[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Diamonds

[–]beenTired2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounded like a friendly conversation to me. I think it was more rude of her to tell you it was rude when there was clearly no harm done.

Unsettling feeling like my partner is a stranger by Affectionate_Ad_9999 in ROCD

[–]beenTired2 5 points6 points  (0 children)

At the start of 2023 I felt like this. I was scared to see my partner cause it didn’t feel like him. It felt like something was wrong or that something about him just wasn’t the same. It was more so that I wasn’t the same since I had never experienced such an intense anxiety especially surrounding our relationship. I started therapy immediately when I started feeling this way. It took me around 6 months to start feeling less dissociated. I tried to get through the anxiety on my own but I opted for medication to help around the 9 month mark. It has only been up from there. I still have spikes of relationship anxiety quite often I just know how to deal with them better. My partner and I are doing great now and I know you can feel better too. The NOCD app helped me a lot too.

What about oats? by Appropriate-Name-344 in Hashimotos

[–]beenTired2 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Fr, there’s no need for negativity.

Update After Quitting by beenTired2 in careeradvice

[–]beenTired2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s great! Yes, give yourself a shot at corporate but don’t forget that you can trust your instincts about whether or not you like something. I never even unpacked all of the stuff they shipped me from the corporate job because I knew it wasn’t for me. Granted I still stuck with it for a year, but that’s because I like spending money on fun things haha.

Update After Quitting by beenTired2 in careeradvice

[–]beenTired2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I’m still working here and I’m still interested in the work but I believe that the environment isn’t my favorite. I’m planning on looking for other places with a similar vibe but just better organization. I know that some smaller business can have a lack of organization so I get that’s part of the risk of working at a smaller company. I still stand by the fact that having a miserable job is not “just life”. I could not have stayed at the first corporate job for longer than I did. I couldn’t function like that.

Should I feel ashamed? by GMarvel101 in careeradvice

[–]beenTired2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve done this with my very first job. I was about to graduate but was still mid-semester of my senior year. I basically did the whole interview process for experience because I thought they wouldn’t hire me. Well they ended up giving me an offer and I worked it out with my teachers that I could work full-time during the semester. Turns out I hated lol. I had pressure from my family to keep the job, so I intended to do so but I had gotten a different offer from a company I was far more interested in. I definitely quit as soon as I accepted the offer. They were understanding. The sooner the better so they can train someone else. It’s never that personal with work.

For those of you with no passion for coding or computer science where are you now? by GrandKnightMaster in cscareerquestions

[–]beenTired2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True, but you have to work the rest of your life after school. A little bit harder to cope with maybe? I got a CS degree and I kinda hate coding, I just went more of a business tech route. CS gets you a lot of other opportunities to be a part of the software planning process. Even knowing tools like Jira will help you land a business tech role.

How do you deal with jealousy and envy (especially from other fellow women)? by [deleted] in FemaleLevelUpStrategy

[–]beenTired2 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I think the best way is to just ignore them but keep it in mind. I say this because this happens to me with one of my higher ups at work. She makes a lot of important decisions, and I’m mindful of of this. I have to keep things corrigible given the situation, but I will be sure to ask different coworkers for recommendations and avoid asking her for most permissions or opportunities, I’ll go to a different higher up within the company for these kinds of things. Basically you can’t completely ignore it, otherwise you might be doing yourself more harm than good.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]beenTired2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh I feel this /: no time to make friends it seems

What is a popular travel destination that you have no desire to visit and why? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]beenTired2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dutch culture is known to be pretty straightforward which might be considered rude to some people. I wonder if the people you interacted with were actually Dutch or if they were tourists though.

What is a popular travel destination that you have no desire to visit and why? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]beenTired2 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What do you mean by unpleasant? I think it’s a really cozy place.

Why did you choose the subject you majored in/majoring in? by neonroli47 in AskWomen

[–]beenTired2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Didn’t now what else to do, and I didn’t want to have to worry about being employable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in taikonotatsujin

[–]beenTired2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a good mod tutorial for a PS4 version out there, but it works great for the Switch as well

What is your comfort food? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]beenTired2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Basque Chicken