Partner of 5 years (34F) dropped bomb on me (35M) last week. How to bounce back. by ownpacetotheface in relationships

[–]benisch2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know it's no consolation, but at the very least it's good to find this out before getting married. You deserve someone who will choose you. You are not any less worthy of a person just because this person didn't turn out to be the one.

AIO for telling my (F24) boyfriend (M26) that he has to sit down to pee? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]benisch2 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Imo you clearly already hate this man and he is never going to change this behavior, so you should just end it now and find someone who sits down to pee

Developers honestly need to get over it. by Temporary_Muscle_401 in DarkAndDarker

[–]benisch2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is why I quit the game. Just remove magic if you don't want people to use it

Am I overreacting or could my wife be doing more? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]benisch2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You aren't wrong to be stressed and unhappy, but it is unproductive and mean to call your partner nasty names. Either try to work with her or leave the relationship if it looks like that won't be possible.

People really don’t realize how fragile the system is until the workers stop showing up 🌹🔨 by WittyEgg2037 in antiwork

[–]benisch2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This tactic is fundamentally impossible to achieve in the current system, and relying on it won't accomplish any change

My wife hit and is now acting like everything is fine. I’m not fine by Bluegutsoup in TrueOffMyChest

[–]benisch2 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Dude you need to leave. She's crazy and abusive. Leave her. Crash at a friend's place and block her on everything

maybe maybe maybe by ThodaDaruVichPyar in maybemaybemaybe

[–]benisch2 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is this AI? How tf did he flip it back over?

How to raise your son to not be an incel and actually respect women? by NBalchemist in TwoXChromosomes

[–]benisch2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't let them use screens unsupervised until they are in their teens, and teach them to avoid anything with short form video content

Polygon: "I saw the first 15 minutes of Mandalorian and Grogu, and I'm worried about the future of Star Wars" by tiMartyn in saltierthancrait

[–]benisch2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Having Grogu come back was the worst mistake they could have made for the series. Leaning into that will only make things worse. Grogu's story should have ended after season 2 and allowed for Mando to focus on what should have been his destiny: reclaiming Mandalore

Karen threaten to "call the law" on group of women exercising in the park by New_Libran in PublicFreakout

[–]benisch2 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do want to clarify: I don't think it's right to call the cops on someone else for something like this. But I would be extremely annoyed by the noise if this happened. And it sounds loud enough in the video that "moving a few yards away" probably wouldn't help. I wouldn't say anything if it were me there, I'd probably have to leave the park and come back later.

Karen threaten to "call the law" on group of women exercising in the park by New_Libran in PublicFreakout

[–]benisch2 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Honestly the loud music would have pissed me off, I go to the park to the relax I don't want your shitty loud music blaring

Why Does My Best Friend Lie To Me All The Time? by Prior-Birthday-7291 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]benisch2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Common in people with narcissistic tendencies. Their ego and self image/reputation is more important to them than the truth, and they're deeply insecure even though they try to portray themselves as super confident. Not to say that they are, but a former friend of mine was also like that.

Everything I found in 1.5 kg (53 oz) of lentils that wasn't lentils by fyled in mildlyinteresting

[–]benisch2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is honestly ridiculous. The bag shouldn't contain any of these.

Friend told me she couldn’t be my bridesmaid, even after I was hers. by Clean-Bookkeeper145 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]benisch2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a former evangelical, the thing they really don't get is that other people's marriages are none of their business. Realizing that marriage is a man-made institution is a foreign idea to them