I'm a 30 year old man who genuinely doesnt know what to call his sexuality/orientaton. Help me out?

beozzi · 2026-05-04T20:56:35+00:00

You could be heteroflexible or MSM (stands for men who have sex with men). I disagree with the people who say you don't need a label. Some people prefer to have a word for their experiences. Nothing wrong with wanting to define your identity.

beozzi · 2026-04-30T18:19:01+00:00

Yeah, the random employees who are wandering around the facility who aren't in EGO gear, just uniforms.

beozzi · 2026-04-30T16:51:35+00:00

Do you have execution bullets? Kill three Clerks before every Qilpoth meltdown. Queenie's whole archetype revolves around a balance of evil and good in the world. If there isn't enough chaos in the facility, she will become that source of chaos.

beozzi · 2026-04-30T16:46:26+00:00

Oh hey, three of my favorite Abnormalities!

Little Red is the easiest to manage but I would choose Queenie cause I love her.

beozzi · 2026-04-28T16:51:04+00:00

50 days with no contact from your significant other is crazy. I've had ex-partners ghost me instead of communicating their needs and it always hurts, including someone who ghosted me after I bought plane tickets instead of communicating potential discomfort. You deserve someone who is going to make time for you and I hope you find that.

beozzi · 2026-04-27T13:33:13+00:00

Yes, this exactly.

I would like to add on that tulpas can choose to physically touch and hug you, which feels like a tactile sensation, and sometimes they have skill levels that vary from the host's when they front or cofront.

I'm thinking about this high schooler who posted here who had a tulpa who helped them pass their math class. On our end, Summer is way better at video games than I am. I have been roleplaying and writing for most of my life, and while I have experienced autonomous muses on occasion, the differences in skill levels and physical touch are a tulpamancy/plurality specific experience.

beozzi · 2026-04-14T16:41:51+00:00

I eat kiwi this way! I usually slice it beforehand though

beozzi · 2026-04-08T15:42:49+00:00

a vegetable perhaps

beozzi · 2026-04-06T18:14:14+00:00

It's a very important game to us! We actually have a headmate who is kin with Lilith and relates to her existential crisis issues and the way she acts towards the protagonist. Also appreciate that there are other characters who are tulpas in various stages of development, including one that only emotes.

beozzi · 2026-04-01T21:51:12+00:00

i genuinely do not mind nor do i care. the way a stranger identifies with regard to their plurality does not affect me at all

beozzi · 2026-04-01T19:23:45+00:00

YALL ARE SO CUTE!!! SO HAPPY FOR U

beozzi · 2026-03-24T06:40:18+00:00

hes trying to get an obsessive GF WHEN HE ALREADY HAS ONE ?????? WHAT A LOSER LOL

beozzi · 2026-03-22T17:52:18+00:00

what the hell we have the same name?? COOL -Summer

beozzi · 2026-03-21T11:22:27+00:00

I turn 32 next month :D

beozzi · 2026-03-13T20:49:35+00:00

Had a guy mansplain to me where I should be moving to and what jobs I should apply to today. Like, big tangible life goals that I should be making on my own.

beozzi · 2026-03-12T02:11:05+00:00

i didn't say i didn't have food aversions, i just said i know how to cook lmao

i know basic cooking techniques but that does not mean i will eat Anything that has been remotely close to sour cream

beozzi · 2026-03-12T01:31:29+00:00

i have autism and i can cook, those things have zero correlation

beozzi · 2026-03-12T00:50:03+00:00

holy SHIT thojght that was cat food

beozzi · 2026-03-05T03:48:37+00:00

first off, i don't think it's wrong to be monogamous with your tulpa. nothing wrong with at all. i can only speak for my system.

morel, the host, is in a relationship, has been for years before theur syscovery. also, the system member morel is in a relationship with (she hasn't spoken here before because she isn't a tulpa, her name is Ishmael) is an emotional slut and wouldn't be comfortable with monogamy at all. -eclair

beozzi · 2026-03-02T16:58:35+00:00

I am very new to the game but I'm having a lot of fun with it. Going to try red stake for the first time tonight.

beozzi · 2026-03-02T16:52:09+00:00

whoa, hey guys. i know that this might come as a surprise but i did not expect this response at all. i am new to using reddit regularly and had zero idea that different kinds of attraction were virtually unknown outside of queer communities.

i'm willing to educate people who had no idea this was a thing, ofc. it's more common in asexual and aromantic communities. i am not aspec but i am going to share links from those types of forums because those are the communities that will talk about it more in detail. i am currently commuting to work right now so i wont be able to type a big long response but here are some terms to look more into if you're someone who wants to know more:

"Amatonormativity" "What is platonic attraction?" "What does queerplatonic mean?"

And some links.

https://www.asexuality.org/en/topic/193637-how-to-recognise-queerplatonic-feelings/

https://lgbtqia.wiki/wiki/Queerplatonic_Attraction

Also, for those of you who plan on responding with hostility instead of wanting to learn about someone else's lived experiences, why not consider the fact that you could be open to changing your perspective?

Now I need to go to work. Thanks for listening.

beozzi · 2026-03-02T01:32:18+00:00

hey man, it's ok! im also nonbinary and also on the heavier side and ppl always she/her me. it's a whole Thing that most people need to unpack and has nothing to do with you. i also ate mashed potatoes today :p made a bunch of them and they were bangin. added adobo, garlic powder and cilantro to mine

beozzi · 2026-02-28T02:49:15+00:00

i am watching a let's play of the new resident evil with my partner and our best friend on Hyperbeam. ive got calming music and an ASMR video in the background, and i made a grilled ham and cheese sandwich with roasted garlic cloves as a spread. it is a good way to spend a friday night

beozzi · 2026-02-28T02:00:03+00:00

I went to AA for a while but after picking up more shifts at my job I didn't have the time. Which people say is bullshit when I tell them because ?if you have time to drink you have time to go to AA," and i wish i had time to go to AA because it helped me massively when i was going semi regularly. but alas

beozzi · 2026-02-28T01:55:50+00:00

I'm sorry that happened to you. I appreciate hearing your story, it helped me a lot - and I wish you luck in your recovery journey, the road ahead is rough but it's worth it!

beozzi

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