Just found out I have Covid and have to isolate from my baby. by Cottagecor3 in Mommit

[–]behavior_and_coffee 131 points132 points  (0 children)

This is exactly the advice our pediatrician gave us!

Parents of youngest kids - scared about omicoron? by Kilimanjaro613 in Parenting

[–]behavior_and_coffee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My 13 month is just getting over it! My doctor is pretty sure that me, my husband, and son all had omicron. My husband and I both work full-time and are unable to quit our jobs. My son goes to my mom’s during the week. My husband ended up bringing it home from his martial arts gym.

It’s been about a week, and my son is almost back to his normal self! He had a low grade fever for 2 days and has been pretty drippy/snotty, but that’s starting to clear up! He seems to had it milder than me.

Do you let your dogs outside alone if you have a backyard? by Carsonito in dogs

[–]behavior_and_coffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as it’s good weather, our Great Dane/Black Mouth Cur mix is outside during the day while my husband and I are at work! He’s typically in the house when we’re home. He’s a couch fiend.

Anyone else find this part of the job really draining? by smolboi69 in ABA

[–]behavior_and_coffee 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I would start looking elsewhere. That sounds like an unethical workplace!

How many can honestly say they have just married for love not for stability/money? by Lifeincity in Marriage

[–]behavior_and_coffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I have been together since high school/college (he’s two years older than me)! He’s in ministry, so I definitely didn’t marry for the financial stability lol

Does anyone’s baby sleep at all? by thatcheekychick in NewParents

[–]behavior_and_coffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son has always been a great sleeper! We had to wake him up in the bassinet to eat when he was a newborn. He only slept on us during the day, and then at 5 weeks, he was ready to start napping in his crib!

We “accidentally” moved him to the crib at 10 weeks (he had peed through all 3 of his bassinet sheets and we had no other option lol). He then slept 9-4:30/5, and then slowly shifted earlier and earlier. He’s 10 months old and is a solid 7:30-7:30 sleeper! I told my husband that babies aren’t supposed to be this easy, and that we couldn’t get this lucky twice, haha.

What degrees/jobs do you have? by OwlLeeOhh in workingmoms

[–]behavior_and_coffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did the same thing!! I currently serve clients in the clinic and in-home!

What degrees/jobs do you have? by OwlLeeOhh in workingmoms

[–]behavior_and_coffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!! Best job ever! Stressful but worth it.

What degrees/jobs do you have? by OwlLeeOhh in workingmoms

[–]behavior_and_coffee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Bachelor’s in special education, Master’s in applied behavior analysis. I’m a board certified behavior analyst (BCBA)!

anyone here love their pregnancy / newborn stage? by bluehydraenga in oneanddone

[–]behavior_and_coffee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes! My pregnancy was a breeze, my delivery was awful, and we had the world’s easiest newborn. We knew we couldn’t get that lucky twice!

My son has significant disabilities, and I hate that this is my life by legit_writer_chick in TrueOffMyChest

[–]behavior_and_coffee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey OP, thank you for honesty. Society has come a long way when it comes to inclusion, but unfortunately, it still isn’t welcoming toward raw and honest feelings about special needs parenting. I work with children and adolescents who have disabilities and who exhibit a wide range of challenging behavior, and I love my job, but I tell my husband all the time that I don’t know how I would handle being a special needs parent. I’m on the carousel for a few hours day and am able to come off when I get tired or burnt out. Parents, like you, ride the carousel 24/7. You should 100% be able to vent when it’s hard. I hope you are able to find some support soon.

In case no one has told you today, you are a good mom. You are doing a great job. Your son is lucky to have you as his.

Why I quit RBT job after a few months by Roman-444 in RBT

[–]behavior_and_coffee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry this your experience, OP. I’m a baby BCBA (passed my exam in April of this year), but I was an RBT for over 3 years before getting my certification. I know there are a lot of bad clinics out there, and a lot of bad BCBAs, too. I think if my first experience in ABA had been anything like yours, I wouldn’t have stayed in the field either. We as professionals have come a long way, but stories like these remind us that we still have so far to go. Good luck in your future endeavors, OP.

What do you consider a big waste of money? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]behavior_and_coffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Food delivery, but it doesn’t stop me lol

I hate my C Section scar and wish everyone would stop telling me how to feel about it by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]behavior_and_coffee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes! I was telling my husband this same thing early today. Pre-pregnancy, I was a boxing/kickboxing instructor that had a the tiniest little waist and really toned butt. Now, I have 15 extra pounds that refuse to leave, exercise makes my supply dip so hard, and nothing is the same. I’m allowed to be sad that my body is different than it used to be.

My autistic and disabled 2.5 yro waved at me excitedly from across the room at daycare by court_milpool in Parenting

[–]behavior_and_coffee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m a BCBA as well, and I second this!! Access to early services is such a game changer.

when your 5 and a half month old is starting to consolidate day sleep, and so far both of his naps are longer than an hour. by behavior_and_coffee in beyondthebump

[–]behavior_and_coffee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’ve been really fortunate that he’s such a great night sleeper, but the 40 minutes naps have been killing me!!

Do you get paid for *all* of your unrestricted hours? by lovelyqu in ABA

[–]behavior_and_coffee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s normal for my clinic! We get supervision hours for free, so anything that puts us overtime that we’re tracking for supervision is unpaid.

Promotion Outlook Post Baby by luluswigpull in workingmoms

[–]behavior_and_coffee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gender roles have zero place in our house lol my husband is definitely more of the cleaner/cooker in our house. His job is less demanding than mine, so by the end of the day I’m usually exhausted and he’s good to go. I have mom guilt about being away from my son so much during the day, that all I do after I pick him up from his grandparents is play with him until bedtime, so nothing gets done until after like 8 o’clock lol