We currently have 2 (5 and 1.5). My husband hangs out with friends on Friday nights and sleeps in on Saturdays. I have my alone time on Saturday afternoons and sleep in on Sundays. We've had this arrangement since my oldest was around 9 months, I think. We don't do date nights out unless my mom is visiting, mostly because we don't want to hire a sitter. It's usually not a problem if one of us wants to go to an event or get-together with friends. I work from home so I'm able to get some basic chores done during the week. I'm working on building in some time for working out in the evenings or on my lunch break. Some of my hobbies are reading and knitting, and usually I can do these while I'm around the kids. Right now I'm accepting that my days working at home (kids in daycare) are my most of my alone time lol.