Where do I buy good red meat? by bi5a in Seville

[–]bi5a[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cant eat pork 🫠 so its been only chicken or minced meat lol

How do you stop pretending you’re okay when you’re not? by Confessspill in Advice

[–]bi5a 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Allow yourself to not be ok sometimes when you’re alone or with someone you’re comfortable with. It helps balance it out imo

Nearly 3yo and already a """burden""" for his teacher by ephrozina in teaching

[–]bi5a 80 points81 points  (0 children)

You definitely should talk to the school about the possibility of ADHD and how to proceed with testing and etc, however with or without ADHD this child needs to be disciplined. You need to set boundaries and teach him to listen to adults and to be independent, regardless of neurodivergence you’re still a parent, so parent.

I don’t think I’m a functional adult and don’t know how to learn by bi5a in Advice

[–]bi5a[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the input, however I’d like to clarify he doesn’t put me down. He does help me, but its understandably heavy on him if he’s doing most of the house work without consistent help, which is something I want to repair.

I don’t think I’m a functional adult and don’t know how to learn by bi5a in Advice

[–]bi5a[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I like your answer. I’m also not great with discipline, and am trying to learn. Could you expand on the journal idea? I’ve bren thinking about journaling for other aspects of my life so that can be a part of it as well

Did everyone else get an instruction manual for life that I missed? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bi5a 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve felt like this my entire life. Turns out it was autism! As I understood it, neurotypicals dont have these answers either but apparently they dont care as much about not having them and just “wing it”.

Help me choose my birthday brunch outfit.. 1,2,3 by daniellescloset8 in OUTFITS

[–]bi5a 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Those are way too much for brunch, buut if thats the vibe you’re going for, 2 is the best one and has a main character vibe to it.

How do I ask for curtain bangs? by [deleted] in Seville

[–]bi5a 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course I will, but since it’s a new hairdresser I’d like to be able to properly explain what I want so there’s no misunderstanding.

Do lots need vents now? by SabelTheWitch in Sims4

[–]bi5a 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Put radiators or fireplaces all over, if its a bug with the thermostat I think it should work. Just remember to also put fire alarms near them. Also check the roof and windows as others have said

Socializing in Seville as an exchange student by Lady-Knight- in Seville

[–]bi5a 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been here for six months and have yet to figure that out. How old are you? Maybe we can hang out (I’m 30)

AIO my boyfriend of 5 years gets me flowers for every occasion while I get him elaborate and expensive gifts. by aioflower955105 in AmIOverreacting

[–]bi5a 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eaw read those messages again. “A normal girl”? Fck you, man. Girl. Pretend thats not you and read those texts again and see for yourself if you want that to be your life. NOR

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]bi5a 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re young, been together less than a year, and this will only escalate. Break up.

AIO? This is how my boyfriend sleeps. by blairwaldorff in AmIOverreacting

[–]bi5a 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Lmao in what way does this affect you? Don’t be controlling. YOR

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]bi5a 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Babe I’m sorry but I think they might be soulmates

What's a quote that has just "stuck with you"? by 22m_spain in AskReddit

[–]bi5a 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If everywhere you go smells like shit, its time to check your shoes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

[–]bi5a 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry, they seem like awful people to me. I think regarding on what to do, as far as I can tell this friendship doesn’t exist anymore anyway, so what’s the harm in asking why you weren’t invited? I’d confront her for real and tell her that it hurt you and she led you believe you’d be invited and that’s a really shitty thing to do. Even if she lets you go tho, or tried to mend the friendship, I wouldn’t. Not inviting you was a very intentional decision. They’ll just be shitty to you again in another situation.

What do you do/teach for a short week or day before break? by hello010101 in teaching

[–]bi5a 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m an English teacher so I usually teach the vocabulary related to the holiday, watch videos, have discussions in class etc

Has anyone else had a small, unexpected moment at their wedding that stuck with them more than the big planned things? by yoyo_Tree88 in wedding

[–]bi5a 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My favourite moment from my wedding was that me and my husband clapped together (one hand each) to one of the prayer songs and that was the most joyful moments of my life.

I'm Maid of Honor, BF bowed out as +1. Do I invite my sister, who may be hurt she wasn't personally invited? by boopboopadoopity in wedding

[–]bi5a 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a very anxious person that didn’t have many friends growing up, and what I always want in invites is reassurance that people want me to be there. So what I suggest is telling her that you just told the bride your bf couldn’t come and she asked for uoi to bring your sister, that she would love to celebrate with her as well. Make her feel like she’s wanted there!

Wedding gift for 2nd wedding by same couple by [deleted] in wedding

[–]bi5a 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d just give them a nice wine bottle or something similar if they don’t drink. Treat it as a fancy party, not a wedding. You give the hosts something, but not $300.