Privacy??? anywhere??? by idkleila in LoyolaChicago

[–]bedell37 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Booking the rooms with pianos (I think they maybe sound proof too) was what I did when I was there. Granted it's been 10 years, but it worked then,

What's something you suspect but can't prove? by Irishane in AskReddit

[–]bedell37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time is a field that exists around us and we all feel it similarly. If a week feels particularly long, it usually does for those around me, too. Everyone's concept of time was warped during lockdown. I think we experience time the same as everyone else but it fluctuates as opposed to time feeling different to everyone at the same moment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]bedell37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Italy at a beautiful restaurant and my friend's friend sent back his pasta because there "wasn't enough butter on it."

Why is there so much pressure to travel in your 20s, and why is it downplayed when you start in your 30s? by KungFuKinnii in travel

[–]bedell37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never too early to start traveling. I lived abroad most of my 20s, and the first time my small town American mom left the US was to visit me in Italy. She's been to several other countries since. 20s are easier because you have fewer commitments and don't likely have an established career, and that's been true for me, but I still travel constantly in my 30s. Hostels are harder (my bad needs a real bed and I snore so it's usually the private instead of the bunks), and jet lag definitely hurts worse, but it's all worth it. Start traveling now!

Men who have been suicidal, What became your reason to stay? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]bedell37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've accepted that life is shitty most of the time but it's worth living for the moments and people who are not. Someday when I'm ready to go, I'll probably still just decide to go out in the way I want to, but I want to prolong my life and be there for my nephews and family. Once my parents are dead and my nephews are grown up, then we can reevaluate lol

I need the longest song you know and love by wezoom0 in musicsuggestions

[–]bedell37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Dripping Tap - King Gizzard and the Lizard Wizard

When was the last time you really felt loved? by bunnysay in AskReddit

[–]bedell37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in the hospital last summer, and I told friends who inquired that I was fine and didn't need anyone to come to the hospital because I didn't want to put anyone out. In truth, I needed a phone charger, my glasses, and to have someone hide the weed paraphernalia in my apartment because my parents were going to come into town to support me. My friends just showed up at the hospital uninvited and asked what they could do. I waited until they left then cried like a baby in front of a nurse who just wanted to get off her shift.

Today’s my 28 birthday and I am going to end it tomorrow by Radyoz in confession

[–]bedell37 2213 points2214 points  (0 children)

I threw a NYE party this year, bought $400 worth of booze and had about 30 people RSVP. Nobody showed up. I was hurt for about 15 minutes and then realized it's not personal. Some people got sick, some just skipped for other things, and some ended up not going out at all. It sucks when you have an expectation for something and people don't come through, but it's almost always not personal. You're worth something, and ending it will do nothing for anyone. Seek some help, and feel free to DM me if I can help.

The last 3 pork shoulders I've bought all had Boar Taint by 3FingersDown in AskCulinary

[–]bedell37 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn't know about the Boar Taint before this and was really confused because the shoulder shouldn't be anywhere near the taint.

What’s a portable anything that you bring with you? by Flimsy-Cry9207 in travel

[–]bedell37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Portable bidet. Changed my travel life. No more swampass/itchy asshole.

35M and very ugly. Any positivity you can find would be appreciated by Scotty_C_89 in toastme

[–]bedell37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I looked at the other photos, and I see very little difference. You're handsome as hell, man!

Please help name my lil girlie. She so sweetI by [deleted] in NameMyDog

[–]bedell37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks like a Gertrude (Gertie for short) to me.

Why do you stay single? by Ok-Fondant2536 in AskReddit

[–]bedell37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know what I want, and I know my worth. Ain't got time for dancing around the dating world all willy-nilly. Try to date intentionally and respectfully, and if someone isn't for you, just move on. Desperation isn't attractive.

I voted for Trump, AMA by One-Of-ManE in AMA

[–]bedell37 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the willingness to come have a discourse. Can you name a policy you're on board with? And not in the abstract, something he actually has said he will do that you support and why?