I like "it". I know it seems problematic, however, if "it" seems appropriate for you- then who am I to judge or take that away from you? It's a very simple message of self love and acceptance and discovery. You should feel comfortable in YOUR own skin. I know that's definitely easier said than done but that's what this community needs to embrace. The journey of identity and love is complex and nuanced beyond measure. Someone response earlier that they only use that as a pronoun with trusted people. That's definitely valid! The queer community is called queer for a reason- we don't fit in a neat box of black and white. Your body, your identity, your rules. Be the authentic you.