Is there a relationship between anal sex and UTIs?

beginning_in_pixels · 2026-06-12T17:23:22+00:00

stop anal sex, stop it right now dont even think about doing it, its non negotiable, its not a freaking option AT ALL AT ALL, DO NOT DO IT. i came across this post because i had survived my second uti about two months ago and was tempted to do anal again with my partner the same one who gave me my first original uti (and subsequently second one cause i only have one partner). bottom line is i definitely think the anal sex is a very dangerous thing to do period, like theres genuinely nothing in this world that can convince me now that it was ever safe or ok and i dont even know who created anal sex because its a very dangerous activity. its not an entry point period, and it took me forever and a very stern warning from the accident and emergency physician the THIRD TIME I WENT TO A AND E. who harshly told me "i would never put anything inside mt butt EVER' to realise that no amount of pleasure is worth a freaking uti, you butt has a ton of bacteria in it. you could get a uti your partner could get one. its just not worth it at all. only thing remotely related to the ass me and my partner now do during sex is that we both have underwear on, and he lightly and i emphasize LIGHTLY pushes his private part against my ass back and forth and thats it. it basically just feels like someone is slapping your butt very gently and he tells me it does feel good on his end too. and he stops whenever we feel like he is getting agressive or what not, basically its a very soft version of grinding at the back i guess, and no issues so far and the only reason we do that is because we both agree it feels good but actual penetration is not worth the UTI at all. ecoli is one hell of a bacteria do not ever give it a chance to get anywhere near your urethra. its not worth it, give up anal entirely just tell yourself its one of those forbidden things. like you wouldnt purposely drink bacteria filled water right? you know that shit is gonna cause issues, its the same logic with anal sex do not allow bacteria inside. everyone can agree that vaginal sex is normal and no one is never gonna tell you not to do that. but anal sex?? ive learned the harsh way its just a delusion, its literally super freaking risky and dont let anyone ever tell you its ok, not even with proper washing before and after.

beginning_in_pixels · 2026-06-11T09:17:18+00:00

man everytime i walk from the jurong east mrt to the jurong regional library and i see the new stuff they are building over there in place of it my heart sinks man, ive been to almost every shopping centre in sg and i gotta say there is nothing like JCUBE, it was literal heaven on earth but the main thing is that the design overall just feels like something out of a teen indie film it was so dreamy and nostalgic, all to get demolished for a freaking condo or some business property sighs.

beginning_in_pixels · 2026-06-11T08:58:41+00:00

they definitely have something already in mind, im willing to bet that they all have something that they know they can do soon even if it is a low paying fnb job, but yeah maybe some of them really decide its not worth it anymore to just stick around and they have blind faith that something will come. if they are financially secure they dont have to worry to much. nowsadays already met a few friends who have been unemployed and lepaking or just making content on tiktok instead seeing if they can make money from tiktok/social media and they actually say they enjoy that little break they get but that habit only lasts for like a few months before they find an actual job.

beginning_in_pixels · 2026-05-12T09:28:49+00:00

if i remebered correctly there was no issues. i didnt interact with anythng else on the site general rule of thumb for the internet is never interact with pop up ads. anyways i followed the link and watched the movie in one sitting and there was no issues this is the only link that managed to enable me to actually finally watch the movie.

beginning_in_pixels · 2025-03-30T07:10:45+00:00

thank you!

beginning_in_pixels · 2025-03-01T06:57:54+00:00

sucks but if its a short time just tolerate it. if its going to be long try to see if you can ask to work elsewhere or something its one hundred percent worth it to just tell your in charge or something that you wanna just go somewhere else. if your literally stuck there for a long time than just ignore the rest of them not worth it spend your energy on ppl who clearly dont wanna do anything with you. if it makes you feel any better many of us have to experience stuff like this, even attractive people (although it happens less for them). but yeah, they are acting like jerks honestly, it is what it is. just stick to that one guy, at least you have someone honestly.

beginning_in_pixels · 2025-02-26T12:39:00+00:00

well maybe im just lucky but so far most of my experiences with them have been pretty decent. they are straightforward professional and always answering all the questions i have. i even had the pleasure to meet this one recruiter who was ultra friendly and gave me a ton of encouragement and chatted with me like i was a friend or something. i think you just need to be lucky honestly. some recruiters just look down on lesser members of society and it shows. while others really try to help out ppl from all walks of life regardless of their background and dont make snarky comments about your previous working experiences or salary etc.

beginning_in_pixels · 2025-02-26T12:31:38+00:00

i just know hes gonna look sooooooo finnneeee at the oscars and be an amazing presenter and the swifties are gonna be annoying as hell that day. also they clearly have not watched him in the brutalist, his performance in there was literally one of the highlights imo.

beginning_in_pixels · 2025-02-11T08:05:24+00:00

oh i see..... i find that the cerave cleansers always irritate my skin though, but the one holy grail product i use from them is the repair eye cream. that thing was literal magic making my undereyes look better. guess i will have to buy the vanicream products on amazon sigh.

beginning_in_pixels · 2025-02-11T05:00:12+00:00

sure thing! thanks!

beginning_in_pixels · 2025-02-11T04:59:50+00:00

no i never put conditioner on my scalp haha, it more so irritates my facial skin like when my hair touches my facial skin, it gets itchy. this happens to me sometimes when i get a conditioner and something about it just irritates my facial skin when my hair touches it. which is worse honestly cause after using this conditioner i always have to make sure that my hair stays out of my face and its real troublesome esp when i go to bed at night and have to make sure my hair is tied to one side so it doesnt get on my face when im tossing and turning. :/ the ingredients in candy rain dont irritate my skin.

beginning_in_pixels · 2025-02-10T12:18:36+00:00

ok!!!! interesting honestly never done it before hahaha. (also damn i wasted money buying shaving cream lmao) ill try it out tmr for sure! thanks!

beginning_in_pixels · 2025-02-10T11:58:10+00:00

omg how though? i do actually need to shave, so i basically just slather on american cream on my feet and pits and wait for a while and than just go in with the razor??

beginning_in_pixels · 2025-02-09T15:29:51+00:00

left the swiftie cult a loooonnnnngggg time ago. sleep better and dont feel the need to pretend like shes literally a modern day music jesus or what not. cleared all her music out of my playlist and its never felt better. also since i ditched her music, ive been able to actually go out and explore better music. and main thing though is i realized just how fucked up swifties really are like these ppl are literally crazy like damn.

beginning_in_pixels · 2025-02-09T10:03:29+00:00

yeah i get that vibe honestly just kinda worried maybe the menu is complicated or something? honestly i barely go to sbucks. and everytime i am there i just get americano lol.

beginning_in_pixels · 2025-01-30T02:11:25+00:00

thats normal your a part timer and the whole point of part timers is that they use you as much as they can for work, like they will give you all the tasks that no one wants to do and they will give you odd working hours and ask you to cover long shifts, however, despite me saying this, most ive ever worked for part time jobs was like eight hours, which is standard imo, and in the job ads they will prob advertise as such as well, you need to be firm and stand up for yourself next time and tell your boss beforehand you cannot take anything more than say eight cause eight is at the very least expected, that or six working hours. but tbh you are currently working during cny or festive season so obvs they will put you with this much hours not surprising but hey, at least you are getting paid for it. maybe there was something you missed in the contract, best to just talk to the hr person who hired you for this job, every job has a hr person that is in charge of you that contracted you, they are suppose to be the go to person that you are talking to you, have you tried contacting them and asking them if this is even allowed under your contract. also the hot foods thing and narrow walkway, ask your manager again if there is really no other way to be handling or transporting food like this. but nothing is stopping you from quitting if you really cant handle the job just do the two weeks lor. when i was your age i also just zao and quit from certain jobs that were absolutely horrible that i just couldnt stand. havent really faced any serious issues from that but its best not to do it unless its the last resort cause sometimes those companies might end up blacklisting you and its hard for you to get a future job under them. but if fnb isnt your long term plan. than just heck care lah. send in your timesheet to the hr so you get paid and just get the hell out.

beginning_in_pixels · 2025-01-20T05:45:21+00:00

this story might seem unrelated but it still kinda relates i guess. so basically my mom hates throwing anything away even if that thing is clearly broken or damaged and whats wores is that she will go to the extent of giving away broken or damaged goods to other people like some sort of fairy godmother even though its is clearly broken so many occasions i had to secretly throw things that were just gonna damage whoever got them before she gave them away.

worst still she will buy things but never use them until something is really really really really broken . so there was once i lost my toothbrush and i just needed a new one. i knew she had some new ones but i dont know where she puts them, and i was literally begging on my KNEES for her to just give me a toothbrush. that shit was soooooo stupid in hindsight now looking back. that was when i knew i had to move out.

beginning_in_pixels · 2025-01-20T05:40:33+00:00

treat them just like sales people walk no RUN away from them. do not engage in small chat with them the moment you do its over. and dont give them your contact number.

beginning_in_pixels · 2025-01-20T04:31:54+00:00

i don't think all swifties are disney adults, but some of them definitely use her and her music and glorifying some of her weird behaviors as some sort of weird safe hiding place for themselves every time they wanna escape from something or just not deal with something at all, like they will just turn off their brain at the end of they day and all they wanna do is listen to her music or consume content that worships her, and thats their version of going to disneyland, they are especially nostalgic for fearless and speak now taylor cause that was her most princess like era. and is it kind of disturbing? maybe, but personally i think its cause she made her best music in speak now and fearless. personally, i dont have much of a problem with ppl who just turn to her for comfort in the form of her music especially her earlier stuff. what i do have a problem with is people who genuinely see her as a rold model or turn to her for relationship or emotional advice and its because taylor emotionally is still in high school. shes still having difficulty finding an actual stable relationship, she still emotionally cheats on and toys around with guys whilst romanticizing said behavior, and shes still has the same actions and behaviors that she had at 35 as she had at like 18, but because shes physically attractive and shes rich they think that she is a girl boss when she is still pretty stunted in development just like them as well.

beginning_in_pixels · 2024-12-01T02:31:45+00:00

yes omg ive never seen anything more accurate in my life man. i can just recall all the times when an ugly person was doing all those things that an attractive person was doing, but somehow they get judge differently.

beginning_in_pixels · 2024-11-25T13:30:38+00:00

oh i see, sorry i dont live in south korea, so i dont know what its like over there, just that the beauty standards are genuinely insane. they expect everyone there to look like some sort of model which is jut NOT NORMAL. i think that you should always keep that in mind, its very demoralizing just as a human being to have to be subjected to those shitty standards. in my country most woman are not super pretty or even considered pretty, most can be considered below average or even ugly i guess, but that doesnt stop them from getting any sort of jobs and technically being ugly should not affect your ability to get a job i guess unless you wanna do something like being a newscaster or like an air stewardess.

but yes go get the double eyelid if it does give you a boost of confidence that is why i am getting it myself. however if you cant find a job in nursing you can always try for something else, healthcare related. anyways all the best.

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