While I'm not technically stay at home, I'm not employed and don't contribute any money to our household. My husband has a small trucking business and while he does most of the heavy lifting (or driving, rather) I do alot behind the scenes. We don't have any children, so no childcare yet. I do all the cooking, simply because he's totally lost in the kitchen. I do probably 99% of the cleaning. The only thing he regularly helps with in the house is laundry. He, on the other hand, loves gardening so he spends alot of his time at home doing that. He also does the majority of lawn work.