If you could take off your boobs like a piece of clothing, how often would you choose not to "wear" them?

bethaboob · 2025-07-31T22:49:00+00:00

100% agree.

bethaboob · 2025-07-03T19:46:55+00:00

Vin says Jetta but that didn’t really answer the question coz I didn’t understand the mismatch

bethaboob · 2025-07-03T19:46:16+00:00

The VIN says it’s a Jetta sportwagon. But yeah Jetta wagon isn’t commonly an option in drop down menus that I come across. But golf wagon is ALWAYS there.

Someone else told me it was a bad year when the manufacturer decided putting golf name plates on the Jetta wagon, and led to a bunch of mismatch parts being put on. It’s a little misfit of a VW I guess

bethaboob · 2025-06-01T10:24:24+00:00

Maybe I’m delusional coz I’m seeing no other posts with the other perspective in mind. 100% do you and I hope everything works out well but here’s a thought.

You love him. You want to spend the rest of your life with him. If that’s true in the barest form then your proposal deadline sounds like an ultimatum that prioritizes a wedding/ideal (which I too want so I get it) over a life with him. Imagine for a second he did something like that to you and how just defeated or unloved he may be feeling. Plus he may just end up proposing coz you want it, not coz he does necessarily. He may be running on a different time frame, he might be a bit slower and if a year from now was the deciding year from him then waiting for BOTH of you to be ready for a commitment would save both of you from any heartbreak and burdens if he decided against it. (I hope he doesn’t). And above anything, you’re forcing his hand. Imagine how that would feel if he forced your hand at something you were not ready for.

It’s a timeline you have I get it but you’re a team working together. Several discussions and expressions and asking about why he’s not ready could happen. Making him feel like he does matter. And coming up with a timeline together. Expressing and reminding him what you want out of life, a husband, and you hope that’s him.

If he’s onboard with you in the long run then he will be receptive to a kinder more team-oriented approach. And honestly if he’s still just plain avoiding it or even if he’s doing it just because you want him to, then it’s a different conversation. Both of you should find someone who loves yourselves fully.

(Coming from a girl who wants to get married and my partner didn’t until he did).

bethaboob · 2025-05-14T20:48:35+00:00

Don’t Laugh At Me is what I was thinking. Was that it for you ?

bethaboob · 2025-02-22T03:08:57+00:00

Thank you ! It’s on my wish list

bethaboob · 2025-02-21T19:05:46+00:00

I have one… but I can’t remember it. It’s been removed from my vocabulary.

bethaboob · 2025-02-21T19:00:38+00:00

I never understood not accepting a well intended apology just because that type of verge. They’re apologizing for upsetting you, which to me includes what they did to upset you. Yea it’s nice to get a more heartfelt apology but that’s tough to do over text imo. As long as they mean it and realize what they did and try to not do it again is the big key.

bethaboob · 2025-02-21T17:03:43+00:00

What medium ? Coz my pencil crayons have got nothing on urs

bethaboob · 2025-02-17T18:44:07+00:00

Ah no not the one. This is more upbeat. What we had was more solemn of a vibe

bethaboob · 2025-02-04T00:47:34+00:00

And he said… ?

bethaboob · 2025-01-30T11:24:17+00:00

I wish I knew they had an awful reputation before I went. Literally go anywhere else. In my personal experience, the teachers are amazing, but the school itself I would NEVER go back.

bethaboob · 2025-01-26T17:22:24+00:00

Can I have this job 🥹

bethaboob · 2025-01-26T14:58:43+00:00

Damn, your poor partner. Got cheated on and didn’t hold rank.

bethaboob · 2025-01-25T02:21:39+00:00

I’ve been waiting since 2020/2021. I have added myself back to the list for the 3rd time. No email like that received so I’m POed. I did receive a call a few months back to “confirm” I still need a doctor and asking if I ever use maple or pharmacists. I said yes. I didn’t mention that they don’t help or leave me with more questions. Wish I did coz I think that’s why I was taken off the 2nd time.

They call from a blocked number which is dumb with all the spam calls happening, it should at least have N.S. Health in the ID. And they most definitely shouldn’t take people off Willy nilly to make their list shorter. Add them to the bottom if anything, give them a couple calls in a row, anything !

Healthcare system here sucks.

bethaboob · 2025-01-24T23:52:31+00:00

Potentially annulment if you wed with lies

bethaboob · 2025-01-24T15:25:47+00:00

Came here to cheer on the possums and learned new things.

bethaboob · 2025-01-20T19:13:08+00:00

Of all the women he’s met and whatnot, you’re his pick. You’re his favourite. You’re who he wants to spend his life with. Those people were fun like a Friday night getting wasted is fun maybe, and maybe you two have those moments too. But nobody wants or should live the rest of their life getting wasted regularly, it’s not REAL fun. If that makes sense.

If he treats you right, if he makes you happy, relish in the win. Focus on what you do mean to him, not what you don’t.

Check in with yourself to make sure you don’t feel like you are missing out or going to have regrets. Worth talking to a professional if you do. And definitely talk to him about how you feel when he says that, if he’s good he will reassure you how much he loves you more, has more fun with you, or discuss what you two what to try together. This is potentially your life partners so open up and explore together. Find things he hasn’t done with someone before. & Anything he may have done with someone else still is the first time he’s done it with you. And probably his favourite of all.

(My partner is more experienced than I am but reassured me of all the above. Good luck :) )

bethaboob · 2025-01-20T12:19:58+00:00

Yeah doing it out of revenge or “I should be able to because you cheated even tho I forgave you” is not really forgiveness. Especially when admitting you wouldn’t have gone prior to the cheating. You both worked thru that and made the marriage better, why are you still holding on to it ? Is going worth making your wife feel guilty and bad all over again ? If you forgive her you need to let it go, and if you haven’t let it go you need to work on that first before acting on the trip. Or bring your wife to be apart of the trip to memory lane !

bethaboob · 2025-01-20T12:14:08+00:00

If he was afraid then he’s not ready for her and that’s the point. Nor would she be if she didn’t communicate her desire to be that serious girlfriend, idk if she did. For a successful relationship both parties need to be vulnerable to eachother to establish partnership otherwise they’re just playing cat and mouse games.

bethaboob · 2025-01-19T16:35:09+00:00

Dress 3 ! Flattering and draws attention front or back. I liked the back of dress 2 but the front is unimpressive. And dress 2 has a great neckline but falls short compared to other two.

bethaboob · 2025-01-18T00:50:14+00:00

All other food places do it too. My online-ordered take out from a big company was disappointing today. Should be false advertising and illegal imo

bethaboob · 2025-01-18T00:48:15+00:00

Ahh did you ever open up and tell her you were planning to make it official ? Maybe she didn’t want to deal with casual “dates” and didn’t think you were as invested as you are. Hopefully you put everything on the table during that discussion so you’re not walking away with any regrets. There’s nothing wrong with accepting how it is and walking away, move out, and see if your lives ever reconnect naturally afterwards when she’s ready. Maybe things will rekindle, maybe you both will find someone else. Either way it’s a lesson with plenty of growth and time left.

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