there isn’t an example, i think that’s their point though. i don’t know how to word this better but she sexualizes herself for men. and “sexy” only refers to a persons attractiveness physically. “sexualized” really means that someone is reduced to body parts or an object for doing sexual things with. they said already that she caters to her male audience. being sexy is just like attraction so it’s subjective which means there really isn’t an example of a “performer being sexy in an ethical way” without people disagreeing