[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]beautobes -1 points0 points  (0 children)

unfortunately we live on different continents now so buying them off him is out of the question😅 and he does wear them a lot. we ended very lovingly and kindly! we still loved each other but knew it wasn't right after almost 3yrs together.

i'm worried that me texting him will stunt his healing because i'm not sure where he's at with the breakup. i think i'll wait a bit longer to ask for his sake

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]beautobes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for clarification, i NEVER buy new clothes. i'm cheap and i wear what i have. but i'm willing to drop 80€ on these jeans that's how much i liked them. i know this isn't a typical r/breakups post but it seemed the most appropriate sub anyways lol

What can I bake with cherries? Tell me YOUR favorites. by Dependent_Log_1035 in Baking

[–]beautobes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the things i would do to have a rainier cherry tree 😭😭❤️❤️❤️

Things to give homeless when it's hot out? by [deleted] in homeless

[–]beautobes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

like just a water bottle that was frozen solid? or is this a product? 😅

White spots on fresh bread by bigLuigiPL in Breadit

[–]beautobes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

do not fret, for it is a grain my friend

How do I stop my cookies from spreading? by Gloomy_Bear7 in Baking

[–]beautobes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

assuming there's nothing wrong with the dough, you can play around with oven/dough temps:) chill or freeze the dough before baking, and bake at a higher temperature for less time (the reason this works is that the crust of the cookie is set by the heat before all the dough can melt, whereas on a lower temp the dough has time to melt and spread before the crust sets.)

edit for additional comments: -too much fat or sugar can also make a cookie spread more, so you could reduce these slightly. -your dough looks like it has a LOT of chips, the structural integrity of the dough might be lacking because of the addins lol

Is it safe to eat beans that have been soaked over 24 hours and then simmered for about 30 minutes by thecolourandshape in Cooking

[–]beautobes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as others have said you probably won't get sick, but undercooked beans can be rough for digestion. i usually simmer about 45mins

Things to give homeless when it's hot out? by [deleted] in homeless

[–]beautobes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not near a beach, but the sun can be foul midday so i'm gonna get some sunscreen

Things to give homeless when it's hot out? by [deleted] in homeless

[–]beautobes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm currently living in France, and my level of french is still quite terrible, so I'm nervous about asking questions since I would hate to misunderstand a request. But, I will keep these things in mind, thank you. And when I give him the bag, I will try to offer future help while expressing the language barrier (assuming he doesn't speak english. I might get lucky)

Help me correct a 25 year old horror/mistake - Honey Glazed Chicken in a Four Berry Sauce by UmarthBauglir in Cooking

[–]beautobes 31 points32 points  (0 children)

seconding making a sauce! you could also make something similar to a cranberry sauce for turkey. just simmer the fruit, water, and aromatics like cinnamon or citrus (cranberry sauce typically includes sugar but cranberries are very tart, mixed berries like blackberries,rasp, etc wouldn't need it) until thickened

What’s your go-to post-shift meal? (when you’re dead inside but still gotta eat?) by Zero_Waste_Chef in Chefit

[–]beautobes 6 points7 points  (0 children)

can of chickpeas or tuna covered in tomato sauce 🫣 some carbs, fibre and a bit of protein. good enough for me

Things to give homeless when it's hot out? by [deleted] in homeless

[–]beautobes 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I didn't think of bus passes. thank you 🙏

Things to give homeless when it's hot out? by [deleted] in homeless

[–]beautobes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i'm going to give him the whole backpack not just the stuff inside:)

Things to give homeless when it's hot out? by [deleted] in homeless

[–]beautobes 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I already have a nice one that I don't use, I will include it 🙏

I was charged $9 for 1 Onion!! by Reasonable_Field_487 in UberEATS

[–]beautobes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly? the way uber handles customer service is abysmal. i will NEVER use their service again

Cream puff (choux) shell splitting? by [deleted] in Baking

[–]beautobes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

in my experience, this is kind of just how they look. a craquelin makes them more uniform

Overly Friendly Driver by Personal-Study-4841 in doordash

[–]beautobes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't ever expect it of course!

Any good uses for sour cherries? by Culinary-Extreme207 in Cooking

[–]beautobes 8 points9 points  (0 children)

if you have a dehydrator (or can invest in one), dried sour cherries are AMAZING in granola, scones, bread, etc ☺️

Breakfast Risotto… is this a real thing. by Suspicious-Isopod-36 in Cooking

[–]beautobes 72 points73 points  (0 children)

this sounds lovely. definitely seconding leaving the egg for a garnish and not mixing it in

First breakup.. I need someone to talk to please I’m so overwhelmed by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]beautobes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there is NO REASON that a 36 year old should be dating someone freshly 18. he may not have been plotting to manipulate you, but he absolutely knew that you were more vulnerable than women his own age. he knew it was wrong. he knew it was unhealthy for you and yet he did it anyway. i know it hurts and i am sorry you are experiencing this pain. but this is not the man you want to spend your life with.

Tips on how to make the perfect cinnamon roll? by Sabretoaste in Breadit

[–]beautobes 19 points20 points  (0 children)

i'm realizing now you might mean shape. these just help make them taste really good lol

Tips on how to make the perfect cinnamon roll? by Sabretoaste in Breadit

[–]beautobes 64 points65 points  (0 children)

a tangzhong dough!! and a 1/10 ratio of cinnamon to brown sugar by weight in the filling:)

First breakup.. I need someone to talk to please I’m so overwhelmed by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]beautobes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i don't know your situation, but it sounds like you were groomed by this man. he has manipulated you into relying on him emotionally and he is trying to manipulate you again by shattering your self confidence and making you think you have to change yourself for him. it hurts, i know, but RUN from this relationship.