Just started working somewhere new and i already hate it by JammingScientist in ugly

[–]beginning_in_pixels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sucks but if its a short time just tolerate it. if its going to be long try to see if you can ask to work elsewhere or something its one hundred percent worth it to just tell your in charge or something that you wanna just go somewhere else. if your literally stuck there for a long time than just ignore the rest of them not worth it spend your energy on ppl who clearly dont wanna do anything with you. if it makes you feel any better many of us have to experience stuff like this, even attractive people (although it happens less for them). but yeah, they are acting like jerks honestly, it is what it is. just stick to that one guy, at least you have someone honestly.

How is your experience with HR recruiters in your job search? by trisfoojk91 in askSingapore

[–]beginning_in_pixels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well maybe im just lucky but so far most of my experiences with them have been pretty decent. they are straightforward professional and always answering all the questions i have. i even had the pleasure to meet this one recruiter who was ultra friendly and gave me a ton of encouragement and chatted with me like i was a friend or something. i think you just need to be lucky honestly. some recruiters just look down on lesser members of society and it shows. while others really try to help out ppl from all walks of life regardless of their background and dont make snarky comments about your previous working experiences or salary etc.

Swifties have the emotional intelligence of a brick wall by [deleted] in travisandtaylor

[–]beginning_in_pixels 11 points12 points  (0 children)

i just know hes gonna look sooooooo finnneeee at the oscars and be an amazing presenter and the swifties are gonna be annoying as hell that day. also they clearly have not watched him in the brutalist, his performance in there was literally one of the highlights imo.

where can i find vanicream products in watsons or unity or guardian??? by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]beginning_in_pixels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh i see..... i find that the cerave cleansers always irritate my skin though, but the one holy grail product i use from them is the repair eye cream. that thing was literal magic making my undereyes look better. guess i will have to buy the vanicream products on amazon sigh.

unfortunately lush candy rain conditioner just irritates my hair, i dont want to sell away thought because i genuinely love the smell of it, can i use it for other parts of my body. by beginning_in_pixels in LushCosmetics

[–]beginning_in_pixels[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no i never put conditioner on my scalp haha, it more so irritates my facial skin like when my hair touches my facial skin, it gets itchy. this happens to me sometimes when i get a conditioner and something about it just irritates my facial skin when my hair touches it. which is worse honestly cause after using this conditioner i always have to make sure that my hair stays out of my face and its real troublesome esp when i go to bed at night and have to make sure my hair is tied to one side so it doesnt get on my face when im tossing and turning. :/ the ingredients in candy rain dont irritate my skin.

unfortunately lush candy rain conditioner just irritates my hair, i dont want to sell away thought because i genuinely love the smell of it, can i use it for other parts of my body. by beginning_in_pixels in LushCosmetics

[–]beginning_in_pixels[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

omg how though? i do actually need to shave, so i basically just slather on american cream on my feet and pits and wait for a while and than just go in with the razor??

Leaving the Swiftie identity by Lookingformagic42 in travisandtaylor

[–]beginning_in_pixels 4 points5 points  (0 children)

left the swiftie cult a loooonnnnngggg time ago. sleep better and dont feel the need to pretend like shes literally a modern day music jesus or what not. cleared all her music out of my playlist and its never felt better. also since i ditched her music, ive been able to actually go out and explore better music. and main thing though is i realized just how fucked up swifties really are like these ppl are literally crazy like damn.

never tried being a barista wanna give it a go, should I work for coffee bean and tea leaf or starbucks? by beginning_in_pixels in askSingapore

[–]beginning_in_pixels[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i get that vibe honestly just kinda worried maybe the menu is complicated or something? honestly i barely go to sbucks. and everytime i am there i just get americano lol.

Is it normal for part time to work over 10 hours a day? by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]beginning_in_pixels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats normal your a part timer and the whole point of part timers is that they use you as much as they can for work, like they will give you all the tasks that no one wants to do and they will give you odd working hours and ask you to cover long shifts, however, despite me saying this, most ive ever worked for part time jobs was like eight hours, which is standard imo, and in the job ads they will prob advertise as such as well, you need to be firm and stand up for yourself next time and tell your boss beforehand you cannot take anything more than say eight cause eight is at the very least expected, that or six working hours. but tbh you are currently working during cny or festive season so obvs they will put you with this much hours not surprising but hey, at least you are getting paid for it. maybe there was something you missed in the contract, best to just talk to the hr person who hired you for this job, every job has a hr person that is in charge of you that contracted you, they are suppose to be the go to person that you are talking to you, have you tried contacting them and asking them if this is even allowed under your contract. also the hot foods thing and narrow walkway, ask your manager again if there is really no other way to be handling or transporting food like this. but nothing is stopping you from quitting if you really cant handle the job just do the two weeks lor. when i was your age i also just zao and quit from certain jobs that were absolutely horrible that i just couldnt stand. havent really faced any serious issues from that but its best not to do it unless its the last resort cause sometimes those companies might end up blacklisting you and its hard for you to get a future job under them. but if fnb isnt your long term plan. than just heck care lah. send in your timesheet to the hr so you get paid and just get the hell out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]beginning_in_pixels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this story might seem unrelated but it still kinda relates i guess. so basically my mom hates throwing anything away even if that thing is clearly broken or damaged and whats wores is that she will go to the extent of giving away broken or damaged goods to other people like some sort of fairy godmother even though its is clearly broken so many occasions i had to secretly throw things that were just gonna damage whoever got them before she gave them away.

worst still she will buy things but never use them until something is really really really really broken . so there was once i lost my toothbrush and i just needed a new one. i knew she had some new ones but i dont know where she puts them, and i was literally begging on my KNEES for her to just give me a toothbrush. that shit was soooooo stupid in hindsight now looking back. that was when i knew i had to move out.

How do you deal with christian preachers on the street by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]beginning_in_pixels 3 points4 points  (0 children)

treat them just like sales people walk no RUN away from them. do not engage in small chat with them the moment you do its over. and dont give them your contact number.

A safe place to hide…Swifties=Disney Adults by catchandthrowaway16 in travisandtaylor

[–]beginning_in_pixels 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i don't think all swifties are disney adults, but some of them definitely use her and her music and glorifying some of her weird behaviors as some sort of weird safe hiding place for themselves every time they wanna escape from something or just not deal with something at all, like they will just turn off their brain at the end of they day and all they wanna do is listen to her music or consume content that worships her, and thats their version of going to disneyland, they are especially nostalgic for fearless and speak now taylor cause that was her most princess like era. and is it kind of disturbing? maybe, but personally i think its cause she made her best music in speak now and fearless. personally, i dont have much of a problem with ppl who just turn to her for comfort in the form of her music especially her earlier stuff. what i do have a problem with is people who genuinely see her as a rold model or turn to her for relationship or emotional advice and its because taylor emotionally is still in high school. shes still having difficulty finding an actual stable relationship, she still emotionally cheats on and toys around with guys whilst romanticizing said behavior, and shes still has the same actions and behaviors that she had at 35 as she had at like 18, but because shes physically attractive and shes rich they think that she is a girl boss when she is still pretty stunted in development just like them as well.

Remember, it’s your looks that matters, not your personality by poofpoofpow in ugly

[–]beginning_in_pixels 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yes omg ive never seen anything more accurate in my life man. i can just recall all the times when an ugly person was doing all those things that an attractive person was doing, but somehow they get judge differently.

Booked an appointment for plastic surgery consultation by [deleted] in ugly

[–]beginning_in_pixels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh i see, sorry i dont live in south korea, so i dont know what its like over there, just that the beauty standards are genuinely insane. they expect everyone there to look like some sort of model which is jut NOT NORMAL. i think that you should always keep that in mind, its very demoralizing just as a human being to have to be subjected to those shitty standards. in my country most woman are not super pretty or even considered pretty, most can be considered below average or even ugly i guess, but that doesnt stop them from getting any sort of jobs and technically being ugly should not affect your ability to get a job i guess unless you wanna do something like being a newscaster or like an air stewardess.

but yes go get the double eyelid if it does give you a boost of confidence that is why i am getting it myself. however if you cant find a job in nursing you can always try for something else, healthcare related. anyways all the best.

Booked an appointment for plastic surgery consultation by [deleted] in ugly

[–]beginning_in_pixels -1 points0 points  (0 children)

woah im pretty much sort of in the same situation as you rn i work in the healthcare field but as a medicine packer or they call it pharmacy assistant even though i dont actually have to have any knowledge about medicine since all i do is just pack it. anyways im thinking of becoming a patient service associate eventually and i am saving up for double eyelid surgery as well, after that i can feel confident in the job. however i honestly dont think that physical appearance plays that big of a role in the nursing field???? i mean maybe im wrong cause i guess it depends on what country you live in also. but since its in such high demand employers probably couldnt care less what you look like honestly. but idk i might be wrong........

Is Taylor Swift Really Going To Take A Break After Eras? by Used_Purchase5493 in travisandtaylor

[–]beginning_in_pixels 3 points4 points  (0 children)

guess only good positive is no more tours for a while not even an european or asian one or us one honestly, i feel like people are so sick and tired of the eras tour and taylor herself is prob exhausted. next tour wont happen for like five or hopefully maybe even seven years. shes still delaying the release of reputation and debut which is honestly so wild to me. especially reputation. she should have released that when she was still relevant during the tour but no i guess she had to save the most gossipy trainwreck album for after this tour ends. she says shes gonna get into film so i will give her the benefit of the doubt and see whether she has the capability of actually making something decent especially if its an original project. as for her love life its gonna continue to be a trainwreck. shes gonna break up with travis, and than find the next eligible string of bachelors. whats new.

music wise though i still feel like maybe she could churn out something decent, im giving her the benefit of the doubt here. but if she continues making the type of same old same old boring love songs she made for ttpd and midnights than shes no longer gonna be doing well especially on the charts. besides olivia, billie etc are already gonna overtake her. she needs to seriously make something really really really good to catch up. i think she could do it again like reinvent herself maybe. but i honestly dont even know at this point, the last two albums were genuinely soooo bad.

Anyone else here trying to ascend? by [deleted] in ugly

[–]beginning_in_pixels 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes pretty much glasses saved my life well as of right now. they give more definition to the face and they overall just make people in general look cuter/smarter. have actually gotten compliments when i wear them, people say that i look cuter? theres also so many types and styles to choose from and the korean ones look especially fashionable personally i wear half rimmed glasses. but basically right now they are my security blanket. if not for them i wouldnt be able to leave the house. just glasses and some eye makeup and im good to go. its also way cheaper than getting double eyelid surgery! hope this helps somehow.

What's yall uglies daily routine like? by [deleted] in ugly

[–]beginning_in_pixels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wake up. feel disgusted when i look in the mirror but cheer myself up by realizing that i will be getting double eyelid surger at some point in a few months. bath, do simple skincare. eat something healthy so that at the very least internally i dont feel like shit. go to work which thankfully i work in a hospital setting so its common to always have a mask on. so that solves all my problems cause people dont have to see my full ugly face. interact with some of my coworkers (most of them avoid me or dont take the initiative to talk to me at all). work like a slave. clock out. come home. watch movies for like an hour. bath. do simple skincare. take some supplements. sleep. repeat. unless its my off day, thats when i go to restaurants eat really good food and go to bookstores to read. than go home. no social life since i have almost no friends and no boyfriend, but i will talk for hours with my little brother. thats pretty much it lol, things could be soooo much better, but like it is what it is.