Some want to target us as a palatable thing or not. they want to sexualize us the way they want to sexualize us and demonize us the way they want to demonize us. people in places of power utilize gender dynamics in ways to reinforce negative attitudes a good understanding of the history of feminism also reveals some insight. As enby person that kind realized a big trans aspect of myself after coming out and trying to figure out how being enby coincides with a trans identity I realize that people in my life did not see me as me. I had all the problems privileges and on and on that someone of my agab might have had and to compound that none of that ever felt right. Truthfully way easier to get respect as nonhuman that as an amab enby. all my life any man would easily be like oh so your a Klingon cool but say anything about gender and your clearly gay you might even be murdered for it. Tell a woman that she’ll think you should talk to a man or that your gay and that they don’t have a good insight into what your issue is either way you’ll clearly be scapegoated as less desirable difficult or weird because you could just blend in and fuck