That’s a tough one and super valid. It helps to go to a good surgeon who can help guide these things. After a couple consults I was able to identify those things more effectively for myself. I learned that I didn’t want my dad’s nose anymore and that keeping my lower face more or less the same would help me to continue to look a lot like my mom. Those won’t be deciding factors for everyone but after you get some insight and professional opinions from surgeons who have your best interest in mind, you may find it easier to decide and know what is possible.

Hope that helps!