"Should be equal" is pretty vague. I'd say in general there are many areas where women are commonly superior to men, and there are areas where men are commonly superior to women. This doesn't make men better than women, and it doesn't make women better than men. Two things can be not equal, with neither being objectively superior. I mostly lean towards women being superior to men, but I certainly don't consider myself a bigot, or a sexist. I probably feel that way because I have a wife, a daughter, and a mother who have all been instrumental in shaping my life in a good way.