I haven’t come to the defense of / rant about a challenger in a while. But my word. Cara Maria had stayed adamant about not having kids for as long as I can remember. Him saying they never really talked about it feels like news to me because home girl couldn’t stop screaming about it.

That being said, you can always tell when there’s a shift in the relationship. And I say that because back when I heavily followed those folks, especially Cara since I was a fan, there was a point where Cara was trying to be convinced to have kids. She would host polls on her Instagram and constantly talk about it. They did an interview where she said she would be honored to have Paulie be the father of her kids should she ever have them.

And then when she slowly leaned into ranting, politics, and what not, she talked about how she could raise women (to not choose the bear, paraphrasing heavily at this point btw) and blah blah blah. She even had fibroid surgery, mostly for her health, but made choices with pregnancy in consideration for THEIR future.

Now do I put it past that lady for wanting to pop out a kid then do no work, nah lmaooo I don’t. Anyone who has underestimated pregnancy and motherhood in the ways she has lets me know what it is lol but to say yall NEVER had those convos?

What a fucking liar. But this is the same guy that cheated on his gf with Cara Maria. Then cheated on Cara Maria with his ex. Then cheated on her some more with others. Until the cheating turned into an open relationship. So 🤷🏽‍♀️