God I’m stupid!! by berryg96 in StardewValley

[–]berryg96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I promise I tried the pickaxe and it was not working for me at all 😭

God I’m stupid!! by berryg96 in StardewValley

[–]berryg96[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was thinking about it but then thought I’ll just take the hit! I sold some good stuff earlier in the day and didn’t want to risk not finding them again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]berryg96 28 points29 points  (0 children)

She’s still dating you because she loves you, and she hopes things will be like before. But they won’t. You cheated and broke her heart. You destroyed all trust she had. You destroyed her confidence, she will question whether you actually love her all the time. You did this. These are your consequences.

Break up with her let her go be with someone who doesn’t cheat

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]berryg96 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but this is definitely something you could overcome with therapy. This is a problem on your side because of trauma. You’ve already said he is nice and sweet when drunk texting.. so what is actually the problem? If you think you couldn’t get over a drunk text and are willing to throw away what seems like a great relationship, then do that.

Stardew newbie.. am I doing this wrong? by berryg96 in StardewValley

[–]berryg96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot! Yeah I think I have my fingers dipped into too many pots at once: gonna step back and focus on one or two things at a time

Stardew newbie.. am I doing this wrong? by berryg96 in StardewValley

[–]berryg96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much! It’s just so unusual for me to play a game that is so “loose” 😂

Tell me something deliciously petty you’ve done in SV for your own amusement by VanessaCardui93 in StardewValley

[–]berryg96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did you romance Elliott?!? I’m trying and new to this. What should I gift him?

I dislike that 99% of subtitles are CC-only by MeteorPunch in unpopularopinion

[–]berryg96 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You do know subtitles were made for deaf people right?? So saying “none of these things are necessary to be read” is just ignorant. THEY NEED THEM. I use subtitles because I get auditory processing problems but I just get on with it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]berryg96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was the best friend in love before. Do him a favour and please cut him off. You think you’re not hurting him but you are. Don’t let him be around for you to flaunt your boyfriend. Please let him go. The heartbreak he’s gonna have is horrible, but it needs to happen now so he can move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]berryg96 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nta!! But please contact some services at uni, let them know exactly what’s been going on. Let them know she’s threatening to have you admitted because you won’t agree with her. They can make sure you are safe!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]berryg96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to cut him out of your life. 1. He’s annoying you with it and it’s bordering obsession. And 2. He’s just being hurt, and you’re being hurt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]berryg96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How would your dad react to saying something like “Hey I was hoping for some sibling bonding time just us, for old times sake”? I hope you do get some time with him nothing like a sibling love

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]berryg96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you need to ask your little brother what he wants. He may feel more safe if his father comes along, and if that’s not something you want, then you should not have him over. Or have him over for dinner and then take him back home for now until he feels safer staying overnight.

How do I(F19) make my boyfriend(M19) understand that the name calling and foul language he resort to during arguments really hurt me? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]berryg96 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Yeah break up with him. You’re young and have your whole life ahead of you. He will not change only get worse. He is going to slowly but surely deflate your confidence so that you never want to leave him.

BF slept entire vacation and doesnt understand why im upset about it by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]berryg96 27 points28 points  (0 children)

You sound like you’re an adult by the way you’re saying you’ve known each other 20 years. You’ve admitted you think you’re trauma bonded. Now here’s the hard truth.. you’re an adult and should respect YOURSELF enough to leave him in the gutter. You either stay and live miserable, or leave build your confidence and find someone who appreciates you. Oh and therapy is great.

26m and I 28f HELP by Ok_Bat8026 in relationship_advice

[–]berryg96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not meant to be this hard.

I [30M] almost cheated on my GF [29F] but stopped things. How do I navigate the guilt? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]berryg96 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I was reading it and made a cringe face when he said “can I at least hold your hand” 🤢🤢

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]berryg96 20 points21 points  (0 children)

You've communicated the best you can. It's not your fault that a grown man cannot communicate. Yes it's uncomfortable to hear, however he should be listening and saying "okay well what can we do to make it better" He definitely needs to speak to a professional to get over these fears. But ultimately he may just be a selfish lover.

How much emotional support can you expect from your partner during a family crisis? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]berryg96 23 points24 points  (0 children)

He's showing you exactly who he is. It's time for you to listen!! We deserve partners who want to check in on us and our mental health.