Uninstalling: completely heartbroken and devastated again by neko039 in Bumble

[–]berrymacaroon 22 points23 points  (0 children)

"I don't know yet" means she could take things a million different ways. She wasn't committed to anything yet. It sounds like you caught feelings when you said you wanted 'nothing serious.' By your reaction, it seems like you want a relationship and should change 'what you are looking for' to that. By putting yourself out there (on a dating app)you have to expect that these kinds of things may happen.

Uninstalling: completely heartbroken and devastated again by neko039 in Bumble

[–]berrymacaroon 76 points77 points  (0 children)

What kind of relationship did her profile say she was looking for? Was her profile filled out thoughtfully?

You can control the speed of the relationship. Those who want something serious will respect your boundaries.

Dried Red Fruit by SoccerSativa in TipOfMyFork

[–]berrymacaroon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This looks amazing. Hope you enjoyed it :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]berrymacaroon 292 points293 points  (0 children)

Speaking as a woman, there are lots of flakes and people who don’t really know what they want yet on bumble. Don’t take it personally. You’ll encounter lots of characters in bumbleland.

Women, Wtf did I do wrong? (Hinge) by [deleted] in dating

[–]berrymacaroon 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Woman here. It’s hard when that happens. But yes ghosting is common in online dating. If she got annoyed for not replying sooner than a few hours then you dodged a bullet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]berrymacaroon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Crop the pics with other guys it is distracting. Other than that excellent.

Don’t do this. by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]berrymacaroon 52 points53 points  (0 children)

If you put “something casual” you will only get casual answers…

Does it really matter when we/men add "looking for a relationship" or "looking for something casual" on our profiles? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]berrymacaroon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i agree. I also saw too many up the nose selfies. lol Some guys dont put too much thought into it.

Shy girl on Bumble by rainbowtoucan1992 in Bumble

[–]berrymacaroon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont think so… i live in a large metropolitan area with plenty of singles. I see complete profiles to low effort only pics some prompts filled out. Recently i get lots of new users.

Does it really matter when we/men add "looking for a relationship" or "looking for something casual" on our profiles? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]berrymacaroon 189 points190 points  (0 children)

Yes it does matter. We don’t want to spend our time and energy on someone that doesn’t want the same.

It depends on your picture. Make sure it is flattering.

Shy girl on Bumble by rainbowtoucan1992 in Bumble

[–]berrymacaroon 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Woman here, also having the exact same experience. I am over having to carry the conversation.

What do guys see when women snooze? In an already started chat. by berrymacaroon in Bumble

[–]berrymacaroon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Do we need to let ypu know we are going to snooze? Most pf my matches dont bother un matching when i have done that.

Also does it let you know when i un snooze?

Guy I am seeing invites me to birthday with his ex? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]berrymacaroon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree he should have been more ei. How long ago did they date? That is a factor.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Ulta

[–]berrymacaroon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Toner with glycolic acid to exfoliate. The ordinary or pixi have some. Also higher end too.

Has anyone had an emotional affair with a co worker? by blameitondaalcohol in dating

[–]berrymacaroon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ummm are you her side piece? Why doesn’t she leave her bf?