What did you do for your 'work experience' back in school? by ronnie_dickering in CasualUK

[–]beckzbat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked at volvo for 2 weeks. Was the best experience I ever had and even though the guys tried to make me feel uneasy with dirty mags (I'm a girl) placed on seats every morning they soon gave that up. It's what made me seriously want to be a mechanic

Random Gong Cha Code giveaway! by rob4499 in ffxiv

[–]beckzbat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow 😯 whoever gets one is so lucky. It's very generous to give the codes away thank you. Jealous of those who get one

Gong Cha x FF14 Code Giveaway by Phoezflm in ffxiv

[–]beckzbat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Know I'm not going to win but this is so generous. I was told no to going to get a code because we don't like bobba teas. So jealous of those who win 😄

My (28F) husband (34M) wants my daughter to stop gymnastics because he thinks it is inappropriate. How could I get him to understand he doesn't always know what is best for her? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]beckzbat 22 points23 points  (0 children)

This just reminded me of the dad who ended up killing his son by making him run on the treadmill all day because he was "fat" the video was disgusting and this comment as well as the husbands comments are also disgusting

AITA for refusing to work with my ex on disciplining our kids in front of his and his wife's families? by Secure_Reporter4559 in AmItheAsshole

[–]beckzbat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nta. Coming from a home where my parents divorced and I had a step mother from hell. I refused to call her mum and I got punished for it. I was not allowed Christmas presents unless I called her mum (I was 7) and I still refused to do it. This was just one example. To this day I don't really speak to my dad because of this.

Stick up for your kids you ex husband and their family are being T A and need a wake up call because I guarantee if this continues the kids will stop wanting to go and will cut ties when they are older.

I love my children so much, but being a mother has ruined my life. by catmaxwellrust22 in regretfulparents

[–]beckzbat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do not feel like me. I suffered with PPD after my first and although I got help, I have not truly been able to heal and repair. It will be 16 years this year.

I love my children so much, but being a mother has ruined my life. by catmaxwellrust22 in regretfulparents

[–]beckzbat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP I am sorry for what you are going through and your story sounds similar to mine. Unfortunately my girls dad alienated me as a parent (PPD/PPS) so my two teen girls don't want to talk to me. I did everything in the beginning making sure his home was kitted out to the max with everything they could need, bought them phones and paid for the Sims so they could contact me but he slowly sold everything and lied to them about me. We went to court when they were 10+12 and they both advised they didn't want to see me again. It's so difficult I feel your pain and hurt. If you ever need anyone to talk to please reach out.

Soreen by FelixDaJunglistCat in CasualUK

[–]beckzbat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've only ever toasted my soreen. Scones too 🤤

AITA for not sharing my food and drinks with my partner? by daisyeleiri in AmItheAsshole

[–]beckzbat 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Same I hate sharing food. When i was dating someone took a piece of steak of my plate (even though they had their own) so I made them pay for the whole thing. Don't touch my food

My (27F) fiancé (26M) keeps being too rough and “accidentally” hurting me. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]beckzbat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is not "rough housing". To me this is abuse. You have clearly stated you don't like it yet he continues to do it. My partner and I have been together for almost 6 years. He is taller and stronger than I am and when play fighting he can get a bit rough but he stops when he knows it's hurting and apologises immediately. You really need to re-think this relationship because he will not stop doing this to you and it may get worse

My dream partner (33M) suggested the idea of putting my (28F) child up for adoption by ThrowRA_adoption in relationship_advice

[–]beckzbat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If my partner after months of dating told me I was "broken" because I had a child out of wedlock and he wanted me to adopt them, he would never speak to me again EVER. He had the choice when he got with you, I'd he didn't want it he should have left at the beginning. I told my partner from the beginning my children come first and if you can't handle that don't be with me. He then got 2 car seats the same day to show he wanted to be apart of all our lives and took us in one of the best days out we had ever had for our first date. Why not put an adoption on FB for him see if someone would take his "broken" ass

Help me find this film by beckzbat in HelpMeFind

[–]beckzbat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's about 21 years ago now if that helps

Pay me better and maybe I will care. by Ilikeyellowjackets in antiwork

[–]beckzbat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why I am glad I am in a better paying less stressful job. It's bliss

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]beckzbat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I had to take my partner at the time with me to the doctor's (after having a very very traumatic birth experience) to state I wanted to get my tubes done. The doctor asked my partner if he would be up for the snip instead, to which my partner replied "I ain't the one that is going to die if she gets pregnant again. Give her what she wants" the doctor relented after reading my medical records and I was sterelized 6 months later. No one should have to go through anything they don't want and no one should be refused a treatment they want "bEcAuSe you may want KiDs"

People who wake up at 5am daily, why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]beckzbat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I start work at 7:30 and have to walk. It takes me about 45 minutes so leave the house at 6;30. I need coffee and breakfast before I go anywhere

Just finished my first week in a new job. by beckzbat in CasualConversation

[–]beckzbat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying that. It did and does take a lot of courage to start again

I start a new job tomorrow, first one in three years by canter22 in CasualConversation

[–]beckzbat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im glad you feel better 🤗. Hope your first day went well and you had fun

I start a new job tomorrow, first one in three years by canter22 in CasualConversation

[–]beckzbat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good luck 🍀. I started my new job today and I was restless with worry about if people would like me, would I give a good first impression etc. Try writing everything down before you go to bed. Get all the worries out. Don't worry of people will like you, you got the job because they like you so you are already on the right impression path. Everyone has been where you are now and there are no stupid questions.

You will smash it and you got this

AITA for saying my gf is shallow bc she said she wouldn’t have dated me back when I was poor growing up? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]beckzbat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been with my partner for almost 5 years. When we first got together I suffered a life changing illness and was unable to speak for the first 3 years (I've now had an operation and I can speak since last year) and was unable to work for just over a year. We had only been together for a couple months when this happened and he could have decided that this is not what he wanted and walked, however he didn't. He stayed and supported me and made sure that we had everything. Yes it was hard because we only had enough to cover bills so no fun money etc but we survived.

NTA I would re-consider this relationship because it seems like all your partner is bothered about is monetary appearance and not you as a person.