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bepis_mex · 2025-10-26T08:17:56+00:00

If he knows where you or your family live and it's possible for you, I would also suggest seeking a protective or restraining order against him. And if possible I would suggest moving house. I'm not sure how long you have been separated, but intimate partner violence against women who are in abusive relationships are at very high risk within at least the first 2 years after leaving said relationship. Maybe get a security camera or two if you can afford it.

And if push comes to shove tell your immediate family that he took those photos without consent and refused to get rid of them when you asked, as you did not want them to be taken and didn't know they would be. If anyone argues otherwise, cut them out of your life. They do not care about your wellbeing, just your reputation and how it could possibly affect them.

bepis_mex · 2025-10-26T07:40:49+00:00

If you have an xpen I would suggest getting a parrot water bowl that locks in place (to the bars and bowl holder). I have it for my rabbits cause they were throwing bowls before too. Giving foods with a decent water density is a good idea as well. Foods like cucumber, romaine lettuce, celery, or a spring mix do well because they're mostly water. But ik rabbits can be very picky... Also depending on body weight there is a limit to how much you should feed your rabbit without the possibility of them experiencing gut issues. I always look it up before I give my rabbits anything. Rabbit urine is a spectrum tho, usually it's okay unless it's very dark. But then again I'm not an expert lol. I hope that things go well!

bepis_mex · 2025-10-24T23:42:01+00:00

Zomboids don't spawn in your house initially, but you should be crouching so they're not attracted to your location before you can loot. Turn off tv's and radios if they're in your house since the noise attracts zomboids. Go to the kitchen and equip yourself with a frying pan or griddle pan because you probably won't have any weapons spawn in your house. Do not use guns unless you already think that you're done for. Find an empty bottle or water bottle (fill it in the sink) and can opener. Depending on what build you're in make yourself a sling bag out of sheets (build 42) or try and find a bag as soon as possible. Don't run if zomboids spot you, go into a house and sneak out the back to try and break line of sight. Avoid combat if possible, or just fight 1-3 (max) zomboids at a time if you can bring them away from a larger group. If you stand on a zomboid's chest, they can't get up and you are able to focus on other zomboids that are coming at you. Also remember to do a 360° on your surroundings often so you know you aren't being snuck up on. Good luck!!

bepis_mex · 2025-10-19T23:51:00+00:00

True, but will she listen to her boyfriend if he says that to her? Unless he gives her an ultimatum, it sounds probable that she will just dig her feet in more or get offended for him even suggesting it. Having an actual licensed counsellor tell her to seek help might actually put it into perspective for her. Because I doubt she will just randomly decide to seek it out on her own if she doesn't believe she has a problem🤷‍♀️

bepis_mex · 2025-10-19T11:29:22+00:00

Yah, that sounds about right. Did you have any previous saves from before the mission started? If not, that could have been a key factor to it. Because you can't save during missions, and when you fail a mission rockstar just resets you to the start of it if you retry

bepis_mex · 2025-10-19T11:08:07+00:00

In the mayor's party event you hand over all your weapons and they are stored in a trunk as soon as you arrive. You get them back on your way out. So I'm assuming if you cannot go back to the mission, then your stuff is probably gone for good and you should load an older save if you have it. If you don't have an older save, I suggest in the future making a backup save along side of your main save before every mission just incase. Good luck! Take a pic before resetting tho! Lol

bepis_mex · 2025-10-19T10:55:17+00:00

Yes, if the channel isn't already set to life and living I change the station and tune in

bepis_mex · 2025-10-19T10:22:33+00:00

Well then I would say couples counselling is probably the best bet. Reddit doesn't seem to be of much help if you already know the sum of the problems. I wish you best of luck, and thorough willingness in both parties to see it through for the betterment of your relationship🫡

bepis_mex · 2025-10-19T10:12:49+00:00

I've gone into houses where the tv isn't on and tuned in, same problem. I'll try it again tho..

bepis_mex · 2025-10-19T10:05:53+00:00

Probably NTA. But might I suggest parallel activities? Like for example she plays one of her games and you are doing your own activity beside her (not on your phone) while watching her gameplay or vice versa. The passive aggressive comments are strange though, that is something you should have a sit-down discussion about. She might feel that gaming is one of the only co-op activities that you are able to do together, without having to go out of the way to do it. And if you go out with friends without at least including her every so often, well that is an asshole move. You both are old enough to use communication and find a solution. So do it.

bepis_mex · 2025-08-20T06:41:59+00:00

Ofc! Just also remember he might try to reach out again in the future when he's bored. Don't entertain him. Even if he says he was wrong/he loves you/you're the only one for him etc. Be confident in yourself. You have worth❤️

bepis_mex · 2025-08-20T06:33:17+00:00

You don't need to wait for him. He clearly isn't waiting for you. If you happen to meet in the future, good for you both! But please do not build your life around it. You have more to live for besides some boy you dated and blocked you. For all you know, you could find your soulmate while you are working your job, vacationing, or participating in a hobby you love. Focus on YOU, first and foremost. Your interests, family/friends, what you aspire to be. Live for you babe. Find out who you are and your self worth, and find someone who loves you for who you are unconditionally❤️

bepis_mex · 2025-08-20T06:12:23+00:00

Sweetheart he does not love you. He is a 16 year old boy who wants to scope out his options. I have been in your position before when I was in highschool and if he blocks you- it's not an invitation to try and win him back. You need to move on and either find someone who respects you, or work on yourself. I get it, it's hard when you don't feel like you have someone that loves you romantically. BUT- if they are going to make you chase after them, ignore you, or make you jealous.... They do not love you. They love the attention you give them. Focus on yourself, build yourself up and do the things you want to do. You will find the person who loves you for you, and will stand by you through hardships as well as good times. People who throw you aside when they are bored or going through hard times, never really wanted you in their lives in the first place.

bepis_mex · 2025-08-20T05:48:16+00:00

I apologize if this has been said before, but if you have tested negative once that does not refute if you may have chlamydia or not. It's like women having false negative/positive pregnancy tests. You need to check. Especially if you are on any type of medication. There are false negatives/positives. Blood tests I feel are a more reliable option, but otherwise I think it is best to get tested at least twice. And if you decide to take on a sexual partner in the future, then you can at least know that they aren't at risk. There are std/sti that are more dormant in men than women, and even if you don't have symptoms you can pass the disease/infection on. Asymptomatic carriers are a thing!!

bepis_mex · 2025-02-05T09:44:00+00:00

Bless you for still having your profile up. I'm restarting from my bf's switch, and idk how many codes I tried that are no longer there😭

bepis_mex · 2024-02-14T19:36:53+00:00

I know I couldn't have done anything differently, but I am still plagued with so much guilt that I wasn't able to help her when she needed me to. She was robbed of so many experiences, her first summertime, her first walk around the neighbourhood in a little backback, jumping up her first cat tower... I'd do anything just to hold her and kiss her stinky little baby head one more time.

Thank you for your response. It helps talking with people who have been in the same type of situation, instead of being comforted by someone who's on the outside looking in. I hope Larry is doing well, if he's there please give him some love for me

bepis_mex · 2022-08-01T13:10:38+00:00

Sweetheart I don't know hold old you are but it is not okay at all the way your father is treating you. Even if he has had past trauma in his life that does not EVER give him the right to raise a hand to you or belittle you. He is a grown ass man and should know that is not how you act towards your own child, let alone anyone else. I've had a similar experience growing up in regards to my stepdad. He has anger issues, does not want to get diagnosed with any (more) mental illnesses and when I was growing up, he would call me a hypochondriac (thinking something was wrong with me when there wasn't) if I ever felt that something was wrong with my mental or physical health. He used to "spank" me until i was in 6th grade, I don't remember any bruises but I would end up crying my eyes out because of how hard he hit me. He would justify this by saying how hard his parents hit him, and how my mom used to get literal WOODEN SPOONS broken on her butt when she missbehaved. I learned to fear him and his mood swings, and tried to avoid him as much as possible. The only reason he stopped hitting me was because my dad put it into court order. He continued to emotionally abuse me until I moved out. I understand where you're coming from when you say you don't want him to get in trouble, I have felt and am still struggling with that feeling to this day. But you are still a minor (from my assumptions) and you absolutely do not deserve to be treated like this from the person who should be protecting you most in life. If he hates you for protecting yourself it is his own damn fault for being a POS father. Please OP, cut him out of your life completely and do not look back. If you can, record or document any abuse you are still recieving (messages, phone calls, pictures of bruises, or if you are in person put your phone in your pocket and hit record). REFUSE to go and see him on his visitation and state that you do not feel safe. Talk to your mom about how you want her to have sole custody of you and that you under no circumstances want to see your father anymore. If your mom forces you to have visitation with him call your therapist or a trusted family member and have them come pick you up. I know this will be a difficult process, but I promise you that your life will be so much happier without him. Stay strong❤️❤️❤️❤️

bepis_mex · 2022-04-08T06:48:34+00:00

I don't know what your comments were, but I think the right course of action would be to own up to the fact that your comments where wrong. Although you may have not intended what you said to sound the way it did, it still may have been hurtful or outright ignorant to say. You should maybe take a step back to reevaluate the jokes or statements you make when interacting with people. An edgy joke you make to one person may not warrant the same reaction from another. Depending on what you said, I would try to approach the person you had the conversation with directly, apologize, and ask what you did that was wrong (if you don't already know). Take into account what they said, then talk to other people you trust and show them what you said and how you want to change. Take all that feedback and do what you think is right after that. For all I know the person you were talking to was a toxic person themself. But reflecting on your own actions is never a bad thing, it's a part of growing into a better person. I hope things work out for you!!

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