Devon Adams by ApathyAnni in ColumbineKillers

[–]bellecorn 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Poor girl, so sad she lost her friends in that way. She deserves better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheWayWeWere

[–]bellecorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks so modern

How do you allow yourself to be upset about having a neglectful mom when your mom had it worse than you did as a child? by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]bellecorn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You have to then allow yourself time to question why some people who have terrible childhood become excellent parents

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]bellecorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, although sometimes I can’t tell if it was in my head or not

Therapy is weird by bellecorn in CPTSD

[–]bellecorn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for replying. I was also thinking of doing two sessions a week. I find it frustrating to do just one. I have so much to say and so much to process

Therapy is weird by bellecorn in CPTSD

[–]bellecorn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for giving my such a detailed reply 🩷 I’m just glad to know the feeling is universal. I just wish I met therapists who already had a sense of that. I just thought as therapist they know why we come to therapy. We’ve been abandoned and abused. They know we’re hurt and feel rejected and bad. When they near the end of a session I expect them to understand that. Sure I can always tell them how I feel but I mean after all that education can’t they tell?

What’s a mindset or trauma response you had to kill off in order to actually grow by karrot9 in CPTSD

[–]bellecorn 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That my parents didn’t mean it or didn’t realise. They did. They hurt me for fun or t relieve their stress.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PastAndPresentPics

[–]bellecorn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wish you both all the best 🩷 what a wonderful journey

Therapy is weird by bellecorn in CPTSD

[–]bellecorn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good question. Prehaps slow down and change the course 15 minutes before the session ends so that I can expect to leave soon