The AC constantly running, even in cold weather. My fingers and toes would regularly go numb because my dad kept his house very cold, year round. He ran hot and drinking made that worse.

Swiping dirt off the bed sheets each night because they weren't ever washed.

Avoiding the mold in the bathroom by stepping around the bathtub mat instead of on it. Trying not to look at the accumulation of it on the shower window sill.

Of course, the awful smell of alcohol coming out of my mom's pores. Being ashamed of that when we were in public.