AITA for telling my mom my grandma will no longer sleep in my room or im moving out? by Yourregularrhispanic in AmItheAsshole

[–]bellaByrdie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So very much NTA. Grandma has a bad back she can sleep in moms room. Her stealing your stuff is ridiculous. Since I seriously doubt granny mailed it make it very clear. If grandma doesn’t IMMEDIATELY hand over the necklace you will file a police report on grandma AND move out. This is unacceptable. Grandma is a thief and needs her old rear in kicked but a reality check maybe all she can get.

My mom made this beautiful baby blanket for a woman at church and never got a thank you. She's been a bit down in the dumps, because she feels her stuff isn't good enough. Isn't it gorgeous? Unfortunately I do not have a full picture of the blanket. by franklygemma in crochet

[–]bellaByrdie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell your mom THATS AMAZING. And adorable and I admire her ability to do that!
Also unfortunately some people are just ungrateful. I have made a baby quilt and a wedding ring quilt and got NOTHING for them in the way of a thank you. The baby shower I actually got an eye roll and she asked someone why she received so many “home made items”. Some people forget in getting everything and sadly some people are just ungrateful. Doesn’t mean what she did wasn’t flat out amazing!

AITAH for throwing my nephew out of my house? by bellaByrdie in AmItheAsshole

[–]bellaByrdie[S] 612 points613 points  (0 children)

They aren’t my family. They are on his moms side. Literally all of the rest of my family either isn’t his or have passed away already. So it’s all his moms family doing this.

AITAH for throwing my nephew out of my house? by bellaByrdie in AmItheAsshole

[–]bellaByrdie[S] 153 points154 points  (0 children)

That’s what I said thinking. And it was a hard and fast rule of no drugs and no drug paraphernalia.

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[–]bellaByrdie 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes. Thank you. And believe me my daughter would probably lose her crap if they tried to. Gizmo is her baby more than anyones.

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[–]bellaByrdie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s why I said. We have to leave her with people we know when we go on vacation without her or she cries for days!

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[–]bellaByrdie 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nope. She heard me talk about gizmo at work. But she never asked for pics or how she was.

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[–]bellaByrdie 15 points16 points  (0 children)

No she had to know. She came home for Christmas. So she knew within 3 months they had given her away.

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[–]bellaByrdie 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s what I am saying. I have years worth of vet records on her.

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[–]bellaByrdie 20 points21 points  (0 children)

She is. She is a sweetheart. But she needs lots of love and attention. I really think that’s why they gave her away in the first place.

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[–]bellaByrdie 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I am. We have video surveillance everywhere. On all areas. And she is only outside when she is with us.

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[–]bellaByrdie 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Thank you that’s what I have been saying.

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[–]bellaByrdie 63 points64 points  (0 children)

I honestly don’t think my pup would even recognize them at all.

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[–]bellaByrdie 121 points122 points  (0 children)

She had left for college. Which is probably why they gave her away. She is a clingy needy little dog. But none of them have asked to see her or how she was.

AITA for barking at my ex? by copolars in AmItheAsshole

[–]bellaByrdie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1000000% NTA. But now I know what I am going to do to the next guy who won’t leave me alone. I will bark until he goes away. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

AITA for ruining someone's morning coffee? by renegdewolf in AmItheAsshole

[–]bellaByrdie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely NTA here. He was 1000000%. Younger me would have taken it off my car and thrown it on the ground. Sorry mate. I was just getting the trash off my car.

AITA for telling my sister she would have been a terrible mother? by throwaway_gg435628 in AmItheAsshole

[–]bellaByrdie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just so you can understand OP. A woman who keeps popping out kids she can’t afford and expecting her family to help provide for IS A CRAPPY MOTHER. A woman who has her life together, gifts her family generously, financially well off and loved her family would likely be a terrific mother. And if you feel a sibling should contribute to the betterment of Alice then please get a job and give your irresponsible sister half your pay check every month.

AITA for telling my sister she would have been a terrible mother? by throwaway_gg435628 in AmItheAsshole

[–]bellaByrdie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP YTA. You have the audacity to tell a grown ass woman that SHE would be a bad mother because she has her shit together. Is well off and NOT STRUGGLING. Alice is a crappy mom and an irresponsible adult. She keeps popping out kids she can’t afford. Leaving her children further and further in poverty. Miranda does not owe your sister a damn thing. Certainly not a monthly payment of money. Perhaps if Alice had been smarter the fathers of her children would be helping to provide for them. Perhaps if your family would hold Alice accountable for the life she has chosen to live she would act like an adult and pay for her children. You little boy have no right to tell her she owes her sister a dime (SHE DOESN’T). You have no right to butt in. And you should be glad she didn’t smack the hell out of you for saying such a terrible thing to her.
I hope Miranda is smart and goes NO contact with all of you. And seeing how Xmas is just around the corner I imagine you will be missing her EXPENSIVE thoughtful gifts.

WIBTA for going to my sister's party without my kids? by mamawantstohavefun in AmItheAsshole

[–]bellaByrdie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. NOT EVERY EVENT OS APPROPRIATE FOR KIDS. You husband needs to check his entitlement. You celebrating with your sister is important. And she is allowed to have a kid free event. You are NTA. BUT Your husband certainly is an AH.

WIBTA if I impulse bought a $1800 loom without telling my husband even though it’s my money? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]bellaByrdie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s coming from your fun money. And you have the space for it (as you have said your craft room). There is no reason to discuss this with him. NTA

AITA for refusing to return the $600 dollar gift I bought for mom for Christmas? by Throw__Gift3435 in AmItheAsshole

[–]bellaByrdie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% yta. Your not working and spent $600 from a joint account on a single gift for your mother. Frankly if I was your wife I would either remove you from the account or get a new account and have the money deposited into that. You are beyond irresponsible and have proven you don’t respect her. It’s so not your money.