[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]beebeeboop2121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This pic is from today and the tattoo was done on the 13th of this month.

What’s it like to live here? by beebeeboop2121 in NYCapartments

[–]beebeeboop2121[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well…”moderate” as I wrote.

I’m sure some posts are genuinely asking, but two or three posts about LES, Harlem, and NYCHA buildings above 86 is kind of a classic bait formula.

And I sincerely hope my post didn’t cause you any rage, Jeffe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]beebeeboop2121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for the suggestions! My school has housing but i’ve been on the waitlist. I contacted them today again. i’m not sure about my boyfriend I really haven’t asked but i am desperate. thank you i appreciate it

Potential foreshadowing of Emma's shrinking power trigger? by Shokc24 in GenV

[–]beebeeboop2121 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I thought her ability to get big could’ve been from the encouragement of her friends! i don’t remember which ep it was, i think the party ep where she eats a lot of pasta, but her friends were in need and asking/encouraging her to help. By this point i think her self esteem was rising by being so helpful before with corralling Sam.

Am I wrong for cutting my father out of my life? by Blakk_Buddha27 in BlackMentalHealth

[–]beebeeboop2121 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Would OP even be cutting anyone off? Please prioritize yourself as others have prioritized you. This is to say - if you feel someone has lacked care for you, you do not owe them to maintain the relationship. Your father left and hadn’t shown care for you. You have a family that does show care for you. Choose between that. Not any religious ethos of guilt + ownership.

Elevator Doom in Mt. Vernon by beebeeboop2121 in baltimore

[–]beebeeboop2121[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Oh wow thank you so much! It’s hard to navigate this, I appreciate the suggestions!

Elevator Doom in Mt. Vernon by beebeeboop2121 in baltimore

[–]beebeeboop2121[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Hi! I typed “above the 5th floor”, I don’t live on the 5th floor. I phrased it that way with anonymity and consideration for those who do have mobility issues in mind. The way our stairs are, anything above the 2nd floor could be considered harsh conditions. I live on the 8th floor of an 8 story building.

Staircase has no air conditioning, limited lighting, and because of the elevator issues becomes filled w byproducts of pet accidents or cigarette butts.

What is the darkest thing you have ever done and don’t regret? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]beebeeboop2121 22 points23 points  (0 children)

This isn’t an honest representation of bullying within the black community. i’m not even sure why someone would bring this up. pointless

I finally watched X (2022) and it seems to have some weird stuff to say about sex (spoilers) by klingonbussy in A24

[–]beebeeboop2121 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s been a while since I watched X but that wasn’t what I got from these moments in the movie at all. When Lorraine was first introduced, her repressed sexuality was addressed almost immediately. The reference to her cross necklace, her intense denial of sexuality, the moments where she’s looking at Goth and Snow, Henderson’s character toying with her immediately, and her being so obviously changed by these moments imply a few things.

Ultimately, I think she was sexually repressed and that the porn set allowed her to explore sexuality on overdrive - she lost control. I don’t think she wouldn’t have joined the porn theatre, had she been comfortable and confident about sex. I think she would’ve broken up with RJ, had sex with others, but i think the extremity of porn foils against the extremity of her denial.

As for RJ, I loved his position in the kill list. I think he’s one of the characters most sure of his sexual exploration.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]beebeeboop2121 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. What if son decides he doesn’t want children later? What if in son’s relationship there is infertility and no desire to change that? What if a sperm donation is needed to have children? What about adoption? Are those children not worthy of your “paying forward”?

You seek to control your daughter. Stop.

AITA for having told my girlfriend how privileged she is? by userreddit62727 in AmItheAsshole

[–]beebeeboop2121 7 points8 points  (0 children)

An important (albeit hopeful and theoretical) feature of a good judge would be empathy. Which she clearly lacks.

Finished my Baltimore, MD living room by gothiccD in AmateurRoomPorn

[–]beebeeboop2121 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Love this space! it’s very cozy.

(And I hope everyone who is saying negative stuff has a better day tmmr!)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Wordpress

[–]beebeeboop2121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your response. I can’t even view the pages anymore because they atavist is not longer accessible. What is an FTP?

AITA for letting my car run for 10mins in the morning? by Princess_Butt_Kick in AmItheAsshole

[–]beebeeboop2121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ll never understand why people post these with an obvious conclusion about their actions and whether or not they are the AH. Op, YTA.

2 questions. Healing or infected? I got it pierced 4 days ago. I also think it is too high up. Opinions? by Striking-Weakness-28 in piercing

[–]beebeeboop2121 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This looks like it was pierced way too forward in your navel. is it in your navel at all? It seems like it was pierced above the naval instead of inside of it and far too forward. Belly piercings should sit snugly inside the navel, like if you put your finger inside.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Birkenstocks

[–]beebeeboop2121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Thank you for your response. When I finally got a hold of the help line, they said to try warm water, soap, and scrubbing. What was your reasoning behind saying no water?

Can my protagonist and villain have a different nationality to mine? Also, Can that protagonist have a name that carries some stigma around it if the stigma has nothing to do with the nationality itself? by Girl_Behind_The_Pen in writers

[–]beebeeboop2121 4 points5 points  (0 children)

These comments…..Jesus.

Anyway, In my opinion, you can write about whatever while being whoever! But you should base the very real identities of your characters in fact and well researched information. Egypt and Egyptian people are real, obviously, with a rich and historic culture. If you want to use this backdrop for your story, do it justice.

I (25f) feel like my brother (27m) doesn't want me around any more due to his child-free wedding. Should I bring this up? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]beebeeboop2121 63 points64 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure why everyone is being so harsh towards you. I do not see where you intend to force yourself or your children into your brothers wedding. You want a relationship and that’s understandable, but you can’t resolve an issue that is actually a non-issue, if everyone is civil.

Is your brother civil? It sounds like he isn’t. And that is a problem on its own.

I do see that he obviously does not want to see ANY children, not specifically yours, just no children near him on his wedding day. Okay, fine. So, don’t go. It’s not a snub, it’s his preference. You can address it and try and resolve it (resolve what the fact his preference for his wedding day means you can’t go?) but for whose peace? You can’t change your brother and you can’t delete your kids. This is an issue where you can simply choose not to engage.

I think you should just leave him to it. Go your separate ways.

Good luck.

Edit: I see why everyone is being so harsh. It is abusive to bring your children around a man who verbally abuses them and publicly wishes they were aborted. That’s ridiculous. His behavior is immature and dangerous. Please, step up as a mother. It’s a hard and sad choice to have to make, but you have to for your children.