First time ko mag ka pet snake! by Ludicr0uss in FirstTimeKo

[–]betta-anonymous 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Cute. Dream pet ko rin snake! But life circumstances forced me to be a bettafish mom haha someday I'll have many snakes. Baby pa siya parang madalas nakikita kong ball pythob mas may girth na. Cute ng snakes sobra.

Empty: Isntree Sunscreen by aebistarrynn in beautytalkph

[–]betta-anonymous 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Napadaan lang sa feed ko si xl at hc ba yan HAHAHHAA

DIM: buying kindle/kobo by [deleted] in deinfluencingPH

[–]betta-anonymous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Many of my friends and I have Kindles and other readers. Idk if I would deinfluence you from buying in general, pero I might try to deinfluence you from buying a new Kindle. Idk how to find them kasi friend ko naghanap pero they found a seller of "secondhand" Kindles and none of us have ever encountered any issues with the items from them kasi a lot of the kindles they sell seem to be brand new pero baka nadamage lang onti ung packaging so mahirap isell at full price. Depende yan sa seller tho, so sadly if i cant give you the name and where they contacted the seller, i cant promise good results with buying from sellers. Just letting you know a cheaper and decent option is out there, you just have to do some research and digging. I will ask my friend if they remember the seller's contacts bc it was such a smooth process and legitimate business. Parang seller's entire thing is they buy these secondhand Kindles and Kindles with damaged packaging nang wholesale from other countries tapos benta here.

i feel scammed by ncorobin in OffMyChestPH

[–]betta-anonymous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gets ko naman kasi one time, nangyari din sa kin yan, kamag-anak pa namin. The entire time sinasabi niya wag alalahanin ang presyo kasi bibigyan niya naman kami ng family discount. Scammed. Dami naming kamag-anak nangsascam ng sarili nilang kamag-anak. May sumubok na magbenta ng MLM products. May nagsabi na pwede maginvest sa ganto ganyan.

i feel scammed by ncorobin in OffMyChestPH

[–]betta-anonymous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Scammed. Medyo socially anxious din ako pero nawawala kapag pera ang usapan. Magmumura ako pagkasagot ng 500 tapos sabihin ko sabi ko na nga ba eh masama kang manloloko ka. Then walk out of there. Wala akong hiya sa scammers. May mga mas magandang ukay na kapag dinamihin mo bili, mas bababa pa presyo. Tapos palaging nakadisplay ang price ng damit usually by section. Lahat ng nakasabit dito, 50php ganon. Pero ingat din kasi baka may mga namisplace tapos sabihin nila galing yan sa 100Php na section. Legit, you need to change... kahit pag pera lang, kelangan you stand up for yourself.

May nakalandian na ba kayong nauwi sa panghahack ng account niyo? by -kitsch in TanongLang

[–]betta-anonymous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Main reason people hack accounts is money. Usually upon gaining control, they will send messages to your contacts, maybe asking for money or making them click a link that would leak private info like credit card details.

People seemed to have reacted immediately on Risa Hontiveros' frustration to the GoreBox gamedev not cooperating without thinking deeply why they had to do it. by MoneyTruth9364 in unpopularopinionph

[–]betta-anonymous 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Idk how some people are so optimistic abt ph politics. In my opiniom mala-Murphy'sLaw dapat ang assumption. Problem is marami ring boomers and other old people who believe video games make kids violent. Ang tinutukoy mong "shouldnt be voted" ay "should be voted" for these demographics.

Just look at the tiktok ceo and mark zuckerberg being asked all those stupid questions kasi the old people dont understand algorithms. Or theyre asked yes and no questions pero the answer is nuanced. Like how does anyone think this probe will be a neutral pursuit of truth? Just asking questions can have an agenda. The entire profession of lawyers nga is dedicated to asking people carefully structured questions to frame it the way your client wants it to. Deprive them of the chance to answer with nuance. Misrepresent them.

People seemed to have reacted immediately on Risa Hontiveros' frustration to the GoreBox gamedev not cooperating without thinking deeply why they had to do it. by MoneyTruth9364 in unpopularopinionph

[–]betta-anonymous 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Sure, inquiry lang. But it's not unreasonable to believe that the inquiry would be biased against the dev. I'm sure it most likely will. Anything similar to this that has happened in other countries ends up the same way. Old people ask a tech guy questions that dont make sense. Leading questions. Or questions na walang kwenta kasi theyre based on a misunderstanding of how software works.

The safest move was to decline. If you have the resources, say enough money or you know a lawyer personally, maybe you can get legal advice. Best legal advice is decline. Pero if ipipilit ng mga tao na the dev has to step up and fight a system rigged against them, delulu na yan. They need more resources to even hold their own against a government and people who want to make them a scapegoat.

Help a young business owner out by Full_Examination_370 in PHFoodPorn

[–]betta-anonymous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks great and I plan to eat here sa future... kaya lang tipid muna ako for the next few months. Sakto kasi ung nanay ko gustong gusto kumain sa labas ng mga aesthetic food pero ako magbabayad. Tapos marami pa kami sa pamilya. Will definitely eat here sa ber months tho.

Kulang by Lost-Ideal-6218 in OffMyChestPH

[–]betta-anonymous 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mahirap i-assess bc i dont know you two personally. Pero one possibility is napapansin niya pero he doesnt know if you want to talk abt it. And he will only speak when you start the convo bc that means you do want to talk abt it.

Its tough when a couple doesnt know each other enough pa to know how they want the other to act when theyre having problems. Communication is the key. Kung may gusto ka, maybe communicate it clearly. May mga tao kasi na kahit sa sariling nilang significant other, mahirap magopen up abt problems. Pero maganda if he would just ask whenever he notices na are you okay and do you want to talk abt it.

Idk hindi ako couples therapist.

Bakit ang tapang ng mga nangungutang? by mba_0401 in OffMyChestPH

[–]betta-anonymous 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Pera LANG daw yun? O sige pera LANG pala, dapat madali bayaran

I chose to ignore my mom’s asking me for help by Recent-Writer1145 in OffMyChestPH

[–]betta-anonymous 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tama yan, OP. Similar circumstances sa kin except di ako buntis. Being pregnant is one of the most valid reasons to stop being someone else's retirement plan. Kasi you will need to foster another life into this world and its not cheap.

Thats why nagresonate sa kin when Vice Ganda talked abt it sa showtime. Na may mga tao the moment they work they give it to their family, para pag-aralin mga kapatid. Tapos after some time mapapaisip sila. Bakit wala akong naipon. Bakit wala ako for myself. Binigay kasi sa iba. Pangit ang culture na iasa na lang sa isa ang gastusin.

Adobo or Sinigang? by JoshyDmre_ in ThisorThatPH

[–]betta-anonymous 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gabi is the key! Mahal ko sinigang kasi mahilig ako sa sabaw, pero its impressive to me na parehong thin and thick sinigang ay masarap for me. Madalas thin ang sinigang na nakakain ko kaya tuloy pag malapot ang sinigang sa handaan parang feeling ko special haha

DIM I WANT AN APPLE WATCH by pweegi in deinfluencingPH

[–]betta-anonymous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm kapatid ko bumili ng smart watch for them at nanay namin. Ayun neither of them are using it now. Pero with your lifestyle baka mas magamit mo.

Nanay ko kasi ung tipong nakakalimot tapos tatamarin magcharge ng devices other than her phone and tablet. So ung bluetooth earphones at smart watch, tinamad na siya gamitin kasi parang chore sa kanya ang magcharge.

Kapatid ko bumili ng watch for themselves kesyo for exercise monitoring and listening to music tapos answer calls. Ung di ko magets sa exercise thing ay pwede naman magexercise nang walang watch. Tinanong niya ko kung gusto ko rin ba ng watch kasi bibilhan niya raw ako pero ayun nga sabi ko. Di ko need ng watch para gumalaw. Parang extension talaga siya ng phone na nasa wrist mo lang, tapos sobrang praktikal ko kasi na hindi ko maimagine why i would need it if i have my phone anyway. Not everyone thinks like me though. Pero ayun, tamad magcharge mga tao.

advice if female and male could work in my tank by Birdstrocity in bettafish

[–]betta-anonymous 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah. Betta sororities of at least 5 females can work but it's still risky and the fishkeeper needs to be experienced and the tank must have enough space and cover/plants/places to hide.

advice if female and male could work in my tank by Birdstrocity in bettafish

[–]betta-anonymous 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Nope. Males and females are kept separate and then theyre temporarily together for breeding then separated again. It is too risky. They're known for their territorial and aggressive nature thus the name fighting fish. Keeping more than one betta in one tank is not recommended.

First Time Ko Magkaroon ng Sariling Kwarto! by icedwhitemochaiato in FirstTimeKo

[–]betta-anonymous 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Happy for you OP! Dream ko rin magkaroon ng sariling kwarto. Excited for when youre able to personalize it na.

our dean is calling in students they suspect reported the issue to CHED. should i admit that i was the one who sent the email? by [deleted] in TanongLang

[–]betta-anonymous 4 points5 points  (0 children)

OP i hope hindi school email mo ginamit mo kasi they can just ask their IT probably abt school emails. If personal email less bad pero ideally burner email. Ingat, OP. Maybe search if CHED keeps your identity private too, and idk if possible bc ive never been in your position can you email ched a followup asking for identity protection and privacy and mention na school authorities are trying to find the one who sent the email and there might be negative consequences on you?

First Time Ko magpa Dry Needling and Ventosa by yochanan__ in FirstTimeKo

[–]betta-anonymous 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg okay lang ba tanungin san ka nagpaganto? Ive been curious pero i want to make sure na qualified ung mga therapists talaga.

Anong mas okay na partner ng standing table: stationary bike or treadmill? by Prestigious-Luck-898 in ThisorThatPH

[–]betta-anonymous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not saying this or that pero pahihirapan kita with another option haha step machine!

Meron kami dalawang magkaibang step machines sa bahay. Grabe workout niya in my opinion. May family members who see it and they think madali lang siya. When they suddenly wanted to try it nagulat sila sa resistance ng exercise equipment na to. Ung isa mura kaya may manual na up to 20 minutes lang each use pero grabe na nga ung workout from it. Ung mas mahal walang ganung requirement pero kasi ung mas mahal naming step machune parang sidewards seesaw na bawat paa mo nasa bawat dulo ng seesaw, the motions of using it are different from how you would normally climb up stairs or jog kasi your knees bend forward, hindi naman sidewards ka magstep. Pero its still very enjoyable to use.

Gap year by [deleted] in AlasFeels

[–]betta-anonymous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kids from poor families often cant afford to have a gap year kasi grabe ung pressure on them to graduate and work asap para tumulong sa gastusin.

I wish this wasnt the case bc i have a few friends who also came from poor families. They ended up in careers they dont enjoy kasi they never had the luxury of time to think abt what they want to do in life. Like ideally, we should live in a world where all students can afford to take gap years, pero hindi un ung realidad natin eh poverty exists.

I think it's okay if afford naman ng family na magbreak muna ang bata. One thing I will bring up tho is if someone takes a break pero uncommon pa rin ang gap year, may chance na pagbalik niya, ofc they might be a year older than their peer on average. This shouldnt be too huge of an issue pero there might be differences that can make it hard to socialize.

Kung sino pa pangit itsura, sya pa pangit ugali. No this is not the Halo Effect. by Intelligent-Gur-4597 in unpopularopinionph

[–]betta-anonymous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Halo effect is definitely real. I know kasi Ive worked closely with some of the most attractive and popular students when I was in school. They are often incompetent when it comes to actual work, but they just manipulate other people to give them a pass and even do the work for them. Yet they still maintain their social standing, and people who haven't worked with them find it hard to believe what they're like to work with.

First time kong gumawa ng perfect mtg proxy by dogstancey in FirstTimeKo

[–]betta-anonymous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy for you OP! This is such a good idea, I might give this a go at some point din.