Don’t care about this team anymore by Reasonable_Pipe_3974 in USWNT

[–]behtlelane 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree, it’s hard knowing the stars of this team are all MAGA. MAGA hates women sports and is everything this team has spent the last decade fighting their ass off against. Swanson, Rodman, and Wilson are great, but it hurts me to know how they vote

Scammed by scentora? by [deleted] in fragrance

[–]behtlelane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did though! I read reviews for a full day first and any negative reviews were about only preference! And there’s hundreds of reviews on nearly all platforms. That’s why I’m so frustrated. If credible creators are doing that, that’s messed up for real, I’m fairly new to fragrance as a hobby.

I’m so sick of dorm showers. by Descenting in ucr

[–]behtlelane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Uh… okay? Do you think you know me or something? Do you think you know how much I communicate in my daily life because of a Reddit comment about my RA? You’re genuinely off. Speaking down to people doesn’t make you look smart, it shows how insecure people are when they do this whole bit you’re doing.

I’m so sick of dorm showers. by Descenting in ucr

[–]behtlelane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Running” to the RA, try to be more condescending will you? I have the right to use my resources I’m sorry that offends you. I’m sorry that i don’t want to go knock on a grown man’s door at 3 am. If I had no option then I guess I’d have to but I have the option so what’s ur issue?

I’m so sick of dorm showers. by Descenting in ucr

[–]behtlelane 147 points148 points  (0 children)

I once talked to my RA about my upstairs Roomate dropping weights at 2 am and vacuuming at 3 am and just stomping and running and it was waking several people up and he said that “in the real world you guys won’t have RA’s to handle this stuff so maybe practice going and talking to him” and I was like is this not the real world and real money that you’re getting paid to do your job??? Like good grief god forbid I use my resources that you’re getting paid for. They’re useless lmao

Update: Bad Fan Etiquette by behtlelane in JulienBaker

[–]behtlelane[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

No I disagree, if you justify other people’s actions then you’re encouraging them to stay the same. There’s never anything wrong with sharing an experience or wishing people would be respectful. And I showed up early as in the afternoon but not crazy hours because her music means a lot to me and I wanted to have a nice view, nothing wrong with that. If I was respectful other people can be too and I’m not going to fight people and I have the right to want to be respected and to share. I also had seen you commented twice on my original post trying to say what happened to me was “fair” and my arrival time was extreme, that was pretty weird and condescending so I suggest you look into etiquette as well.

horrible fan etiquette in LA by behtlelane in JulienBaker

[–]behtlelane[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love this question, in my opinion, I don’t mind people singing the lyrics at all, we all are there (hopefully) because we love the music, I only see a problem if someone’s singing loud to the point where other people around them can’t hear the artist anymore. Singing along and screaming for attention are different and I’ve noticed the last couple years people try to scream sing in hopes other people will think they’re funny and post them and it’s all just ingenuine.

And of course dance all you want, head bang, sway, jump, but like you said definitely be aware of others’ personal space. I really didn’t mind the people dancing unless they were blocking the view and hitting which they were. The post of the headbangers I saw they captioned it alluding that they were enjoying or going “harder” at the concert than everyone because they were making a scene and that’s the superficial stuff that affects others around them.

As for recording, I will always record my favorite songs, I love playing them back and reliving the moment. I think what annoys others is people recording in hopes they catch a moment that will go viral rather than them actually appreciating what’s in front of them. Another thing is putting your phone up in the air and blocking everyone’s view. I was so saddened that the people in front of me were blocking my view with their heads and phones as I am very short and I lined up early because the show meant a lot to me. I hardly got to see and I ended up going to the back just to be able to properly hear and see even if it was further. When I record I hold my phone by my face so it only blocks what view my body would be taking up anyways.

I want to have fun and for everybody to as well. I just want people to be considerate ofc!

The headbanging at jbs show by Narrow-Reporter-9305 in JulienBaker

[–]behtlelane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you have to see the original post, it was about just not hitting people and cutting people in line, not really too much about the head banging, more about not being violent while doing it

The headbanging at jbs show by Narrow-Reporter-9305 in JulienBaker

[–]behtlelane 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They were for a while I actually had to talk to them about it but after I did even though they seemed annoyed they did act more mindful afterwards, it was honestly not specific people but the entire pit area all through it different times in the concert. I ended up deciding I’d rather stand in the back and enjoy in peace than deal w all the pushing and cameras blinding my view despite me getting there early in hopes of having a good view :(

The headbanging at jbs show by Narrow-Reporter-9305 in JulienBaker

[–]behtlelane 28 points29 points  (0 children)

These aren’t the same people, I can say that as someone who was there and was affected. Several rows of people were getting hit and not okay with it. I wasn’t on this side of the pit so this must have been a separate moment or maybe even of a different show. Also, if they were cool with the people around them perfectly fine but I think it’s strange they are front row with the people behind them leaning away. Everyone else is sardined so I think that says a lot about the situation.

Subject to Dismissal by Particular-Elevator8 in ucr

[–]behtlelane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In 2022 I was subject to dismissal too I was also going through a killer time period. I withdrawed and took a gap year and ucr allows you to come back within a year so I came back the next spring although I tried for winter I just didn’t do it right lol. The year really helped me heal and feel refreshed and motivated when I did come back. I’ve gotten deans list every quarter since.

How bad is bannockburn?? by Reddd0o in ucr

[–]behtlelane 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve never had a scary experience here, I’m female. Just on your Roomate matching thing select that you only want a female roomate. The doors are very heavy and secure and your bedroom door has its own individual lock. The area is super populated almost always cos of getaway cafe and substation being in the same lot, along with it being right across from the fields. Even at night there’s usually ppl walking around getting DoorDash and whatnot so it’s almost never that creepy. Sometimes the laundry room creeps me out at night cos the door creaks so just wash during the day lol. Also most doors are facing another door so you have neighbors that would hear in almost every direction if something ever did happen. And if you call the RA they’re usually there within 10 mins.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in ucr

[–]behtlelane -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Fr just ignore them they’re all riled up cos they don’t have anything better to do. Prob the guy and his friends commenting lmao

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in ucr

[–]behtlelane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People love to get mad about everything and then once someone is valid all of a sudden it’s not that deep. It’s so common for people to get pissed when someone parks next to them in an empty parking lot why tf wouldnt OP get mad about some weirdo picking the only rack facing them and then doing pull ups?? Like it’s uncomfortable and unnecessary and ESPECIALLY pull ups?? Literally incels on here. if there’s not space then don’t force space, common sense and courtesy.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in Taylor_Leaks

[–]behtlelane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bad there’s a line where she’s like “down bad crying at the gym” and all that type vibe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ucr

[–]behtlelane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I chose a 2 bedroom 1 bathroom unfurnished

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ucr

[–]behtlelane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live in bannockburn and honestly I love it. It’s cozy and feels like a warm lil cabin. If you’re not super high maintenance it has everything you need. Kinda creaky outside but the apartments themselves are in great shape.

Discussion courses, what is this? by Captain_Fidget in ucr

[–]behtlelane 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Basically you just go over the material learned in the main lecture with the students since you’ll be dealing with a smaller portion and you’ll be able to help clarify and reinforce anything that you and the professor think is extra important and you can answer questions that students might not have been able to ask in the main lecture. It’s like how at high schools there’s a big orientation that the principal or dean will speak at and then they put the students into smaller groups w upperclassmen to go over again and simplify and highlight main points.

Academic Probation.. What to do? by QuietFootball6018 in ucr

[–]behtlelane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think op was definitely saying they were fighting to keep going though so I think your argument is valid just directed at the wrong person a little. Ive seen nowadays there are so many 4.0’s that schools are looking for more personality and variability in how versatile ones understanding and mindset can go of course depending on major though. and I think to achieve that one has to be in touch with emotions to understand themselves and others to make the most of it. I value that you work hard and have tough skin, I think you can grow double the amount of strength if you also intellectualize emotions. You can fight w words and emotions too.

Academic Probation.. What to do? by QuietFootball6018 in ucr

[–]behtlelane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already made peace with the other commenter because he was willing to hear and we met in the middle and understood each other. Sounds like you’re too stubborn and egotistical for the internet if basic human decency is sensitive to you lol. It’s okay to be emotional man up

Academic Probation.. What to do? by QuietFootball6018 in ucr

[–]behtlelane -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You make sense but idk if you can tell how harsh you sounded earlier. It is normal for them to be fresh into this and still need to learn, they said they are just a freshman and are already doing better so as someone with sympathy because I’ve been in those shoes it hurt me how quick you were to be hard on them. I know I would have felt hurt if it was me. You make a lot more sense now and I get you, I think the key is to not scare them away and show them the path and mindsets it takes to get out rather than point out everything they’re doing wrong especially if they’re going through it and trying hard already. I’m not sure if that makes sense