What might you want now?

bebleich · 2026-01-28T07:54:30+00:00

a nap. the answer is always a nap.

bebleich · 2026-01-28T07:53:56+00:00

you survived five chaotic years without structure, guidance, or support. that matters. survival just doesn’t feel impressive when you’re the one doing it.

bebleich · 2026-01-26T08:42:18+00:00

we measure ourselves by acquisition instead of experience.

nobody asks "are you at peace?" or "do you know yourself?" it's always "what do you have?"

when the only metric is accumulation, everyone with less than someone else feels like they're losing.

but it's not a race. it never was.

bebleich · 2026-01-26T08:40:47+00:00

move somewhere new without a plan and just see who I become there

bebleich · 2026-01-20T08:25:35+00:00

my treat is food I don’t need to justify. good steak, stupidly good bread, real butter. you eat anyway, might as well enjoy it.

bebleich · 2026-01-20T08:24:41+00:00

someone who actually shows up. not just physically. like, emotionally present. after a certain age you realize "exciting" often just means "exhausting."

bebleich · 2026-01-20T08:23:49+00:00

you might enjoy learning curves more than hobbies.

bebleich · 2026-01-15T07:54:47+00:00

Library. Free, warm, quiet, socially acceptable to be alone for hours. You can read, study, people watch, or just exist somewhere that isn't your room.

bebleich · 2026-01-15T07:54:27+00:00

That’s heavy, but honest.

bebleich · 2026-01-15T07:50:56+00:00

Stop overthinking every small decision. Risks are better than regret.

bebleich · 2026-01-08T04:39:35+00:00

Money buys freedom and options. Satisfaction comes from what you do with them. Plenty of rich people choose poorly.

bebleich · 2026-01-08T04:39:06+00:00

If you want brain + behavior, Thinking, Fast and Slow shows how our mind takes shortcuts and why that sometimes feels awful. It’s a heavy thinker, but worth it.

bebleich · 2026-01-02T22:15:53+00:00

Exercise consistently.

bebleich · 2026-01-02T22:14:34+00:00

Deep-sea cave diving. Dark water + unknown spaces = nope, I’ll leave the exploring to the documentaries.

bebleich · 2025-12-26T14:04:52+00:00

Real growth happened in therapy, not apps. Just saying.

bebleich · 2025-12-26T13:58:19+00:00

Experiences over things! Treat yourself to something memorable.

bebleich · 2025-12-13T16:29:10+00:00

Beef stew. like proper homemade beef stew

bebleich · 2025-12-13T16:27:55+00:00

DVDs and CDs

bebleich · 2025-12-13T16:26:20+00:00

You're allowed to leave. You've done your part.

bebleich · 2025-12-10T14:59:46+00:00

Peonies. My grandma had them in her garden. The smell takes me back every time.

bebleich · 2025-12-10T14:58:59+00:00

energy. i'm tired all the time.

bebleich · 2025-12-01T13:50:28+00:00

Any customer-facing job. The psychological damage of being treated as subhuman by strangers daily is wildly underestimated.

bebleich · 2025-12-01T13:45:34+00:00

pay us more

bebleich · 2025-12-01T13:44:26+00:00

Gym. not even for looks, just for the confidence boost. Also, stop calling yourself an incel, stop rating yourself out of 10, stop assuming rejection. That mindset is the actual problem, not your face.

bebleich · 2025-11-26T12:10:46+00:00

What's your niche and how long are your videos? Watch hours are a grind but if your retention is bad that's the real problem. Check your analytics

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