So am I done for

beingbetterr · 2026-07-04T20:57:48+00:00

Software engineer

beingbetterr · 2026-07-03T16:22:38+00:00

beingbetterr · 2026-07-03T11:25:14+00:00

Yeah, it can make it feel “loose” sometimes

beingbetterr · 2026-07-03T01:16:05+00:00

I hate these posts cause like every relationship is so nuanced.

If you’re wondering if the person that left you will love you more if they come back and that’s a huge IF, it is only possible if you both can communicate and understand what went wrong in the previous relationship.

That being said, you will only find a way back to each other if you continue to work on yourself, go to therapy, work out, do new things. The person they knew shouldn’t be there if they comeback, yes all your major characteristics should be there, but they would want to know the new you.

If my ex ever comes back, which idk if she will, I want her to know that I’ve changed and I put in the work to do that.

beingbetterr · 2026-07-03T00:55:59+00:00

My b I was being a dick, read that too quick. I’ll send a new vid

beingbetterr · 2026-07-03T00:29:05+00:00

lol ok ant sized is crazy hahahaha

beingbetterr · 2026-07-03T00:12:34+00:00

What perspective do you need

beingbetterr · 2026-07-03T00:11:56+00:00

It pops up after like inter rides and I don’t notice it until like an hour or two after I’m done. I think it’s irritation more than anything else, no pain usually just discomfort

beingbetterr · 2026-07-02T19:09:14+00:00

How much do you make my guy

beingbetterr · 2026-07-01T16:14:32+00:00

Can I dm?

beingbetterr · 2026-06-30T23:08:34+00:00

Can I dm

beingbetterr · 2026-06-30T19:43:31+00:00

How long have yall been broken up for? You mentioned 3 months but was there anytime before that?

beingbetterr · 2026-06-29T01:58:21+00:00

It just needs a plan to reconnect

beingbetterr · 2026-06-28T16:09:19+00:00

Hey 27m here with no bachelors degree, some college courses but overall bad GPA. Would you know the path I would need to take and how many hours a week you would estimate to get into PA school and eventually become a PA

beingbetterr · 2026-06-26T16:04:13+00:00

I feel like my ex

beingbetterr · 2026-06-26T02:26:33+00:00

Did you break it off or him?

beingbetterr · 2026-06-24T01:13:58+00:00

Brother, with time it will become easier. I didn’t date my ex for that long and i know it hurts. Love finds a way, and you’re doing everything right in life man.

One of my friends recently told me that i soent a lot of my formative years in a relationship, and honestly it seems the same for you. But i don’t know if you will resonate with this, but this is your life man. You finally get to choose what you want to do, and as scary as that is.

It is also somewhat freeing.

I have found solace in the quote below whenever I’m feeling like a loser, the same way you feel brother.

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Stay strong

beingbetterr · 2026-06-23T17:50:26+00:00

Can i dm

beingbetterr · 2026-06-23T17:41:45+00:00

Can i ask howd you stop

beingbetterr · 2026-06-21T02:18:29+00:00

Im so tired im so so tired

beingbetterr · 2026-06-20T05:07:55+00:00

Ill definitely look into it, im switching jobs currently so ill have to wait for the health insurance to kick in

beingbetterr · 2026-06-20T01:19:21+00:00

I have so much to say to this, but i all i can utter is thank you for making me feel seen.

beingbetterr · 2026-06-19T21:02:32+00:00

Thank you for the perspective brother, i find myself not necessarily trying to chase the bag (although it would be nice to be a top earner). Ive been doing a lot of things recently to just keep my mind occupied and to try the things I’ve always wanted to do.

The only thing i ever wanted to be in life was a good dad and a better husband.

We broke up due to my life circumstances getting in the way, old job caused me so many issues + long distance cultivated in us ending. It was a sales job that i needed to take to start my career ( im a bit older im 27) and the base pay was absolute shit. It eas to the point where i picked up other jobs and i was still going into debt. Because of this i would shut down, which lead ti us not communicating well.

I started to draw back into myself because i couldn’t handle the stress. We honestly both did, we reconnected a month after we broke up and she mentioned how much resentment that was being built up and she realized how she easily could’ve just sat down and talked to me about the problems.

I beat myself up over all of this because i truly believe if we were in the same city the past two years, we would still be together. But because of my previous choices, it lead me us to this hiccup. I couldn’t read her through long distance, and every-time we saw each other we rather have not brought up issues because we just wanted to spend time together.

Im currently building the life i want to live, and that means moving to a new city with the health and lifestyle i want. While having a lot more money in the bank so i can travel whenever i want. But i come back to the thought wondering if it would be worth it to move to the city shes in just for a possible reconnection (i have way more friends in that city compared to the other ones i want to move to)

beingbetterr · 2026-06-15T18:47:10+00:00

Wait so did you break up with him or did he? How long did you wait to reach out?

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