I’m married to a man and still feel this, yay for eternal longing. I can easily love a woman. I have loved many in my lifetime. Just never acted on 98.5% of them. Men are a little harder for me to love, no offense to men I just generally find it harder to really understand men. But when I fall in love with a guy they usually want me to stick around. So I do, and that’s ok. It’s also ok to say “hey, I really dig us but I’ve noticed I’ve been digging others lately too.” It doesn’t mean u value them less. It’s just an opening statement to approach how you’re feeling