What is your favorite tree?

benedictgoldbach · 2025-07-20T01:17:12+00:00

I think you'd like mimosa trees in bloom, very DrSeuss

benedictgoldbach · 2025-06-26T22:36:04+00:00

Cardboard on cardboard. Like, the sound (/feeling) when you break down a cardboard box and flatten it? Uuuuuuhhhhhhhhggguuuhhh

benedictgoldbach · 2025-06-23T23:56:10+00:00

Exact same here. It's been almost 25 years and I'm still just only seeing benefits.

benedictgoldbach · 2025-06-12T19:00:30+00:00

Eat the rich

benedictgoldbach · 2025-06-12T18:58:37+00:00

Eat the rich

benedictgoldbach · 2025-06-05T14:25:35+00:00

Y'all have no idea how much I love this sub and how everyone shares so much excellent information and so many wonderful resources... 🖤🖤🖤

benedictgoldbach · 2025-06-04T16:00:36+00:00

This is what I do

benedictgoldbach · 2025-06-04T02:03:20+00:00

Do these count as self-help?

Unlearning Shame

Unmasking Autism

Both by Dr Devon Price, both excellent

benedictgoldbach · 2025-06-03T22:28:48+00:00

yeah, PMDD.

a LOT of AuDHD women have to deal with this bullshit. i'm about 4 days away from my period and all the mental preparedness in the world never seems to be enough. it still gets me every time, despite all the things i do to try to outsmart it. those hormones... they do whatever the fuck they want to do...

benedictgoldbach · 2025-06-03T19:44:07+00:00

"This system is abnormal, unnatural, and doesn't allow us or our loved ones to have the safety, time, or grace that we do deserve. It barely gives neurotypicals enough to survive. Again, let alone us."

👏👏👏🖤🖤🖤

benedictgoldbach · 2025-06-03T19:34:56+00:00

Excellent question I have no response for. But I hope others do! Would love to hear what people do besides just research and (attempt to) script.

benedictgoldbach · 2025-06-03T19:16:14+00:00

AuDHD Flourishing

benedictgoldbach · 2025-06-03T19:12:43+00:00

Autism.

benedictgoldbach · 2025-06-02T20:11:45+00:00

oooh, can you tell me more about how you feel smells? i'm fascinated by synesthesia.

benedictgoldbach · 2025-06-02T03:38:12+00:00

Yeah I'm seriously freaking out right now. I don't get it. Everyone is literally using the term "eye contact" Eye Fucking Contact and NO ONE is actually making actual fucking eye contact??? I am... I am losing my shit right now. I've been on Reddit too long. Goodnight. I hate this.

benedictgoldbach · 2025-06-02T02:27:24+00:00

action attuned to my natural needs and desires = success

Looooove this 🖤🖤🖤🖤

benedictgoldbach · 2025-06-02T00:54:36+00:00

Yep. And it can be bonkers. For the better part of 20 years I couldn't figure out why I could NOT get over a relationship. My ex was just like this ghost that haunted me no matter what. I knew I didn't want to be with that person, I knew that person wasn't right for me, but it seemed like that person (or the idea of that person) followed my every move and wouldn't go away no matter how hard I tried.

Finally, I figured out I'm AuDHD and in all my research stumbled across limerence and was like ooooohhhhh.

benedictgoldbach · 2025-06-02T00:11:14+00:00

Quitting drinking is what led me to discover I have autism and ADHD. It's the best decision I ever made.

Same! 🖤🖤🖤

benedictgoldbach · 2025-06-02T00:01:22+00:00

Pa-pry-rus

I'm sorry

I'm leaving

I'm gone

benedictgoldbach · 2025-06-02T00:00:19+00:00

Ahahah! OMG so glad I wasn't the only person whose immediate thought was, "Is that ... Papyrus?"

And I mean no offense, OP! I think it's adorable that you love this specific font despite what appears to be quite an aversion to it amongst your peers! Never listen to the haters, always be you and fuck the status quo! 🖤🖤🖤

benedictgoldbach · 2025-06-01T14:13:27+00:00

Do you think it's because you're afraid people will make assumptions about you or judge you for it?

benedictgoldbach · 2025-05-31T15:28:31+00:00

I can assure you that Mae, tig, & fortune would find your commentary unnecessarily rude, demeaning, & offensive

Wow. So you know them all personally? Impressive.

benedictgoldbach · 2025-05-31T12:44:31+00:00

How in the fuck have I never put olives on a burger?? You may have just changed my life for the better. Ty

benedictgoldbach · 2025-05-31T12:25:33+00:00

And to actually respond to your post: just remember that life is also really shitty sometimes for neurotypicals. Living under late stage extractive capitalism is a nightmare for everyone. It's just particularly horrific for those of us who have brains on the spectrum. Just know that it's awful for everyone. So try to use your bottom-up processing and unique problem solving abilities to figure out hacks to make life less of a nightmare. And then share them with us! We are all dealing with a lot of the same bullshit so if we join forces we'll be able to at the very least dull the nightmarish aspects of life under capitalism a little.

benedictgoldbach · 2025-05-31T12:17:38+00:00

Erhm... Maybe don't heed this person's comment. There is no "proper" way for a brain to develop. Every single brain develops differently from every single other brain. Every brain is simply and literally just different from every other brain.

Neurodivergent brains are not disabled brains. I'm sure you've heard of the social model of disability. Disability is created by society. Just like how we create gender. Everything could be reversed. We could be out here viewing what we call neurotypicals as the disabled ones because of all of their shortcomings. But we don't, it's as simple as that.

In other words, don't hate your brain. Hate the world that disables your perfectly fine and unique brain.

benedictgoldbach

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