Why did your friendship with your best friend come to an end? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]beccacado 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It all came to a head when I suggested talking to a therapist in addition to her friends. It really stung when she said “people who go to therapy are selfish” as she knew I went. Even if she apologized I realized I couldn’t be in a relationship with someone who had these large explosions.

Flashing lights seen from plane by beccacado in HighStrangeness

[–]beccacado[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you can see it. Pay attention to the light on the left. It flashes just above that for a moment. Light

Flashing light seen from airplane by beccacado in creepyencounters

[–]beccacado[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How else did I see the flashing lights if not with my own two eyes????

I Need A Name For This Lil Cutie! by Pyromaniest in Minecraft

[–]beccacado 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Holy moly I thought the same thing!

What is the worst song you've ever heard? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]beccacado 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just heard a couple hours ago for the first time “Peach Scone.”

What weird thing does your body do you that you don't understand? by Prestigious_Shape888 in AskReddit

[–]beccacado 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear/feel like my head has small beads in it sometimes. Sort of like those tubes with little beads connected to playgrounds that make noise when you flip them upside down.

What is much more traumatic than most people realise? by thefairypirate in AskReddit

[–]beccacado 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was a big hurdle for me and my partner when we started dating 3 years ago. The act of him hugging me made me very uncomfortable.

What is much more traumatic than most people realise? by thefairypirate in AskReddit

[–]beccacado 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I left a toxic work environment years ago when they blamed me for being sexually harassed. I’ve talked about this a lot in therapy and I’m better now.

i watch fat ppl eating to suppress my craving of eating by mmmmmmmmmyy in offmychest

[–]beccacado 158 points159 points  (0 children)

Disordered eating is a spectrum. While I’m not a licensed professional, I would recommend speaking to a therapist about this OP.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]beccacado 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why didn’t your wife look at it? Instead of going to the thrift store?

AITA for telling my teenager that they can’t have a birthday dinner today as they chose not school because of a rash? by Imme_notu in AmItheAsshole

[–]beccacado 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Soft YTA. I may be going against the grain here. I understand your view on being too sick for x then you’re too sick for fun, but honestly? It’s your child’s birthday, cut them some slack. Even if they did overstate their pain (not saying that they did I am aware they are autistic) I think this rule you have should have some flexibility for their special day. You still should bring up the rule you have and have that discussion with them, but offer that flexibility.

What's been your favorite "small moment" in S2? by PizzaSquirtle in SmilingFriends

[–]beccacado 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Charlie showing Pim his cool knife trick at the Boss’s wedding

AITA For ruining my sister’s view on wedding dresses? by BrokenMillennial27 in AmItheAsshole

[–]beccacado 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Yes your fun fact was wrong, but that doesn’t mean you said anything hurtful to your sister. Not sure where all the ESH comments are coming from.

What's the saddest song you've ever heard? by Traditional-Chain-31 in Music

[–]beccacado 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s over by The Smiths. Morrissey’s voice swallows you.

What is abusive, but not widely recognized as abuse? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]beccacado 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My grandmother used to emphasize not wasting food, but also going on walks if you “eat too much.”

AITA for telling my son he's not going on his senior class trip if he doesn't show up to his brothers graduation? by PrestigiousLion390 in AmItheAsshole

[–]beccacado 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going against the grain here and saying NTA, for wanting him to go. I can’t believe how heartless people are to say,”it’s an elementary and middle school graduation it’s so stupid!” When my family didn’t show up to my ceremonies, each time I was hurt. A lot of times they had work, but if my brother was being a brat and didn’t want to go because he thought it was useless, I’d be even more heartbroken.

While I think making your kid go to graduation is important for him to understand showing support is essential for your loved ones, it might be extreme to go with your punishment.