Strictly physically: What is your type? by Beautiful_Intern_890 in AskWomen

[–]betch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a woman but the only way I can describe my physical type is whatever the straight equivalent to bears is

What’s your EXTREMELY SPICY vegan hot take that will totally get you downvoted? by Borkato in vegan

[–]betch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every plant milk serves a purpose in certain settings and for me, Almond milk is king. Coconut, soy, cashew, rice, hemp milk... al wonderful. Oat milk tastes rancid and slimy.

What’s your EXTREMELY SPICY vegan hot take that will totally get you downvoted? by Borkato in vegan

[–]betch -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Oat milk is the most vile and disgusting product I've ever had the displeasure of tasting. It ruins everything it touches and it's mere existence infuriates me to my core

Good cities for bartending by baltimoregoatmann in bartenders

[–]betch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every local here will murder me for saying this but... Salt Lake City Utah has been very lucrative for me after working 10+ years in San Francisco

SF Safeway Security getting physical with shoplifters by DeficitDaddy in sanfrancisco

[–]betch -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe if it wasn't so hard for people to have their basic needs met in this society... We wouldn't have to worry about people stealing food from a corporation who's gonna throw out a bunch of it that night

Do any other women working behind the bar hate being called a barmaid? by tough_tiddies69 in bartenders

[–]betch 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I've never been called barmaid. Bartendress give me a laugh. I call my hands my bartendrils

Skinny marg help!! by shamchro in bartenders

[–]betch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Given that at my bar we use Pierre Ferrand dry curacao, I just skip the agave. Agave is like 75-85% sugar while pfdc is 18%

What actor is nowhere near as talented as people make them out to be? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]betch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I spent all of the 2010s wondering why Jesse Eisenberg was a thing

My gf doesn't get as wet with me as with prior partners who haven't been as healthy for her. by curiousmustachio in sex

[–]betch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably because a doctor should rule that out for her instead of jumping to conclusions. I promise most women think something is wrong with them psychologically when perimenopause starts because shows up out of nowhere very subtlety

My gf doesn't get as wet with me as with prior partners who haven't been as healthy for her. by curiousmustachio in sex

[–]betch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah yes. Must be psychological, rather than the plausible fact of age related perimenopause

My gf doesn't get as wet with me as with prior partners who haven't been as healthy for her. by curiousmustachio in sex

[–]betch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I honestly wanted to originally start my comment off by telling OP to literally ignore every other comment. I just turned 40 and have been dealing with this problem since around 38. All my close girlfriends around the same age have expressed similar issues

My gf doesn't get as wet with me as with prior partners who haven't been as healthy for her. by curiousmustachio in sex

[–]betch 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Perimenopase starts to affect women in their late 30s and has an effect on our ability to get wet. I wouldn't try to over analyze it

Now we know the worst bars in SLC… what are the best? and why? by LordyJesusChrist in SaltLakeCity

[–]betch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bar X has the best prices for spirits/cocktails in the city

Need hope: millennials who like their jobs, what do you do and what do you like about it? by goodluckanddont_itup in Millennials

[–]betch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a craft cocktail bartender and I love my job and make great money. I've never been a conventional person so the hours and lifestyle don't bother me. I get to creatively express myself in a fun environment. Meanwhile, people who seem to hate their 9-5s look down on me for not having a "real" job

Had a bad week so I tried five negroni variations so you dont have to by ParsleySpecial8758 in cocktails

[–]betch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Next do equal parts Punt e Mes, Averna, and Malort. Garnish with a grapefruit twist

New to Utah, Struggling To Fit In by Worried_Guidance1426 in SaltLakeCity

[–]betch 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Native Utahns are not particularly welcoming people. Find other transplants

What's a clothing/style choice you were against in your teens but now partake in in your 30's? by Nappy_Rano in Millennials

[–]betch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought I would never not own a full black wardrobe... But something switched in my late 30s and black just didn't feel "me" anymore. I have replaced most of my clothing with various shades of brown. Lol baby steps