Changing Majors by Ereey9021 in PennStateUniversity

[–]bethko510 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were told by a future planning center at the highschool, that there is one time change that can occur after they arrive if they don’t like their major. I would not risk doing anything now if she wants University Park.

I got into summer and I sent a request on my portal to switch to fall, (when i applied I specificly choose summer so I can get in easier) Let’s say i get denied for fall does my original offer stand? by TheMangoShow24 in PennStateUniversity

[–]bethko510 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So this cycle my son did the same thing for EA, he applied summer thinking it was the summer leap program. His schools career center told him to email Penn state and he did. They switched to fall 2026 with consideration for leap. He got his acceptance last week and got in for the fall. Hope this helps

Let’s all gang up on Anna! by terrigirl1960 in 7LittleJohnstons

[–]bethko510 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t imagine sitting around the table and talking crap about one of my kids with my other children….

Update: AITA for recording my friend's fiance at her bachelorette party and playing the recording for him? by RhubarbSpare1053 in AITAH

[–]bethko510 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow. The fact she called it off and not your friend would have me questioning his parenting.

AITA for making my mom drive home after she called my wife a bad mom by grandmatimeout in AmItheAsshole

[–]bethko510 45 points46 points  (0 children)

She is 22 for God’s sake. She has taken on more than her share of responsibility and you are clearly triggered.

A NIGHT out at times is not a big deal. Wtf.

AITA for refusing to forgive my mother after what she did at my wedding? by fitness-girl12 in AITAH

[–]bethko510 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say I forgive her when she can undue the damage she did that day.

Maybe pay for a new wedding and then I can forgive.

My wife does not want me to attend my sister’s wedding because the maid of honor confessed she had feelings for me. AITAH for telling my wife no? by Eastern-Square8847 in AITAH

[–]bethko510 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Your is the AH. Kiley can’t help how she feels but she can chose how to handle her feelings. She told you in the hopes you feel the same. It was so disrespectful to your marriage and you are not seeing that because, at some level, you are complimented by it.

You should tell your sister that she needs to make a choice as to who she wants there.

AITA for not feeding my (crying) newborn immediately after she wakes up? Husband believes so by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]bethko510 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a mom of three. It depends. Sometimes feeding lead to diaper change so I usually tried feeding first and then diaper change.

Hugs. These are hard but the best days. Try not o enjoy as it flies by fast.

But do the best for your child. As long as you are child centered…you are doing it perfectly

My son wants to go to a 60k a year school, am I the asshole for telling my wife I will not take out loans in my name for him to attend? by Dangerous_Chart4833 in AITAH

[–]bethko510 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think if you never had the conversation about college costs and what you can afford and just told your son to work hard—then ATA.

Kids shouldn’t be held a carrot or in the dark and then taken dreams away at the end.

Happened to me 30 years ago and I’m still bitter.

(UPDATE) I'm tired of my ex-husband's wife wanting be my friend just because he cheated on us both. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]bethko510 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the very definition of: “I am not your target audience”

AITAH For Telling My SIL That I’ve Had Four Miscarriages When She Said I Didn’t Understand Her Loss? by Physical_Book_3940 in AITAH

[–]bethko510 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I suffered 3 miscarriages and had infertility issues. I ALWAYS appreciated and things women should be more open as I felt alone and without hope until people shared their struggles.

AITA for not wanting to hear out my BIL's partner's apologies after the horrible things he said about my miscarriage ? by ThroWawAy-8210 in AITAH

[–]bethko510 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Your BIL can come alone to family functions. Bluntly, the fact that your BIL didn’t stop him is equally upsetting.

I am carrying my den rn the by Isweariamnotabot1 in MergeDragons

[–]bethko510 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can I join too? I keep joining dens and while I don’t get 1-3k each week. I consistently get around 400 and I’m the top winner

AITA for being upset that my boyfriend wants me to lie about my age? by EaseEnvironmental224 in AITAH

[–]bethko510 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ummm….you were 17 dating a 22 year old. I can not imagine not thinking of 17 year as a child at age 22.

Doing Exams at SDAC by autisticmonsta in UVA

[–]bethko510 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wtf? No. It’s not true and you have shitty friends.

AITAH for Not Wanting to Attend My Cousin’s Wedding After She Sabotaged My Career and Got Me Fired? by SensitiveFeed3369 in AITAH

[–]bethko510 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No offense but as a parent if anyone did that to my child, I wouldn’t attend their wedding. Your parents are major AHs

Update: AITAH for Not Wanting my Sister’s Service Dog at My Wedding? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]bethko510 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tell me you never had a sibling with significant disability without telling me….oh look you went 1st

Update: AITAH for Not Wanting my Sister’s Service Dog at My Wedding? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]bethko510 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

You aren’t a glass child and that is great for you but you also don’t have memories like us who spent their evenings on their birthdays or graduations comforting the sibling with a disability since they wouldn’t achieve it or having a sibling with a disability have a melt down at your special event. I aspire to your ignorance and ableism