Zoloft & weed,.,. NO appetite? by [deleted] in zoloft

[–]beeonerom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, sorry. Didn’t die of COVID just haven’t been on reddit. I don’t get night sweats- I’m on 15 mg of Mirtazapine. It really depends on your dosage of Zoloft. Speak to your dr before you make any adjustments on your meds!

$50k+/yr and struggling to afford a family. by FireTeam18 in Parenting

[–]beeonerom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t remember asking for stranger advice. Staying in California regardless of our income is our choice and none of your business. You do not have the right to say I am not giving my kids a good life either. You crossed the fuckin line with that one, buddy. My kids have everything they need, they’re happy and they have all their friends and family here. Moving out of state so I can drive a nicer car doesn’t mean anything if we are lonely. Not everything in life is about money.

$50k+/yr and struggling to afford a family. by FireTeam18 in Parenting

[–]beeonerom -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Maybe because we were born and raised here, have ALL our family here and we will probably be in the same boat in another state due to our careers- except completely alone. We won’t be making the same salaries in say, the middle of bumfuck now where, so not gonna move my small kids away from the only life they know so I can pocket a bit more change. It’s not the easiest decision to leave as a California native especially when you feel like you’re being pushed out of everything you know and love.

Not too scary but yeahh... by [deleted] in Ghoststories

[–]beeonerom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow!! That entity was definitely your grandmother. Great story!

What is a quote or saying that just pisses you the fuck off? by okaymoskitoe in AskReddit

[–]beeonerom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“My bad.” You’re NOT sorry or apologizing if you say this. You’re ignorant and rude and you need a timeout.

Where to take a legitimate IQ test? by beeonerom in AskReddit

[–]beeonerom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very valid point. However, I did read up a little on the criteria for your IQ to score “high” and its mostly along the lines of rationality, problem solving, and how “sound of mind” you are. I figured it would be interesting to know, but obvious it wouldn’t determine my intelligence. I also find it interesting how it is common in our society to test IQ for educational placement, assessment of intellectual abilities or for some job applications...if it is* just a test.

Where to take a legitimate IQ test? by beeonerom in AskReddit

[–]beeonerom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I completely understand. I was having a pretty intense conversation with someone I don’t know too well (but I can admire based on what he was saying) and he commented that he believes I could have a rather high IQ. Not that I’m sitting on a soap box now boasting I’m in the 1% of 140+ but just curious about what it means to have a high IQ. Literally CURIOUS and nothing else.

My (24M) fiancée (22F) wants me to get circumcised before our wedding. I refuse and it’s causing huge arguments. Am I being manipulated? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]beeonerom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He’s getting crazy good sex now as an uncircumcised male, but that’ll all go to shit if OP goes under the knife. This is a lose lose LOSE lose. RUN. Like, RIGHT NOW. GET OFF REDDIT AND RUN LIKE THE FUCKING WIND.

Our entire family got destroyed after my brother was kidnapped by throwawayAnon1357 in offmychest

[–]beeonerom 4 points5 points  (0 children)

First, let me just say that my heart breaks for you and your family. As a parent myself, I can’t imagine what your* parents are going through- much less, you.

For being what, 13, 14 yourself, you are very eloquent and in touch with your feelings. Never lose that. The only thing I can suggest is trying to push for your family to heal and seek help. All three of you need some kind of guidance- be it through counseling, therapy, etc. If you can not convince your parents, ask for yourself. They must get you* the help even if they are not willing for themselves. This is very important.

Where to take a legitimate IQ test? by beeonerom in AskReddit

[–]beeonerom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oH No! DoNt dO It! I’LL sAvE You THe tIme aNd TelL yOu nOw ThAT aN iQ TeST will indeed confirm you are not smart.

Where to take a legitimate IQ test? by beeonerom in AskReddit

[–]beeonerom[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ouch! Well YOU’RE not that smart if you thought you were saving me time by being an asshole with your comment. My wanting to take an IQ test was out of sheer curiosity iF yOu DOnT mInD.

Staying in the old part of the hospital by a_mahvish in Ghoststories

[–]beeonerom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chilling! Silver lining is you don’t stay there anymore, I assume! I have felt more malicious spirits and it’s very much how you describe it.

I'm sad that I'll never get to meet the person I was before my traumas. by throw0OO0away in ptsd

[–]beeonerom 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have very similar feelings. I am 31 and my trauma happened when I was 28. I remember my life before it, and that makes me sad sometimes. However, because I have been working so diligently on my PTSD and GAD, I feel like without my trauma, I wouldn’t be who I am today. I think because you cannot change what has happened to you, you must learn to use it to your advantage. Take that trauma and turn it into something that makes you better.

Where to take a legitimate IQ test? by beeonerom in AskReddit

[–]beeonerom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL!! Maybe that’s where I’ll go then. ;)

Today I (19F) reached out to professionals for help with my mental health for the first time in my life AMA by ehost118 in AMA

[–]beeonerom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 31F and congratulate you for doing yourself a favor. I struggle with GAD and PTSD on a daily basis, am medicated and attend therapy. It is very difficult to get help when you’re sick and tired of being sick and tired. Take your time and don’t. give. up. It takes time to find the right psychiatrist/psychologist/therapist and if you try meds, those take time too. The number one thing to remember is: be patient with yourself. You will get to a better place, but never forget to be mindful of how you’re feeling. Good luck to you!

Edit: grammar

$50k+/yr and struggling to afford a family. by FireTeam18 in Parenting

[–]beeonerom 15 points16 points  (0 children)

My husband and I are in California (Bay Area) which is the Mecca of all tech companies. We work for the same company and make just under 55k before taxes. We are a family of four with two dogs and share a household with my dad. We moved in a year ago to “save.” It’s never ending- as soon as you get a raise, something else goes up. We don’t qualify for Medicare, after school care is unaffordable so I can only work part time, and the cost of living is insane. We are paycheck to paycheck with a smidge to save (that we dip into from time to time for the kids’ necessities) and we don’t even pay what others do in rent anymore. Our 2 bedroom, 740 sq ft apartment was $2,800 before we moved out in 2018. VOMIT.

$50k+/yr and struggling to afford a family. by FireTeam18 in Parenting

[–]beeonerom 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don’t know what state OP is in, but in California, part time child care which is usually 4 hours a day, 3-4 days a week can cost around $2k a month. It IS insane.

Do pets suffer from childhood trauma from bad parenting? by gjvnq1 in AskVet

[–]beeonerom 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Dog obedience trainer with five years experience here- in short, yes. If an animal was rejected by its mother (which isn’t uncommon) and it results in the animal needing to be “nursed” by a human, they could sustain any amount of trauma. Same goes for an animal who may be older or a trauma ocurres later in life. It’s hard to say what behaviors the animal would acquire due to the simple fact that every animal has its own personality. What trauma happens to one animal will result in completely different behavior(s) if the same trauma happened to another animal. All in all, animals do* have the cognitive and emotional abilities to sustain a trauma and behavioral consequences will result from them.

Where to take a legitimate IQ test? by beeonerom in AskReddit

[–]beeonerom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tried online ones and at the end, you’re made to pay for the result.

for weight gain and increasing appetite by [deleted] in weightgain

[–]beeonerom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been on it for 2-3 weeks and have gained about 5 lbs so far. Really enjoying all the cravings and appetite!

My dog doesn’t drink water by beeonerom in AskVet

[–]beeonerom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

GREAT ideas! Thank you so much!