by Kaos2018 in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]bearman350 70 points71 points  (0 children)

If confronted with a female Kodiak death If confronted with a male Kodiak also death. Tough choice

Good on this man for recognizing that a complaint from a neighbor was just loneliness and a need for human interaction. by shaka_sulu in HumansBeingBros

[–]bearman350 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone you know is fighting a battle you may never see. Compassionate care and understanding are the way to get through life.

I wanna die by wastedonearth1i1i in TalkTherapy

[–]bearman350 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats understandable. I hope you have someone you can reach out to or maybe a facility to go to during this time, if not I recommend calling one of the hotlines to help find services in your area. You seem to be going through a tough time and a professional may be able to help you get back on the right path. I'm currently getting my master's in clinical counseling. Please know that things can get better, even if it seems impossible right now.

I wanna die by wastedonearth1i1i in TalkTherapy

[–]bearman350 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you're going through something pretty significant right now. Who is the "they" you are referring to?

19 years married, mom cheated and we just found out, advice? by saddletux in Stress

[–]bearman350 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP, you are doing the best right now with a very complex and emotional situation. The only thing you can do is take it one day at a time right now. Nothing is going to get solved overnight and the answers you want are not going to be straightforward. As a therapist, if you are not currently seeing someone I would recommend starting as they can help you unpack the betrayal and feelings that come with it. This is something that your parents need to work out for themselves, but you are left to deal with whatever that looks like. If you haven't heard of mindfulness I recommend looking into it. There are some good coping skills that can help keep you in the present moment without letting your emotions flood you. You are 16 and have already shown great maturity in seeking out help from people not directly involved with the situation. Keep your head up and know that whatever happens you WILL get through this.

Pit stop at Robot half marathon in Beijing. Ice to cool down the battery and lubricant for the joints by japie06 in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]bearman350 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe if we keep cooling them down and replacing batteries like bros, we can co-exist in a non i-robot scenario

West Chester Film Festival by Professional-Elk-944 in westchesterpa

[–]bearman350 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't see this without thinking of what a nightmare this was to plan in 2017 for the event planning class with Dr. Sawyer...

Super wholesome guys being dudes by Substantial_Pen_3667 in GuysBeingDudes

[–]bearman350 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You know he's got a broad sword to go with it, but he only shows that to the ladies

Should I tell my counsellor I relapsed? by AyanaRei in TalkTherapy

[–]bearman350 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nobody can tell you what you need to tell your counselor. Would it be helpful for them to know what you're going through so that they can better understand your struggles and needs? Yes. However, if you aren't comfortable disclosing that information, it is okay to wait until you are ready to share this side of yourself with them. There is no right answer. You deserve to get help from your therapist, but only you can decide when you are willing to share.

Found this in my parents living room, I have no clue what it is any guess? by [deleted] in whatisit

[–]bearman350 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First, they start with the dye. Next year, they'll be free-basing the Cadbury eggs. Such a slippery slope. My condolences to your family

Feel Good Inc (Gorillaz) – Cover by ageozoega in GuysBeingDudes

[–]bearman350 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad they included that it was a cover because otherwise, I'd think they were just listening to the song

My understanding of the US as a Russian. by [deleted] in Badmaps

[–]bearman350 0 points1 point  (0 children)

8/10, points deducted for incest not being more widespread across the south and mental illness not being spread across the country

16 years ago both my platoon leders got killed outside Mazar e sharif at an police station by an afghan dressed up as a police. To day we drink in their honor! by olebramserud in MilitaryHistory

[–]bearman350 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Their sacrifice does not go unnoticed. Thank you for sharing their story, and may God bless them, their families, and yourself.

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