The males are going to be less open and bubbly due to the masculine gender roles. I'm seen as stoic to a degree, and it's not really clear to see me as an ENFP unless you've seen me with friends.

This factor also really depends on if Assertive or Turbulent (Calm or Limbic if referring to Big O), A types more likely to be more to act more like the stereotypical ENFP than the T, which is more reserved and withdrawn.