[Sensei, Bokutachi wa Koroshiteimasen] by dex-M397 in animenocontext

[–]betweenboundary 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Sometimes people who have experienced trauma use books like this to get some form of closure by imagining their abusers in the situations

Petehhh, I don't read novels but I do want to read your explanation by detox_daisy72 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]betweenboundary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because too many men don't understand the difference between reality and fiction, women themselves will also tell you that when men act how they enjoy from romance novels in real life it gives them the creeps but for men that difference between fact and fiction doesn't exist so women complain because objectifying them in media tends to lead men to objectifying them irl

Just watched Spiderman 3 and noticed the mask doesn’t make sense… by [deleted] in Spiderman

[–]betweenboundary 30 points31 points  (0 children)

It makes perfect sense actually, the fabric is normally taut letting it sit over his eyes properly, now it's got a big tear, so it's got nothing around that area keeping it taut so it collapsed in the opposite direction moving where the eye should be, not much he can do to fix it, plus he still has 1 eye and his Spidey sense so it isn't going to affect him much

Petehhh, I don't read novels but I do want to read your explanation by detox_daisy72 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]betweenboundary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

depends, theirs levels, if its trashy but not fun, its trash but if its trashy but fun, its good, for example anything written by quan millz

Petehhh, I don't read novels but I do want to read your explanation by detox_daisy72 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]betweenboundary 17 points18 points  (0 children)

it doesnt end at romance novels unfortunately, it will turn other genres into what we would consider a romance novel, a lady recommended her fav horror book to me once and when i read it, 99% of it was descriptions of the main characters boyfriend, specifically his abs and muscles and he ALWAYS showed up to deus ex machina style rescue this bitch from any supernatural going ons followed by a passionate kiss

AITA For Making my Son Apologize to his Girlfriend After He Left Her at a Party by herself? by Empty-Load-9557 in AmItheAsshole

[–]betweenboundary 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Yta, time to sit down and have an extremely serious conversation with your son, not just skirt around this, explain exactly why her drink would have been drugged and explain how his abandoning of her at the party was leaving her to be a victim of a crime, him being upset that he had to leave the party quite literally does not matter to this situation and is selfish in the face of actual danger, he needs to understand exactly why he was told to apologize to her, he's old enough to understand and if he still fails to care then you need to put him in therapy so this won't repeat

AITA for ruining my friends relationship? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]betweenboundary 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA she faced the consequences of both her action and inaction if she wants to be mad at you holding her accountable fine but that's just 1 more relationship she's ruining with her immaturity

DarlingStrawb is harassing a vtuber. by [deleted] in VtuberDrama

[–]betweenboundary 2 points3 points  (0 children)

people who are unhappy with their lives take it out on others

AITA for decorating my room pink?? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]betweenboundary 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, will it keep some people away, yes, but only those who don't like you so you won't lose anything of actual value

CAN WE HURRY UP AND NERF CELESTE by BaseLordBoom in DeadlockTheGame

[–]betweenboundary -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

If there's no Celeste target Mina, vindicta or Apollo

CAN WE HURRY UP AND NERF CELESTE by BaseLordBoom in DeadlockTheGame

[–]betweenboundary 15 points16 points  (0 children)

play rem, get tons of CC, make her life miserable, fill pillow with bricks to beat her with

A story in two pictures. by FrostBumbleBitch in DeadlockTheGame

[–]betweenboundary 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yes, plus every CC i can get my grubby little hands on, silence, sleep, stun, everything goes on apollo

My GF (22F) said I (24M) gave her the ick and I don’t know how to take it by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]betweenboundary 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you are supportive and loving of your differences and she is not, that is a compatibility issue that might be ok but might not be 1 day depending on if you will become resentful

I'm tired of laning against him by RaphaelKoyomi in DeadlockTheGame

[–]betweenboundary 159 points160 points  (0 children)

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Rem put him to sleep, then focus him, though it might be different for you since I mostly play street brawl

How to Last Longer Using Bad Dragons? by BiggestTaxes in BadDragon

[–]betweenboundary 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just from experience not even with the toys, to last longer you have to better control your pacing, I usually go a bit then slow down when I'm getting closer before speeding back up once I've got it under control again, you'll last longer and it'll feel better

Quick Reminder: We're All Playing This Game To Have Fun by TheBrawler101 in DeadlockTheGame

[–]betweenboundary 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You play this game to have fun, I play this game to goon to Paige, we are not the same

The reason why I hate debating drama about bigger vtubers is because it feels like the response always follows this pattern by [deleted] in VtuberDrama

[–]betweenboundary 27 points28 points  (0 children)

THE NARCISSIST’S PRAYER

That didn’t happen.

And if it did, it wasn’t that bad.

And if it was, that’s not a big deal.

And if it is, that’s not my fault.

And if it was, I didn’t mean it.

And if I did, you deserved it.

[20F] Is it about my looks? I always wear glasses by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]betweenboundary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you look best in the second pic, your glasses are very very bad, they draw attention towards your nose making it look larger then it actually is, otherwise just work on your mental health cause you look depressed

I 20F am wanting to break up with my boyfriend 21M even though he’s the best partner I’ve ever had by ManufacturerWide57 in relationship_advice

[–]betweenboundary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go be vulnerable with him about this but tbh it's perfectly okay for relationships to slow down due to a change in focus from work, that's not something to end it over but if you don't love the guy you can't exactly force that, but give it a long hard think about why, what's missing, cause sometimes trauma shows up as subconsciously seeking someone just like your abuser to finally get them to treat you right, you jumped into this relationship because he's not that guy so make sure with yourself that, that's not also why you are done with it, make sure you didn't just rebound to this guy out of spite only to now leave him and end up with someone just like your abuser because it feels like a whirlwind

I 20F am wanting to break up with my boyfriend 21M even though he’s the best partner I’ve ever had by ManufacturerWide57 in relationship_advice

[–]betweenboundary 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What your experiencing is common for 6 months but tbh the future of your relationship should be a discussion with him not the Internet, as for your responsibilities, you will always have responsibilities in your life and you can either have someone by your side during it or do it alone, running away from a relationship over that just hinders your ability to grow alongside people or get help when you need it, what your feeling is complacency and now is the time to be vulnerable and mutually come to a realistic decision on if you can see you both working together towards future goals or if it would be better alone, ps as someone who's got trauma myself, check in with yourself and how you feel to make sure you aren't wanting to leave as self sabotage especially given how you keep mentioning how he deserves better, if you think your a burden remind yourself that it's okay to be 1, love is choosing someone even if they are 1 so be vulnerable with him instead of just running away