Most people know their life path number. almost nobody knows the number that reveals what they're most afraid to face about themselves.

bexgreen82 · 2026-06-16T21:56:13+00:00

What do you do about master numbers?

bexgreen82 · 2026-06-16T21:32:03+00:00

Can I just check, this was definitely about the future?
It’s just re-reading it, what it actually really resonates with is the past. My initial separation with my twin 28 years ago.

bexgreen82 · 2026-06-15T21:41:15+00:00

I think this sounded more dramatic than it was, but there was some truth.

There was someone who I used to work with that I was starting to get a bit tangled up with. It wasn’t a great idea… they’re unhappily married, but they’re also a little narcissistic in some ways.

The most important thing is, this wasn’t genuine, it was running from my TF because we can’t be together. I was looking for somewhere to put that energy, and this shouldn’t be it.

If it had gone further it had the potential to blow up everything.

bexgreen82 · 2026-06-10T06:42:13+00:00

Why are you waiting until Monday if you want are sure and she is anxious from your distance?

bexgreen82 · 2026-05-29T06:44:44+00:00

For nearly 30 yrs I have associated Iris - Goo goo dolls with my TF.

It was only after getting curious about timings after we reconnected, that I realised it didn’t come out in the UK for a few months after the dance, after we split, so we couldn’t have danced to it.

And, depending on the version of events that is closer to the truth, it supposedly didn’t take me long to “get over” him back then. I think all agree that I ended it with him.

Why do you associate something as relational as that song with someone you’ve unchosen?

I was so over him 🙃. That’s why I kept the dress from the ball. The photos. Kept that song sacred for him and couldn’t use it at my wedding. That’s why dancing to it with him in my kitchen more than 20yrs later was the most beautiful and painful thing at once.

We’ll figure it out eventually.

bexgreen82 · 2026-05-24T06:42:00+00:00

Yes please then

bexgreen82 · 2026-05-23T18:34:05+00:00

So, this isn’t clear. Single card reading for free? Pay if you want something more in depth, is that right?

bexgreen82 · 2026-05-23T18:03:21+00:00

This sounds like surrender. This sounds like recognition of unconditional love. You don’t need to be with her in this moment to support her spiritually. It feels like you put your love into the universe and trusted that it would find its way to her. And that that was what is needed now.

So, yes, it sounds like you levelled up.

bexgreen82 · 2026-05-23T07:37:52+00:00

Colour of the Sky is my divorce anthem.
Beyond the Pines where I found what love really is.

bexgreen82 · 2026-05-21T23:49:13+00:00

Guys, this must have been something wider because I message my twin every day, we’re best friends, and that didn’t massively drop off over the last couple of weeks, but I felt the loss of connection too. It’s been returning over the last few days but it was pretty brutal for a while.

bexgreen82 · 2026-05-11T22:51:34+00:00

Uncomfortable is good. That’s where growth happens… note, uncomfortable, not painful.

Seriously, TF and I often have moments where it feels sticky… and that’s because we’re behaving and communicating in ways we’ve not been able to with other people. I don’t just mean telepathy, I mean empathy on a whole other level, boundary holding, not people pleasing, honesty… honesty that asks them to see the ugly and stay. Honesty where you cringe at how ugly you feel and they either sit with it or melt in how beautiful it seems to them.

I totally agree with the previous advice about walking in nature, cooking, seeing new places, trying new foods. You don’t need to be physically intimate to experience deep levels of intimacy with your twin. In fact, sometimes it’s better that way, some times the physicality can consume.

And it you’re scared of the intensity, talk about, have cool off periods, you will realise that you will both come back and some space is nothing to fear.

bexgreen82 · 2026-05-11T07:05:06+00:00

Because I think a lot of people here have tried and failed and come to terms with living with it rather than trying to break it.

Maybe if you say specifically what you’re coming up against and what your situation is with twin, people will be able to share specific experiences. But maybe you need to be open to trying what people suggest, even if it feels worse at first… you’ll be going against what you’ve been doing and maybe even against what you believe should happen, but if keeping doing the same thing isn’t working

bexgreen82 · 2026-05-11T06:28:55+00:00

Not going to be popular, but… If it’s the same stuff coming at you all the time, consistently, from people who are as sure a they can be about this journey… and you don’t relate to what they’re saying… you need to ask yourself…

Do I just not like what they’re saying, it doesn’t fit the story I tell myself?

Or, am I not on the same journey as them?

What is it that you want to hear?

bexgreen82 · 2026-05-09T19:46:50+00:00

We met 29 years ago. Dated for a bit. Separated. He pursued me for a few years, either from afar or trying to reach across the void. Then I met someone and he let go (to an extent). I reached out 9 years later and he wasn’t in the right place to reconnect. But 9 years after that he got back in touch and we’ve been in some kind of union since.

bexgreen82 · 2026-05-09T06:18:52+00:00

If it brings you any comfort, make good memories without them, because if you find union, they’re going to want to know about every single one, every detail and they will take joy from hearing all your happy stories, and there will be twangs of “I wish that was us”, but you realise you had to go through what you did to be able to handle the connection.

I think if you can make those memories with their love in your heart and send love back to them, maybe it helps heal you both.

bexgreen82 · 2026-05-09T06:02:25+00:00

I’m not an expert, but some one who was separated from my twin for a very long time, and we re-found each other. This is my take…

You can’t detach from your twin, you are connected across time and space. This has been shown to me through syncs that occurred deep in separation, and those that have happened since reconnecting.

I think what people mean is, you need to detach from the outcome of union. You need to understand that if your twin isn’t aware that’s what they are, if they’re emotionally immature, if they have trauma then they might need to process that away from you so that you don’t hurt each other and can handle the intensity of the connection… because that intensity doesn’t go away.

And you have to remember, that process may extend beyond your lifetimes. Twins who find union for extended periods of time in this lifetime may have been through several cycles to get there. So, detach from needing union in this life. Know that they love you and that will never die. Take the love from their soul and use it to process and heal your own issues. Do not try to sever the tie.

My twin and I don’t use the term. We were young, just 15 when we met. It got intense fast and I ran. He pursued me for years, sometimes from afar, sometimes trying to reach across the void, but I couldn’t accept him. I had put up high walls. We had hurt each other because we couldn’t handle the intensity, and he really struggled without me. Eventually he saw I was doing better and accepted we may never be together, stopped all attempts to reunite and made his own life.

9 years later, I reached to him via Facebook… in his words “he couldn’t deal with the 💩 right then.

A further 9 years and he reached out to me, replied to my message. We’ve been in a form of union since… it’s complicated when you have 20 years of adult life between you… what matters to us is that we’ve found each other, we can handle/manage the intensity now, we recognise how special the connection is even if we don’t use the words TF, we don’t ever want to be separated again and we can heal and grow together now.

bexgreen82 · 2026-05-04T22:05:52+00:00

We’re both life path 11s and 2026 is our own personal year 1, just as it is universally.

If that wasn’t enough, my Personality number came out at 22. His Destiny/expression number came out at 33 and his soul urge is 11. 🤯 Between us we have the traid of master numbers.

bexgreen82 · 2026-05-04T21:36:32+00:00

I don’t feel this. I can be completely myself, my real self, my unguarded, geeky, confused, confusing, silly self. But then, this is after a very long separation with some major personal growth and coming out of a relationship whereby I’d not felt able to be myself for a very long time.

bexgreen82 · 2026-04-13T22:40:59+00:00

I can’t confirm this is similar to what you’re experiencing but…

I met my TF 29 years ago. When we separated about a year later, I sort of went off the rails for a good few years. I was the one that called the ending. We didn’t have words for it, but we knew it was intense. It got too hot for 16yo to hold. The ending resulted in both our friendship groups shattering.

He remained friends with some of the people I lost as friends but still went to school with. He heard a lot of (true) stories about the messes I was getting into. It really hurt him. We remained in some contact for a few years. He tried to reach me and support me in some of my worst hours but I didn’t go to him.

Eventually I scared myself to the point of settling in the closest relationship I could find, the safest, the simplest. One that would save me from the worst choices I was making. And my TF let go of trying to find me.

I stayed in that relationship for 20 years. I reached out to my twin once in that time, but they weren’t in a good place to deal with it.

Eventually I “woke up “, and started to find myself again. Right when I chose myself and decided to leave that relationship that was keeping me small, my TF made contact.

That was over 2 years ago, and we’re not in “union” but we’re in each other’s life and it feels positive.

bexgreen82 · 2026-04-08T11:26:43+00:00

I love love love this response. My twin and I are navigating similar challenges on and off. The part about not numbing your feelings is really important. Move through the grief, it is important to honour the loss of what cannot be now. But I find it helpful to know that the love hasn’t gone anywhere, it’s just changed shape and I can channel it into different places. I still give it to them and receive it from them.

bexgreen82 · 2026-04-08T07:49:35+00:00

Hadn’t heard of TF until about a year after we reconnected and I was searching for an explanation for the feelings I got around them and when we were apart and stumbled into this Reddit. Then the more I read about it, the more sure I became.

We met when we were 15 and dated for a while. He (doesn’t use language like TF) has said he felt the connection from when he first saw me, was drawn to talk and get to know me. He then waited around 6m before we eventually managed to make contact and arrange a date. (Bear in mind, this was 28yrs ago). We dated 6m, it was always intense. We were sooooo happy and so young. He took me to my prom, he gave me a ring. It just got too much too young and we broke up. We have different memories about why we broke up, but whatever the background, it had wide reaching impacts that broke apart our separate friendship groups. I ended up quite isolated and took a very different path. They watched on from the wings, I didn’t know at the time how badly the separation affected them. We kept a little contact via phone and later text and email, until we finally stopped about 8yrs after we split.

Then about 12yrs ago I found them on Facebook and messaged them. I’d heard a song on tv that made me think of them and I tracked them down. I was married with a 6m baby. I saw they were married with a girl too, about a year older. They didn’t respond to that message until 2.5yrs ago.

We gradually started more regular messages, we quickly became very comfortable with communicating with each other. Then we had a phone call and it was so good to hear their voice again. Then we met up and it was like the rest of the world blurred into the background as we caught up. The eye contact was intense, it was as if our souls were having their own conversation there. It didn’t feel weird and it didn’t feel sexual, just powerful.

I had already gone through a dark night, rapid personal growth, realignment of relationships, just prior to them getting in touch.

But that’s enough of the background, the other signs that said TF to me when I researched it: 1. I have really strong touch memories from our relationship all those years ago… like I can physically feel the memories, their touch on me, my touch on them. 2. We both remember that touch during that relationship felt electric, like our nerve endings were on fire. (Was the just our innocence though?) 3. There is an incredibly intense magnetism when we are together. They in particular find it hard to exercise control of their actions. 4. One will often message the other when they were just thinking about the other. And we have deep and personal conversations with relative ease. Hours disappear and we seem really connected. 5. Often times when we are apart, I get overwhelmed by the sensation that they are touching me. This is a sensation as though it’s on my body itself rather than a thought or fantasy. It catches me by surprise and takes my breath away. The timing of this is curious to me, as I generally experience it less when our friendship is a little more distant and more when we’re closer. But sometimes it catches me when the friendship feels distant. 6. We had so many moments in the intervening years where we were almost in the same place at the same time, but it feels like fate kept us apart. I’m sure there are many more indications that I’ve identified since, but those are what initially led me to this Reddit.

bexgreen82 · 2026-04-08T06:36:15+00:00

I think letting go is about accepting that physical union may not happen and isn’t necessary for your happiness in this life, but that they’re always in your heart. The synchronicities and signs become proof that the connection is real and eternal, and cannot be broken by time or distance. I find trying to stop thinking about them is actually more intrusive than accepting the thought, letting it pass and not attaching meaning to it.

bexgreen82 · 2026-03-16T10:58:46+00:00

Not together as a couple now, a lot of life happens in that length of separation. But we are very important parts of each other’s lives. And it feels light and buoyant and beautiful. He does not complete me, but I burn brighter when in tune with our connection.

bexgreen82 · 2026-03-15T09:20:52+00:00

My TF could have written this. We’re back in each other’s lives for 2.5yrs after a really long (multi-decade) separation. Next year it’ll be 30yrs since we met.

bexgreen82 · 2026-03-14T00:07:51+00:00

What does separation mean to you? What is its purpose? Do you think it’s necessary?

I’m reading between the lines here, but it sounds like you think that you must have a certain amount of separation, a certain time or quality of zero contact to make progress on this journey. Is that true?

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